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Men and women.....
Who knew?...... Very few sex specific behavioral and emotional traits many find annoying. NOT. Wide range of controlling styles. Here's one. You two are engaged in some perhaps slightly techical task that cries out for a cooperative approach. Keep wishing. Could be as simple as moving a piece of furniture to new spot. Or fixing that pesky computer glitch. Not to mention parenting. Cooking/pet care? Soon it rears it's ugly head. Why must one out know- it -all over the other, and not have the grace to either keep quiet, or at minimum, let the "loving friendly advice" out slowly and with discretion? Where did I hide that pistol? Aa-V.
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Here's a thought for CS folks.....
....perhaps important after finally finding committed romance. I suspect that for some of us, visits to CS represent more than mere searching for a partner. I often see members who clearly state that they are already in a relationship, and are here for other reasons, whatever this might mean. Myself, I wonder if a partner could believe that after linking up, remaining on CS for reasons other than finding someone new, would be a healthful possibility. Perhaps CS could have a dedicated section for such lucky people. Partners might write blogs together.
What draws us to these sites?
Well speaking for myself it's boredom. Just the lack of excitement, not necessarily my own but my loved ones. They all esp. Mother would love for me to find love, have a significant other for the Holidays. It's like I'm a weirdo for not bringing men around. I've been married, I've been in love, I've had sex that was unbelievable. People say "Well you're pretty why don't you have someone in your life?" Well damn, I guess I'm on a break. I had love, sex, marriage, kids, ect. Maybe it's more that my soul is seeking. Certainly the right man can only enhance my growth. But those kind of men the universe /God always make us cross paths & recognize within each other something we need/want. Now there is a possibility that kind of connection can be made on here. But from my experience I have never met someone on any dating site that escalated into a relationship. I've made friends, u know pen-pals, texting types but that's it. But I know people that have met their spouse on sites. This is by no means to discourage anyone, I'm bored just wanted to write. And I may just get a friend to play the part of my man for the Holidays, make my family happy. Just because someone is alone does not mean lonely. I read a lot and write it's my passion, that takes lots of alone time. Good luck everyone, after all we get what we call forth. If you want love May God Bless You with it abundantly. If you want sex hope it's safe, wrap it up ya heard ;).
The one that didn’t get away….
Art and I were in an on-off LDR and when he told me that he would like to visit me in Malaysia, I was skeptical at first but travel he did!
First meeting in person in February 2017. Forget about having had butterflies in my stomach, I had the whole zoo in there!
What people don’t tell you about meeting someone you met online for the first time, is how risky it is. You will meet someone without knowing if that person has a body odor or not. Neither Art nor I have BO, thankfully. Phew!
In fact, he always smells better than I do!
After being married for 2 years now, I finally muster up enough courage to speak up…
You wouldn’t really know the person you meet online until you live with that person for some time.
Snoring. OMGee. You know how irritating to be sleeping next to a person who snores like a pig?
House chores. Imagine your partner just sits around and does not lift a finger to help out with the cleanliness of the house? Unwashed pots, pans, plates, mugs etc..etc…etc in the sink.
Money. All your partner knows is how to spend money by buying frivolous things.
Cooking. Say you’re a fabulous cook, that even the smoke alarm cheers you on, and you have to put up with your partner’s terrible + horrible + miserable cooking. Really?!?
I bet Arty didn’t know what he signed up for …… but it’s too late now coz MiMi is staying put and not going anywhere!
I didn’t know how badly I snore until my son told me. We were at a relative’s house a couple of years ago where he and I had to share a bed. I was sound asleep when he jolted me up from my slumber. “Mommy! I can’t sleep with you sounding like a helicopter landing!!!!”
Art does most of the house chores. If given the chance, he will do it all! So, in order to look ‘useful’, I said to him, “Let me do the laundry and I’ll fold them after they’re done”. He reluctantly agreed and there was one incident where I went out with a friend and when I got back, lo and behold! Laundry done, folded and put away!! I was so furious that I punched the wall! My friend laughed and commented, “You’re the only person that I know that will get mad when her husband does the house work! You’re nuts!!”
Art is a minimalist. Before I moved in with him, his house looked like a showroom. I remember my first haul. It was 2 months after I moved in. His older sister had a yard sale and his younger sister drove me there. I saw something that I like and both sisters looked at me and spoke in chorus, “You think our brother will let you get that?!?!” I winked at them, “What he doesn’t know won’t kill him”
I got home and used the garage door to get in, thinking I would just leave them things there until it was safe to bring them up. Just my luck, he was in the shower. Seizing the chance, I quickly ran down the steps ( yup running even with my bad knees! ) and got my things stashed away in my wardrobe! I was like a thief in the night!!
Over the months, I discovered Goodwill and other thrift stores, much to his horror!! You should’ve have seen his face each time I asked him to drive me there….it’s like he’s given a death sentence.
“You know MiMi, I can always get these things new for you?”
“No, Art. You don’t get it, do you? With the same amount of money I can get much more things at Goodwill! You have always like to see your money stretched, no?” *insert innocent eyes*
Nothing needs to be said about my cooking…I’ve talked enough of Art’s misery in having to eat my cooking already.
First meeting in person in February 2017. Forget about having had butterflies in my stomach, I had the whole zoo in there!
What people don’t tell you about meeting someone you met online for the first time, is how risky it is. You will meet someone without knowing if that person has a body odor or not. Neither Art nor I have BO, thankfully. Phew!
In fact, he always smells better than I do!
After being married for 2 years now, I finally muster up enough courage to speak up…
You wouldn’t really know the person you meet online until you live with that person for some time.
Snoring. OMGee. You know how irritating to be sleeping next to a person who snores like a pig?
House chores. Imagine your partner just sits around and does not lift a finger to help out with the cleanliness of the house? Unwashed pots, pans, plates, mugs etc..etc…etc in the sink.
Money. All your partner knows is how to spend money by buying frivolous things.
Cooking. Say you’re a fabulous cook, that even the smoke alarm cheers you on, and you have to put up with your partner’s terrible + horrible + miserable cooking. Really?!?
I bet Arty didn’t know what he signed up for …… but it’s too late now coz MiMi is staying put and not going anywhere!
I didn’t know how badly I snore until my son told me. We were at a relative’s house a couple of years ago where he and I had to share a bed. I was sound asleep when he jolted me up from my slumber. “Mommy! I can’t sleep with you sounding like a helicopter landing!!!!”
Art does most of the house chores. If given the chance, he will do it all! So, in order to look ‘useful’, I said to him, “Let me do the laundry and I’ll fold them after they’re done”. He reluctantly agreed and there was one incident where I went out with a friend and when I got back, lo and behold! Laundry done, folded and put away!! I was so furious that I punched the wall! My friend laughed and commented, “You’re the only person that I know that will get mad when her husband does the house work! You’re nuts!!”
Art is a minimalist. Before I moved in with him, his house looked like a showroom. I remember my first haul. It was 2 months after I moved in. His older sister had a yard sale and his younger sister drove me there. I saw something that I like and both sisters looked at me and spoke in chorus, “You think our brother will let you get that?!?!” I winked at them, “What he doesn’t know won’t kill him”
I got home and used the garage door to get in, thinking I would just leave them things there until it was safe to bring them up. Just my luck, he was in the shower. Seizing the chance, I quickly ran down the steps ( yup running even with my bad knees! ) and got my things stashed away in my wardrobe! I was like a thief in the night!!
Over the months, I discovered Goodwill and other thrift stores, much to his horror!! You should’ve have seen his face each time I asked him to drive me there….it’s like he’s given a death sentence.
“You know MiMi, I can always get these things new for you?”
“No, Art. You don’t get it, do you? With the same amount of money I can get much more things at Goodwill! You have always like to see your money stretched, no?” *insert innocent eyes*
Nothing needs to be said about my cooking…I’ve talked enough of Art’s misery in having to eat my cooking already.
I knew it was only a matter of time . . .
. . .before his Aries Moon showed its a$$. 
Wow, I guess I shouldn't be shocked it didn't last the typical 90 day probationary mark that most employers have before they consider giving their employee benefits.
Oh well
Mercury's going retrograde in 2 weeks, so best it ended before then. I def need to stay on a break from anything beyond a simple platonic friendship, while Merc is doing it's 2 month astrological/short-distance travel/communication menstruation complication dance.
Pisces Sun + Aries Moon = self sabotage
Wow, I guess I shouldn't be shocked it didn't last the typical 90 day probationary mark that most employers have before they consider giving their employee benefits.
Oh well
Mercury's going retrograde in 2 weeks, so best it ended before then. I def need to stay on a break from anything beyond a simple platonic friendship, while Merc is doing it's 2 month astrological/short-distance travel/communication menstruation complication dance.
Pisces Sun + Aries Moon = self sabotage
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