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First Email..........
i think if only we all can be honest to each other....it will solve lot of problems
but ...i think that unlikely to happen....but...atleast....whatever is ok to oneself should
write on the first email.....so....it can quicken the fast and better search....
but ...i think that unlikely to happen....but...atleast....whatever is ok to oneself should
write on the first email.....so....it can quicken the fast and better search....
THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND IN SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP
This article will be short, but to the point.
We, at some point, have read a lot about tips on sustaining a relationship. The truth is, there is no hard and fast rule on sustaining a relationship. Any article or post claiming to give advice on how to sustain a relationship is just bull shitting. The reason for this is that no two persons are the same. What is good for one might be very bad or harmful for the other. If you relate one experience from one to the other, you might be doing yourself grave damage, if the person is quite different from the prior one.
So, while there are no concrete rule and guide to sustaining a relationship, their are certain things one has to keep in mind. And they involve just three things.
1. NEVER take your experience from one relationship to the other. While it is important to be wise, from your past experience, DO NOT equate it or use it as a yardstick in dealing with a new partner. Doing so, might be a big mistake. The fact is that no two persons are the same. What one person likes, might quite be antithesis to the other person. I have had one person say to me, 'I like it when you open the door for me.' I have also heard from another person that 'I hate it when you open the door for me. It makes me mad.' This is just an example.
You might be hurt from a prior relationship. Carrying that hurt or 'I now know better' attitude, to the next relationship is a mistake. So, have in the back of your mind, that no two persons are the same. Just keep an open mind
2. Get to know the person. This is NOT an overnight thing. It takes time and an OPEN MIND. DO NOT expect a PERFECT person. For there is no such thing as a perfect person or a perfect match. This involves using your brain NOT your heart. The heart can make one do things we ought not to have done. And it involves TIME. Don't rush it. Take the time to know the person. Once one does that, surprises are eliminated.
3. The 'Biggy' part. COMMUNICATION. Communication is just not the act of talking. It involves also PRESENTING words so that they can be UNDERSTOOD. The problem is that we, often present words that just shut off one's comprehension faculty. Then the breakdown. We should take time to present our words and also take the time to comprehend the words being communicated to us. We often hear one's partner say to the other, 'you are not even listening to me.' Of course, the person is listening to you, but does the person understand a 'jack sh*t' of what you are saying? So both presentation and comprehension are vital in communication.
Relationship is not as easy as we think it is. Equally, it is not as complicated as we think it is. It involves effort on both partners to make it happen. Not on any hard and fast rule.
Good luck on sustaining the next relationship.
We, at some point, have read a lot about tips on sustaining a relationship. The truth is, there is no hard and fast rule on sustaining a relationship. Any article or post claiming to give advice on how to sustain a relationship is just bull shitting. The reason for this is that no two persons are the same. What is good for one might be very bad or harmful for the other. If you relate one experience from one to the other, you might be doing yourself grave damage, if the person is quite different from the prior one.
So, while there are no concrete rule and guide to sustaining a relationship, their are certain things one has to keep in mind. And they involve just three things.
1. NEVER take your experience from one relationship to the other. While it is important to be wise, from your past experience, DO NOT equate it or use it as a yardstick in dealing with a new partner. Doing so, might be a big mistake. The fact is that no two persons are the same. What one person likes, might quite be antithesis to the other person. I have had one person say to me, 'I like it when you open the door for me.' I have also heard from another person that 'I hate it when you open the door for me. It makes me mad.' This is just an example.
You might be hurt from a prior relationship. Carrying that hurt or 'I now know better' attitude, to the next relationship is a mistake. So, have in the back of your mind, that no two persons are the same. Just keep an open mind
2. Get to know the person. This is NOT an overnight thing. It takes time and an OPEN MIND. DO NOT expect a PERFECT person. For there is no such thing as a perfect person or a perfect match. This involves using your brain NOT your heart. The heart can make one do things we ought not to have done. And it involves TIME. Don't rush it. Take the time to know the person. Once one does that, surprises are eliminated.
3. The 'Biggy' part. COMMUNICATION. Communication is just not the act of talking. It involves also PRESENTING words so that they can be UNDERSTOOD. The problem is that we, often present words that just shut off one's comprehension faculty. Then the breakdown. We should take time to present our words and also take the time to comprehend the words being communicated to us. We often hear one's partner say to the other, 'you are not even listening to me.' Of course, the person is listening to you, but does the person understand a 'jack sh*t' of what you are saying? So both presentation and comprehension are vital in communication.
Relationship is not as easy as we think it is. Equally, it is not as complicated as we think it is. It involves effort on both partners to make it happen. Not on any hard and fast rule.
Good luck on sustaining the next relationship.
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Giving up the ghost...
I worked with a guy a few years ago who shaved his head every other day. He was in his mid 60's started shaving a few years earlier when he no longer had enough hair to support the sewn-in 'hair club for men' toupee. I didn't know him then and he showed me a photo with a full head of dark brown hair that looked like he just got up from a stylist's chair.
Those hair replacement treatments must be expensive as I don't see too many guys doing that anymore. Hair replacement commercials appeared everywhere... TV, magazines, and billboards and not so many recently. Besides, shaved heads have become quite fashionable.
On the advice of a girlfriend he was asked to give up the ghost and remove the toupee.
The funny part of the whole thing was his POF profile photos had him with a full head of (fake) hair. He did a lot of power dating and when they saw a much older man with no hair he rarely got a second date. Oh, a small detail... he lied about his age on his profile then wrote a 'made a mistake when creating the profile' correction near the bottom of his introduction.
My comment was 'stop trying to deceive these women' and post your real information up front. He knew his odds would be far less with real information and he truly believed once they 'got to know him' his looks and age wouldn't matter.
Those hair replacement treatments must be expensive as I don't see too many guys doing that anymore. Hair replacement commercials appeared everywhere... TV, magazines, and billboards and not so many recently. Besides, shaved heads have become quite fashionable.
On the advice of a girlfriend he was asked to give up the ghost and remove the toupee.
The funny part of the whole thing was his POF profile photos had him with a full head of (fake) hair. He did a lot of power dating and when they saw a much older man with no hair he rarely got a second date. Oh, a small detail... he lied about his age on his profile then wrote a 'made a mistake when creating the profile' correction near the bottom of his introduction.
My comment was 'stop trying to deceive these women' and post your real information up front. He knew his odds would be far less with real information and he truly believed once they 'got to know him' his looks and age wouldn't matter.
The Four Personality Types and How to Deal with Them
The Four Personality Types and How to Deal with Them
RELATIONSHIPS
Relationships are like mirrors.
Who you choose to date is a
direct reflection of how you feel
about yourself.
Who you choose to date is a
direct reflection of how you feel
about yourself.
it's not rocket science
If the love of your life has come and gone (not through death, mind you) then was she (or he) really the love of your life? Surely, that starring role is to be played by someone else, someone even more awesome?
Virtual love
Virtual love Most people use Facebook to stay connected with family and friends. It is indeed a useful medium through which one can share important moments in one’s life with others.
But there is also a downside to it — one exemplified by the ‘selfie’ craze. Everyone — from the man on the street to celebrities — has taken to this latest fad.
When people like or post positive comments on a selfie, it makes the person feel good and boosts his/her self-confidence. But what happens if someone makes a negative comment? Of late, mental health professionals get patients who are depressed and anxious because of comments/criticism on their Facebook profile or people not responding to messages or the lack of comments on their photos/updates, which makes them feel ignored. For some, posting selfies or updates is an obsession and comments made by others are like a tonic that keeps them going. This is a problem faced not just by the younger generation but also by the middle-aged and older people who are on Facebook.Take the example of students who have moved to another city or country for further studies. They find Facebook a good medium to stay in touch with their friends and families when they feel lonely and depressed. They click photos and upload them on Facebook and the messages, likes and comments make them feel that people still love them.
Why does this happen? Today, the problem is that most people are so busy that they don’t have time to spend with friends and family. So we turn to the virtual world for the love and attention that we are missing out on in real life. Instead of all of this, we need to stop and introspect on what is actually missing in our lives. Remember, this is not to say that such people are mentally ill. All they want is a little love and attention from their loved ones.
The writer is a consultant in behavioural neurology and psychiatry.
But there is also a downside to it — one exemplified by the ‘selfie’ craze. Everyone — from the man on the street to celebrities — has taken to this latest fad.
When people like or post positive comments on a selfie, it makes the person feel good and boosts his/her self-confidence. But what happens if someone makes a negative comment? Of late, mental health professionals get patients who are depressed and anxious because of comments/criticism on their Facebook profile or people not responding to messages or the lack of comments on their photos/updates, which makes them feel ignored. For some, posting selfies or updates is an obsession and comments made by others are like a tonic that keeps them going. This is a problem faced not just by the younger generation but also by the middle-aged and older people who are on Facebook.Take the example of students who have moved to another city or country for further studies. They find Facebook a good medium to stay in touch with their friends and families when they feel lonely and depressed. They click photos and upload them on Facebook and the messages, likes and comments make them feel that people still love them.
Why does this happen? Today, the problem is that most people are so busy that they don’t have time to spend with friends and family. So we turn to the virtual world for the love and attention that we are missing out on in real life. Instead of all of this, we need to stop and introspect on what is actually missing in our lives. Remember, this is not to say that such people are mentally ill. All they want is a little love and attention from their loved ones.
The writer is a consultant in behavioural neurology and psychiatry.
How i can get..
For my job- everyone knows me..I cannot feel free,when I'm with anyone on the road...I think someone know me..someone make a gossip & story about me..I know,everyone with me..but I feel I'm alone..I have no one for share my feeling & for care me..I have no one for passing some time personally..for rely on each other.. I'm not attend in any public program..where i can get someone for me..but i wish..How i get anyone for make love each other..?
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