Meeting someone, their lives becoming busier for whatever reason, just becoming a little jaded? Don't forget.... everything has its shelf-life, nothing is forever. Some just take a break and come back and its always good to see them return.....
Of course, for some, it may not live up to their expectations. Its all too easy to have unrealistic expectations, is it not? In my view, CS is the best site around by far and those that have stayed for any length of time are clearly testament to that?
CS has given me the opportunity to inter-act with people from all walks of life, all over the world. I have made some fabulous friends whom I still keep in touch with OFF-site..... AND.... its FREE!! What more do you want?
I guess we do to an extent but its not all that's needed, Rusty, as you know.
I am tolerant of most things, indeed..... just not idiocy. Sorry... I have a real problem with imbeciles!! I HAVE tried, truly, but.... no, I don't suffer fools gladly.
Yes, I have been told that I drive like a man!! I don't think it was meant that I drive badly, but more in the sense that I am not a frilly girlie type driver??
Mind you, my last boyfriend, whilst I was driving once, complimented me that I was a good driver......
I was so surprised at this, I immediately hit the kerb!!!
Whilst I am not a particularly religious person, I cannot let religion take all the blame on this one.
I believe you can "... directly attribute it to..."..... human nature?! Let's face it, mankind being what it is, if the excuse wasn't religion, it'd be something else, wouldn't it?
AND..... there would always be a way to justify it, for those that are so inclined, yeah?
Look.... I know its a fine line, and all too difficult to get that balance. It may seem as though I want it both ways....
I don't want to be rushed but then I am conscious of him being on-line....
I really like him and would like us to spend more time together. That doesn't mean I want to start planning to move in with him or anything JUST YET (in the future, who knows?). He is the one that seems really keen (also seeking "long term") and yet was on-line (not very flattering?)..... I don't want to end up with a Player YET AGAIN!!
Mike.... I didn't tell him I didn't want to rush things, that's just how I felt. I have had my share of Players, you see....... all very plausible!! What I get is..... I would never have known he was there when I was leaving my message...... he didn't have to dive on the 'phone? Good sign or not?
He has asked to see me again.... yeah, I know!! He mustn't have had his contacts in.... and all that??!!
He's making all these plans and decided that our next date was too far away and wanted to see me sooner (good sign, I guess?). We have chatted for hours several times on the 'phone. The last call, his voicemail kicked in, I was in the middle of leaving a message and he quickly jumped on the 'phone when he heard it was me....
We have arranged a sooner meeting and he seems quite keen. In fact, I would say he is going quicker than me (and calls me cute names).... I'm not sure I want to be rushed into anything too soon.
I met him via another site and, although I have noticed he is online a lot less than he was.... he was online, albeit briefly, tonight! I am under no illusions that men like to keep their options open and I don't believe we are at the stage to declare "exclusivity" just yet, but....
I am trying not to analyse too much, of course, but. I am mindful of past Players, should I think I am being taken for a ride?
A male perspective would be most helpful, without doubt...... but welcome all viewpoints.
RE: Why do people loss interest in CS forums?
It could be a whole gamut of reasons, from.....Meeting someone, their lives becoming busier for whatever reason, just becoming a little jaded? Don't forget.... everything has its shelf-life, nothing is forever. Some just take a break and come back and its always good to see them return.....
Of course, for some, it may not live up to their expectations. Its all too easy to have unrealistic expectations, is it not? In my view, CS is the best site around by far and those that have stayed for any length of time are clearly testament to that?
CS has given me the opportunity to inter-act with people from all walks of life, all over the world. I have made some fabulous friends whom I still keep in touch with OFF-site..... AND.... its FREE!! What more do you want?