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RE: I Need a Man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only the dirty ones? ............. but oi'm a good girl oi am!!!

RE: I Need a Man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ha ha DF - you are so funny sometimes!! The very thought! Where would the bow be??!! The mind boggles!!!

RE: I Need a Man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks Starshine! If nothing else, we'll have a few laughs... Seem to have the same sense of humour!

RE: What being brutally honest means to you?

Hi Laura! Nice thread...

RE: I Need a Man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd like one too! Trouble is, I suspect that since Santa starts at the North Pole, by the time he gets here, all the good ones will be taken!!!! Ah well, I have a date for tomorrow evening with a certain Scotsman from a local dating site, so we'll see... He SOUNDS good!

RE: What being brutally honest means to you?

I agree with most on here that being brutally honest in its truest definition i.e. answering a question or giving your opinion on a subject with no frills or pleasantries in a straight forward way, can be extremely hurtful. Most of us have social filters that stop us from saying EXACTLY what we think, because we are aware that it might hurt the other person. There are unfortunately some people who get off on hurting other people or who enjoy making their point no matter what the cost. Sometimes though, having a friend or colleague who is brutally honest with you may be just what you need as an impetus to change...

RE: REMEMBER

Hello Rev WW. Forgive my ignorance, but what is the chanter?

RE: REMEMBER

Yes it is beautiful.

RE: friends?

You gals are so lucky! I want some too..... It's a funny thing. I don't know if this is the case for all women, but I used to have male friends when I was young and single, but somehow, when I got married, they all kind of fell away. I suppose it was partly because I left SA to live in California, but I think it is also sometimes difficult for a married woman to maintain male friendships unless her husband is very secure in the relationship and comfortable with her having male friends. In my experience, not that many men are but perhaps I'm totally off track?? Hmmmm. Methinks a thread/poll is coming up!!!!

RE: who is going to win rugby world cup???

Probably not SS! But we'll keep hoping.... They might pull off a miracle!

RE: The dating game!

I check my messages when I first log in, and then forget about them while I am busy in the forums. I usually check them again just before I log out. Sorry if it offends anyone, but honestly.... that is the problem with our society. Because technology is so instant, we expect instant answers from text messages, emails, etc. Sometimes even if I read an email I don't FEEL like answering it immediately. I feel like taking a bit of time to think about it before answering! It's become a bit crazy really...

RE: REMEMBER

The cost of war is so great and the ripple effect enormous. It makes me sad to think of all those brave and probably frightened young men losing their lives. I pray that my boys will never have to fight in a war.

RE: who is going to win rugby world cup???

We live in hope!!!! Go Bokke!!!!

RE: who is going to win rugby world cup???

It would be nice indeed, but it will need a miracle! They aren't playing very well at the moment. I was thinking perhaps another little chat with our Madiba might do the trick (a la the movie Invictus?)... We only JUST beat Ireland last week!

RE: serious or Cheeky?

Yes I agree. I would be a bit taken aback if he said that to me... Sorry, but would prefer the former response. When I'm feeling more secure in the relationship, by all means... do the cheeky thing!

RE: would you date your son teacher if he single lol

I don't think so! Certainly that is the norm here. At the beginning of the year, our kids' class teachers provide us with their email addresses, and we have a class list with all the parents' contact details. I wouldn't read too much into it. I would also be reluctant to get involved with a teacher at my sons' school because I wouldn't want to be the object of gossip and speculation (of both parents and teachers). It could also be really awkward for my kids if it didn't work out. Some things are just best left alone!

RE: What's YOUR PURPOSE BEING IN CS?

I am thanks... Just a bit upset. I'll post a thread on it when I have more info... Sorry about your cold!

RE: What's YOUR PURPOSE BEING IN CS?

Yes me too!

RE: What's YOUR PURPOSE BEING IN CS?

Ha ha.... Hotel California!

RE: What's YOUR PURPOSE BEING IN CS?

Hey Ken! Are you still on holiday or back home now?

RE: If you were on a Wanted Posted what would it be for???

making nookie in a public place..... (FAR too long ago so I think the statute of limitations would've come into effect).....

not wearing my seatbelt while on holiday in Australia and then not paying the fine!

taking wooden artifacts into Australia for my sister's art gallery and concealing them in my luggage.... eeeeeeek got caught of course!

RE: Applications for the Mrs Wabbet position are now open

HA - Let's not go there wabbet...

Iro the application - I can play the guitar and sing. Perhaps I can learn this song and it could be our mantra:


I can also do hypnotherapy, so I could put you in a trance and.............. well do whatever I wanted to with your sleepy wabbet body! I can cook wuvly carrot and cabbage dishes. I can show you sneaky ways to get into Mr McGregor's garden to steal his delicious yummy veggies...

RE: Applications for the Mrs Wabbet position are now open

Well, we'd also argue about who to support in wugby....

RE: Applications for the Mrs Wabbet position are now open

Ello methinks.... How are things with you? We're into the rainy season with very hot weather in between! Time for beddy byes but just wanted to say hi!

Sorry Mr Wabbet. I think you are a wuvly and funny wabbet, buuuuuuut not even I could burrow THAT far so I shall have to bow out gracefully....

RE: Dating someone who is Religious..

Excellent post. I absolutely agree. It will take a whole lot of compromise and it could be a tricky road ahead. If you think she's worth it, then by all means go for it. But, if you feel like you're the one doing most of the compromising, then I would put it down to experience and move on....

RE: Thank you...Jackie,June,Gem And CS

It's nice to have you back DF! I wondered where you'd disappeared to......

RE: Lonely and disappointed

True! The old saying about not putting all your eggs in one basket definitely applies to online dating!!! Quite honestly, the forums are what keep me here....

RE: Who will be getting laid tonight?

Yes tis true! .... makes me think of that wonderful tango scene in "The Scent of a Woman" with Al Pacino. Such a sensual dance....

RE: Would You Kiss

....and I like motorbikes. But seems I'll have to do some hypnotherapy on you iro the smoking!!!


At the sound of my voice you are feeling sleepy...... your limbs are beginning to feel heavy........

RE: Would You Kiss

Wow, I am really getting lucky tonight!!!! A yummy biker too.....