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...And saw a tad bit more flirting than here on blogs. Not exactly a love fest of love fests.

...well, for starters, it's quite a process. And I think these sites should instead be called search and introduction sites. The tiny expense, world wide reach, and ability to vet safely at distance on the front end, as so well done by CS, (suck up noted), likely lead to much greater potential for initial meetings than older approaches. Work, the market, activity groups, your pastor and aunt, etc., can hardly compete, even given the annoyance of the scammers. Considerable communication after that first spark of interest, allows for knowing each other enough, so that the first meeting is often as with an old friend. Whatever could possibly go wrong? But why digress? So, now that the decision exists to actually meet, the When, Where and How enter in to the process. But I'll add that at this point, trust also has been established, and indeed, a large part of my vetting process includes immediately ditching those (largely scammers anyway), who fill their profiles with statements like, "I don't waste time with chatting or Skype". The When. Having already displayed considerable patience while chatting, itself a laudable character trait of maturity, I usually take time with this as well. Usually weeks to months, verses days. Saves on flights if we exist at large distances, and again shows a certain groundedness of style. And on these latter points, since most mutual interests involve class and education, a few languages, self sufficiency, and so on,-- local prospects are quickly exhausted, leaving larger cities, domestic or foreign. I find either party, if living within a few hundred miles, is willing to fit an initial meeting into some other reason for travel. So, onto the Where. I quickly found that elaborate late day meals, at fancy restaurants, had many disadvantages over the safe public cafe scene, or some (walking/sailing) activity. Cost effective, few assumptions generated, plenty of chance to talk, and lots of fun. Forget dancing or concerts, either. Talk and body/facial styles rule. Rarely, after mere seconds, one begins thinking of the classic bathroom trip escape maneuver, but initial vetting usually prevents any need for this cowardly trick. The How? Well, this applies mostly to foreign contacts. Visiting the prospect in her home country has much to recommend it. Gauging lifestyle, family, friends, interests, etc., all come to mind. And what a chance to learn about the world. Meeting while both are on holiday is a second best, which for me has occurred in lovely Portugal. Process, all good things take their own good time. Of course, with Covid 19, adjustments are needed. Finally, at any stage of the process, if prospects begin to dim, it's best to discuss it all openly as adults, and ideally, to part as good acquaintances, or more.

im on cs since 2010..just marked about my profile:-
Viewed - 38471 times
Fovorited - 2 times
Liked - 1 time

What a data! Seriously, and most important
Cant get anyone from this site till now..i understand online dating site is not a good option cuz people dont want to migerate ( specialy in case of India) and even dont want to try for an Indian..but seriously not a single person in 10 years after being visited my profile 38471 times..Seriously!

Why we pretend we love one another but we don't.ooh where is the love. Stop using one another.

False Pride, Ignorance & Arrogance

Today is that Day , when years ago , a Precious Ray of Light First time Appeared on this Earth ...

Wishing a Very Happy Birthday to You my Precious Light !!!
Wishing many many many Happy Returns of this Day ...

in the dating world there are many ways to meet up with some one who you might just click with ,
and for myself the most enjoyable date ,was a blind date ,,and yes we had chatted briefly but for our date we met at a golf course and played a great game of golf and it was a truly relaxed date .that lasted over 5 hours ...the magic was not there at the end which we both agreed . but the date was fun for both of us and we did meet up for a few more games of golf after....
blind dates should be fun and relaxed...anybody had a unusual date ?????

Was it the profile photo? Or the intriguing by-line? Was it the age, the location etc...? Did you find time to read the description of the person?

People who join online sites like CS spend time creating an online persona with hope that it will lead to the person that they may enjoy chatting for starters.

But then - with so many people registered even online at that moment - why that profile?

Would be interesting to see the different answers!

im here searching for my soulmate ,must be kind honest im not looking for Pretty or rich woman ,all i need is real love

Love what it means to you and why is it hard people to love you back