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If the love of your life has come and gone (not through death, mind you) then was she (or he) really the love of your life? Surely, that starring role is to be played by someone else, someone even more awesome?

For my job- everyone knows me..I cannot feel free,when I'm with anyone on the road...I think someone know me..someone make a gossip & story about me..I know,everyone with me..but I feel I'm alone..I have no one for share my feeling & for care me..I have no one for passing some time personally..for rely on each other.. I'm not attend in any public program..where i can get someone for me..but i wish..How i get anyone for make love each other..?

and we are grateful for the service. There are successful couples resulting from the work, with friends/acqaintances as well. But if commited couples are the goal, not merely fun and learning from others' differences, even most good sites can be improved. CS's many features and ease of use are great, but for me, as with most human interaction, aspects of communication are even more importmant. Aspects, both subtle and deep.

Some quote i see today
"if you are not happy, then itsnot a happy ending"
its very similar with my own experience today.
I was thought that this man will be the last one.
He looks very religious.
Very mature.
Very kind.
Very sweet with his words.
But ... he want me to be somebody i even dont know.
and it wasnt me.
He wanted me to be more skinny,
more white,
more slim,
more religious,
more...
and
.. he want me to be just like my sisters.
I've tried but i finally found that i cant be anyone.
I love my body even it has fat everywhere.
I love my skin even it looks like burnt in the sun.
I love my job even it cost a small wage.
Then..
I saw that quote today on my facebook.
I realize that, i dont have tobe anyone to be happy.
I want a happy ending not a sad ending.
Its so simple.
Not a complicated thing to do.
Just a happy life.
so...
I send him a break up message.
I cannot do this anymore.
I cannot follow his rules.
I think it's better to be alone right now.
I still hope...i will found my happy ending tommorow.
I dont know when but i am sure it will come.
Stay good. Stay wise.
Stay safe.


19/07/2020

I logged on this morning to see that 4 of 5 profiles (with photos) created today are bogus.
Guys, that's not good if your intentions are to meet someone for dating.

We've got Jessica Clements and Valentina Nappi hanging out here!

I've been on various dating sites for more than 15 years and I've seen some really beautiful women and their many photos. Usually, the best ones are studio work... professionally done. I've known a few women who have paid a few hundred dollars for a group of photos, often with borrowed clothing from the photo studio wardrobe room.

Naturally, these photos and the aura created by the photographer and crew cannot be matched. Their special photo (or group of photos) had perfect makeup and lighting.

Unfortunately, many women aren't ready to move on from the appearance they once had and continue to lure men with outdated magical photos. I've seen this scenario hundreds of times. I've also seen a radical difference in a 10 year old photo and a recent photo.

If you're honestly looking for a mate, a primary photo that is more than 10 years old should be retired or... put in the back part of your collection.

I see this in the professional world too. Stopping by an open house to see how some of the other (up for sale) neighboring condos are presented. A realtor handed me her card. I would not have recognized her comparing her business photo to what she looks like now. Sure... we all change and sure, she probably ordered 5,000 color business cards a few years ago and has to use them up.

Dating sites are different. Luring someone in with a great shot only to see totally different 'real world' photos would probably be a turn-off to the person who came to read your profile.

I look at it this way... If you are putting your best foot forward, be sure the other foot is strong enough to stand on.

Depending on the source, the term Middle Age usually describes a person who is between 40 and 60. On another site, I made reference to a woman in her 40's as middle age and 'got jumped' by the woman's friends.

Stating the definition from several sources including 2 dictionaries didn't sway the opinions of the complainers. Folks, I didn't make this stuff up... Anyone over 40 qualifies to be called middle age. What started this off was my blog about older women and younger men. Especially when the desired range is 20 years younger than the person who is looking.

Need some math? She's 45 looking for men 25 to 40.
Unless her profile hasn't been updated in 10 years or so, those numbers were actually getting guys leaving complaints about her age range.

It's a big world... do what you want. If you believe you can attract a mate 20 years younger... go for it.

I did see another dating site was becoming a 'meat market' having a reputation as a place to make hookups, decided to change the search engine and age range so that you couldn't search or contact anyone (above or below) the range imposed by the website management. That range was something like 8 or 9 years difference. That quickly knocked out any woman looking for a Sugar Daddy or a man looking for a Sugar Mommy but there was a work around in that the user could change their age to contact people who were outside of the age restriction, allowing a middle aged woman to contact a young man... and vice versa.


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