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Ladies, here the rules of the game (according to the gentlemen), for above your bed: Be a big girl and now know how the toilet seat works. If he's up, just take him down. For us he has to go up, for you down. We have the same right to speak "that the glasses were wrong again". Let's stop.

and the next helpful vetting steps might be looking at blogs, even before chats, and certainly ahead of meetings. CS is great, but as with other sites, the categorical choices for informing others of who we are may not always be useful. 'Social smoking' can represent a butt, not inhaled, a few times weekly---perhaps actually to fit in socially. Or a severe addiction to tobacco. How about 'curvy'? These are merely two examples.

Looking for that someone special

When i searched your profile, I only ended up hanging out with some chicago prostitute - go figure, what's been going on with you?

Dont give up what you want most, for what you want now

two pints:
1.having sex for the first date= in my experience had short relationship.
beginning to know the other person on a friendship state always ended up in a really long and healthy relationship.

“You don’t choose who you fall in love with.”

This is a little more difficult. Why exactly do we love the people we love? Moreover, do we not have any autonomy over why we feel the way we feel? Even mere attraction boggles my mind — sometimes we’re attracted to completely different
types of “looks” and personalities.

But I believe a lot of what we find attractive and the things we fall in love with about someone, have to do with experience as well as the messages we consume. To some extent, we can control those experiences and to some extent, we can’t. We can’t because we are brought up in a particular home in a particular city or town and consume our first messages of love from there.

Don’t even get me started on the media. Beyond this however, I think we need to recognize our autonomy in terms of who we choose to spend our time with, romantically. The reality is the more time we spend with someone in that way, usually, the more we want to fall in love with them.

This is where choice comes in. Even if you don’t choose who you fall in love with, you choose who you continue to love; you choose who you’re with... #Jt

When a man is interested in a woman he gives her a glare in her eyes and the magic begans

Have seen lots of hinted or actual anguish over being in, or even entering, relationships, it got me thinking. Setting aside women/men who sleep around with no concerns, who may be in a sort of catbird's seat, how about more traditional souls? Is there much old fashioned worrying about the risk of having sex early in a friendship, and perhaps having it end? Feelings of being used? Low self esteem? Or just plain old horniness, with confusion? Other issues? None at all? How much does emotion enter sex for some?

Sometimes we thought we knew what we want. I heard other widows that maybe the first year they wanted to try new relationship. As time goes by, they no longer feel needed. I am not sure as for me mixed with western and eastern culture. Somehow I feel like I want to have someone to protect me like my husband. Since he is gone, I have learned to be independent again. I asked myself what I am looking. A millionaire as financial security or a good looking guy as wealthy somehow those are all materialist. How about spiritual? Someone told me that I am a challenger, it seems like men and women need to start with that chasing games. As 2 billions people in the world if using math, everyone should be able to find someone. Somehow the new world the chasing game has changed so much. We may need to wait for one month to find out if the other side of screen is real or even longer. It is unknown investment. Is it worthy? The sound of desert and what do I really want?