Making use of site features is fun and will get you listed on more site pages and bring more views and attention to your profile. The more you participate and use the site features, the more other members will get to know you. Familiarity makes people comfortable with you, and can create chemistry. Why not try one or more of the following:
Most members search by photo-only... don't you? Profiles with photos are shown on more site pages, giving your profile more chances to be seen.
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Adding a blog to your profile will get your profile listed on the Blogspage where more people will see it. If you write about something someone else is interested in, or state an opinion that someone else agrees with, this will encourage them to write to you.
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If you watch videos on Youtube, and find a good one, why not share it with other CS members? Your profile will be listed on the Videospage and will give members a chance to get to know you. If you have made a video of your own... even better! Share your band or music. There will be a link to your video from your profile.
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Want to know what the majority of CS members think about a certain issue? Then post a poll. Your profile will be listed on the Pollspage giving it more chances to be seen.
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You can give your profile tags (or keywords) to help you find members who share a common interest and to help them find you. (examples: dancing, flea markets, wine tasting, biking, reading, etc.). Your tags will be listed on the Tagspage and the tag will link to your profile, giving your profile more chances to be seen.
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Find a group on the Groupspage that interests you and join it to meet others with like interests. Or start a new one. Joining a group will give your profile more chances to be seen.
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Adding music to your profile will get you listed on the Musicpage and will get more views to your profile. Talking about a favorite band or CD is a good 'ice breaker'... a good way to start a conversation. To add music, either find music you like on the Musicpage and click the "add this CD to my profile" button, or if the CD you like is not already on the site then you can add it.
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Adding your favorite movies to your profile will get you listed on the Moviespage and will get more views to your profile and may prompt comments from members who have seen the movie. To add movies, either find movies you like on the Moviespage and click the "add this Movie to my profile" button, or if the Movie you like is not already on the site then you can add one.
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What's on your bookshelf? Adding a favorite book to your profile will get you listed on the Bookspage and will get more views to your profile. What you like to read shows something about you and may attract others with similar tastes. To add books, either find books you like on the Bookspage and click the "add this Book to my profile" button, or if the Book you like is not already on the site then you can post it.
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Adding ecards to your profile will show off your creative side, get you listed on the eCardspage, and will get more views to your profile. Creating an ecard is simple and fun, and sending one may brighten someone's day!
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Adding articles to your profile will get you listed on the Articlespage and will get more views to your profile. Show other members your expertise in some area. Smart is sexy!
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Posting in the forums will get you listed on the Forumspage and will get more views to your profile. Meet new friends, and discuss interesting topics. Find a topic that interests you and join in the discussion or start a new discussion.
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Rating photos is fun, and rating favorably will put you on someone else's "Who liked this photo" list. Being on these lists will get more views to your profile, and also may encourage those you give high ratings to write to you.
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Do a Searchto find members in your area, and send them mail. It takes mail to get mail, and you never know if you don't try. Sending email will get more views to your profile.
Do a Searchto find members in your area, and send them flowers. Everyone loves to get flowers, and this will get more views to your profile and even a possible connection!
Go to the Birthdayspage to find members with recent birthdays, and send them an eCard or a Flower. Receiving eCards and Flowers on their birthday will make their day, and is a great ice breaker!
Send Friend requests to other members, and you will appear on their Friends List and the Recent Friendspage, which will get more views to your profile, and will make you more friends!
Become a fan of another member, and you will appear on their Fans List and the Recent Fanspage, which will get more views to your profile, and will make you more friends!
If you have "Who's Viewed Me" turned on and you are logged in, you will appear on other member's Who's Viewed Me lists when you view their profile, giving your profile more chances to be seen. You may get more mail to your inbox from people, who see that you've viewed them.
When you see a profile that you like their photos, leave a photo comment! This will get you listed on another members photo comments page and the Recent Photo Commentspage and will get more views to your profile.
Do you have friends on this site or have you personally met someone here? Write a testimonial for them which will help them out, and will get you listed on their Testimonials page, giving your profile more chances to be seen. You will also be listed on the Recent Testimonialspage. If you do not know anyone on this site, then why not invite some of your friends to join!
Almost every feature on this site allows comments. You can write comments on other member's photos, Videos, Polls, eCards, Blogs, Forums, Articles, Music, Movies, Books, etc. Writing comments in this areas allows other members to get to know you and to know what you think about a variety of issues. It will get your profile listed on more pages, and you will get more views to your profile.
Would YOU like to publish an article on Connecting Singles? Are you an expert at something, have an interesting story, or a good lesson to teach... why not share with other members. If you have experience or expertise in a topic that will be of interest to CS members, you may submit an article to be published on the site.
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Comments (43)
"Who Loves You Baby", .not too many people on here?
Sell them your used Mercedes,..so you can give your Junk to them,..and not to a nice person,..
There's alot of nice women on here,
the exception of those who tell you they are in a different city while you're talking to her on this dating site?
Then when you're texting her she doesn't say where she is until you run her # number, and tell her number is a landline, in a different state where she didn't tell you from the beginning?
101 views in my first week here.
6 likes , 2 from scammers.
and a total silence to messages sent.
I've never been on any site like this before, what am I doing wrong?
To me it´s destructive to go through the search and find someone who hasn´t been online for many years.
However I have been on several other sites and there are so many scammers. Hope this is not like them.
This site claim to try at least to get rid of them but there´s always a way for scammers.
Will try this one for some time and hope for the best. Thanks for all the advice that is flowing here.
HOLA!
NIHAO!
I'NEW TO THIS SITE,LOOKING FOR A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN,I'AM VENTURER,LEARN SOMETHING NEW,...LIKE MANDARIN,FRENCH,GERMAN
But site is great, so any one with that also ???
Also, should embed and question before sending a message. So the person being viewed, knows that the viewer is reading the profile entirely. WOW, that is a good idea AmIhim4U, so no just click and write, without knowing the person and his or her, kind of mate wanted!!!!
I am mizo indian and not india indian,,
I would love to meet someone an
european guy probably and fall inlove with,,
I am not into indian kind of thought and thinking,,
Any secure european guy can write me,,
or a Leo who can handle my strong scorp traits :ange l: