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I Think I'm In Love....

Finally i come to terms in life... before of now... mind fails to accept the realities and terms and conditions of the situation. . . It must be the real person that you develop a relationship with...Both Love and commitment take time to develop......................... I do not feel it is necessary for my potential mate to be the same as me, but he should definitely have some similarities for which we can develop mutual understanding which then leads to mutual cooperation. Although conflict is inevitable, when conflict does arise effective communication is crucial to a lasting relationship because it leads to understanding, which ultimately leads to cooperation... ................... Love is a combination of intimacy and most of all friendship. However, there must first be the establishment of trust and respect. ......... ....................no baggage and being honest to the one he loves... . is all i want.. i have money...so....is this asking too much?

He's strutting by wearing white gym vest and a Capri a little too snug for comfort. Funny ensemble but the girls aren't watching his bland choice of wardrobe; rather, the tight toned muscles all over this magnificent mass of human cells. His abs peek through the tight top, one could draw the muscles of his thighs buy just staring at his shorts and those majestic arms swung sublimely from side to side, seeming to avoid the rest of the torso, the runner up of this pop-up competition. He passed by with his head in his cellphone, oblivious of the female gawking nearby.

I have always been a special individual. Not special as in a disability or deficiency. But special in that I never seem to flow with the norm or society when it comes to areas such as fashion, ‘the latest” and body standards.

He drives hastily into the parking lot to grab some beer and WD-40 before the store closes at 6. A female ogling at the puffed up wonder who has almost disappeared around the corner bounces into him. “G’day lady, careful there, have a nice day!” She stared and seemed disgusted and walked away.

I have always been a special individual. I am getting off my car. I see him hastening across. Mature, tall, full bodied, blessed with a belly, and scruffy beard on a kind tired face. I can tell he is a hardworking dude by the look on his face and his tired outfit. Hmm. I too am going to the store, and happy I chose this day. 3 years being single, are you gonna blame me for looking? Selectively looking s’il vous plait. So here’s why I fall for bigger middle aged guys.

I love the maturity that comes with 50+. Yes you find total idiots in this range as well, but the odds of finding someone who wants to settle down and treat you right without the feeling that you are being experimented on is very high.

There is so much more to love and to hold on a full bodied man. I am a sucker for cuddling and I want to feel lost and engulfed in a cuddle. I want to snug up like a pupa in a cocoon [me being the pupa] and that is soooo important to me. I want to feel flesh, warmth, and mass. Maybe I have a fetish for bigger guys; are you going to act judgmental when I can maybe proudly say what mine is and you can’t, for the fear of being deleted from this site?

I love the feeling of being smaller, younger, worshiped, and dependent as I look up to him as older, bigger, in charge and as my superior who treats me as his princess.
Did I say I was weird? Yes I am, and please don’t lose sleep over it.

I inch closer to where he is standing by the cold drinks. The item I am trying to grab on to falls because I have no basket and my hands are full. He quickly comes to my rescue. That kind genuine smile fenced by his greying mustache and beard is breathtaking. He picks it up and places it on my arms. “Let me get you a basket.” I blink my eyes and he is there, saving my day with a basket. “Are you ok?” I say yes, shyly. He takes my hand and says, “I’m Tom, nice to meet you.”

I reply, “Umm Tom..” Yes I am gawking, and nervous, and weak. Then I scurry off with embarrassment because I am indeed a shy lady, to [dream of my encounter tonight] and {to hope I cross his path again}. I am weird. Yeah

Relationships These Days Are Harder

I'm an older gentleman and always pick-up hot young girls between 19 and 29 years old. I use my life and travel experiences to relate to these girls and they are so intrigued by my stories. They then have no problem dating you or sleeping with you the same night you met them.?

..has just disclosed her secret for making friends and gaining support here in blogland

She uses SEX

It's Not About The Nail

I was in a relationship for 19 yrs , from the age of 23.We have two beautiful children.
When I look back at myself, I can't believe it was me. He was very lazy , I done everything in the home even decorating. He never liked work ,I've supported him many a times when his been unemployed. He never took me out , he never brought me anything. Everything I've ever owed I've brought myself. I worked two jobs at one stage. He would rather spend his money on PlayStation & Games , Gambling, Decks. It was me myself & I where he was and still is concerned. We had never been abroad, the one and only time I saved & payed ,as I wanted my kids to experience it.
You probably wondering why I stayed ? I ask myself that question?. I think as we get older & Wiser , We find ourselves. I've become much more relaxed & Happy within. " I know who I am & what am about " & I know my worth".
I Haven't gotta tell anyone that I'm Decent, Loyal , Kind , Loving, Honest , Have Morals & Dignity Because I Know I Am & That's All That Matters.
I'm an empath & have always helped everyone all my life.
It was the best decision leaving him & starting a new life. My kids were happy we split, they always said you deserve a better life & why was I ever with him. There's no bad blood & we remain friends, but I look at him and wonder what I ever saw in him. He gross's me out. LoL
I've never been happier in my whole life , I have a beautiful home & a rewarding job. Just missing my forever companion, Lover ,Best friend.
I will not settle for anything less then the best , I know my worth, I'm rich with Love & Peace in my Heart.

Older men value younger women higher. There is the politics of the s*xual animal at work here.The younger guy feels that the woman owes him - the older man feels that he owes the youngerwoman. This is not spoken. It is inherent in the genetic code- because the younger woman canmore likely reproduce AND the male DNA is programmed to recognize that. It is the result ofthousands of years of human evolutionary trial- and- error development. And the younger womeninstinctively (again that DNA) know this and realize there are likely some major rewards in the offing.?

The last female that genuinely showed interest in me and asked me questions to get to know me was my psychiatrist. I do not think she had plans for companionship. She later had me committed.?