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...of course, some do so because of their orientation. But I wonder how many of us here on CS who are straight do so with any regularity. Now and again, I'll get a man in the roster of females, and more rarely, I'll get a note from a man. But I probably have not seen more than a dozen profiles of men. I wonder if it might be worthwhile as a learning experience, to look at more male profiles, although I wonder what could be learned thus. One thing I would like to know is if there is a large difference between the sexes in the focus on honesty, and having a job or other independent means of self support. I see it all the time in ladies profiles. How much they hate lairs, and how they don't want to support a man financially. And less often, the women with kids at home make a point of saying that potential matches must accept the kids. And that only marriage is an option in a relationship. Important points in searching for a committed partner. But there probably are differences between the sexes.

.....at least the ueber religious ones. It's a real cultural phenomenon. Part of the arranged marriage anachronisms in other cultures. These would be unrelated older women in the community, whom the young girls know from early ages. Intolerably intrusive, they consider themselves as beneficial. They operate in groups, gossiping over strong tea at each others' houses. Teenage girls are their victims. Sadly, the girls' families somehow think of them as helpful. They wiggle their way into contact with unmarried girls, and begin to ask very personal questions. Then they discuss in groups, and make recommendations as to available young men. Sometimes even going so far as to pat down the girls to assess body types, reporting it all to potential husbands. But who knows? I tried to market the idea, for a cool million, to the suits at CS, via my main squeeze, the lovely and discerning Cyberscrutinizer. The idea was to have older CS cougars form such groups, on blogs or forums, for concerted questioning and matchmaking action on these very pages. All I got were eyes up to the branches above us. And a demand for another warm flat beer.

30 yr old Englishman looking for foreign lover to settle down with

.....on the recommendation of others. Sure, often, scammers are just looking for valid email addresses to market. Their vetting away isn't hard, and even fun, at times. But what else could be going on?
Well, lots, it would seem. The most common is that most often search without reading profiles, and then beginning to THINK..
Next, private mail is more personal. But, really, what's to hide, and from whom? I know the CS cyberscrutinizer spends nearly every minute at work focused only on my every word. But c'mon, folks, showing the same interest in the private mail of the rabble? Highly unlikely.
Then some say they don't get here often, which, like saying that I'm "new" here, is often a clue to scammers. But not always. In the West we are lucky to have the wherewithal to enjoy lots of IT time, on different platforms.. But in some places, there are real barriers to such,,such as work, money, etc. My ISP is powerful and dirt cheap, but some aren't so crafty or fortunate.
I bet shyness enters in here at times. But again, on our awesome CS, access to our personal thoughts of love, and to my ruses to entrap the unsuspecting hottie tart, are quite private.
There are many other such reasons for not wanting to take the time to chat a bit here at first, while we explore possibilities. And some can be clues to character traits, that some may find undesirable. I value patience, for example, so there.
Now moving on to the darker side of human behaviors, these styles may also be a sign of the need to control. Shocked, I know, that there may be such types lurking out here in CS wounded warrior spaces. But beware. I see this regularly, and it can present with the request to use private mail, and then to effect a block. Yep, the marriage ring rests not only on the finger, but often under the nose.
Lots more reasons. I find that with real and grounded people, after a few turns at the keyboard, we can either, rarely, progress, or decide to look elsewhere. Saying good bye nicely. And rarely, this morphs into ongoing acquaintanceship. Which of course might even have covert, circumstantial chances at blossoming, in their own rights.
Lot's of reasons. Varying level of class.

There was a cat with fancy taste, Who only mingled with rich feline race, Purring with joy in their luxurious space, And snubbing the others with haughty grace.

But one day, this cat met a stray, With not a penny, nor a whisker to pay, Yet so kind and friendly, in every way, That the rich cat's heart began to sway.

Soon, the rich cat learned a lesson new, That true friends come in every hue, And it's not the wealth, but the heart that's true, That makes for a loyal and loving crew.

Nearly all the members who are active in blogs and forums have strong personalities. Some stronger than others... obviously. When a strong personality does or says something opposite to what CS wants to reflect on their site, a comment or blog gets deleted. Often as a warning and a 'time-out' should they consider the offense become more serious.

I cannot remember the number of years I've been here and how many members were banned, but it's more than a handful. Banning I believe was mostly (but not always) for political reasons. Some return with a new profile and in a short time get banned again. I think it's not for the way they behave as a 'new' member, but rather for the sins and havoc created in their previous profile.

Compared to other sites, moderation at CS is very light. I'm sure there are more important things for them to attend to aside from our little space on the internet. But when they do visit you may see several things happen in one swipe.

A few years ago their position was stated and requests from CS staff were stated as to what blogs they want to see less of. That's long gone and it's business as usual.

Last year a handful of blogs disappeared and some of the members who authored them disappeared too. While some of the blogs of the 'dearly departed' remain, most of them are unlocked. Only this week I see some long lasting blogs have been locked.

My opinion/question is shouldn't a blog of a banned member be locked or deleted too?


Oh, the difference one member can make...

Romance is dead.  It died when a so-called enlightened society decided that there is no difference between men and women and any suggestion to the contrary is sexist.  Goodbye romance.  R.I.P.

In dreams you are free and private. The magistrate is not there, the policeman is not there, the wife is not there, nobody is there. You are again free. So just on the surface you can fulfill formalities. The doubt is arising because you have a wrong expectation in the first place. I cannot help you to drop the doubt unless you drop the desire that your wife should be faithful to you.
Drop the desire that your wife should be faithful to you. Drop that, and then if you can create the doubt, it will be a miracle. Then how can doubt arise? We never go to the very root of problems, we only go on changing the symptoms. My help is available to you only to go to the deep root of the problem, to the very foundation of it. Change it there!
And you say, ”I KNOW FOR SURE THAT MY WIFE IS UTTERLY FAITHFUL TO ME.” How can you be so sure? You are just trying to convince yourself by using these words, that ”I am sure” – just using great words to hide something! You are not sure. See the cunningness of the mind. You are not sure, hence you are using the word ’sure’: ”I KNOW FOR SURE THAT MY WIFE IS UTTERLY FAITHFUL TO ME.”
Just faithfulness won’t do? Utterly faithful? Is there some doubt? Why UTTERLY faithful? A circle is simply a circle. You cannot say that this is a complete circle, UTTERLY circular. If it is a circle it is a circle! You cannot call it a perfect circle, because if it is not perfect it is not a circle, it must be something else. Watch, meditate on these words.
”BUT STILL,” you say, ”I DOUBT. SOMEWHERE DOUBT GOES ON LINGERING.” You doubt your wife? Are you certain about your faithfulness towards her? Maybe that’s why the doubt arises. You may be fooling around, if not actually, then in imagination. And then naturally the inference is there that your wife may be fooling around, if not actually, at least in imagination. And the male ego is such that it cannot allow even the wife to fool around in imagination.

Only riyadh mumber join hear..i always alone in riyadh...so i seeking a free woman..she can meet evry week ..
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