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2peoples wait for a text messages, not a postcard?

Chat then Disappear??
What’s happening to people out there?
Can we just enjoy and see what will come out after? No dramas please ??

I am a woman who has been looking for me.

This last 6 months I found her, she was lost under this insecure mass that I had built to hide her.

I am overweight, because mainly my ex loved bigger woman, I am essentially a people pleaser, something I am realising.

Oh I was content and happy with my family, work and how I was seen in those areas, I am so proud of those area's in my life.

I forgot I was still a woman who could be loved without being changed, and now, I am being changed because it's what I want, because I am loved..

Right now I am being loved very gently and slowly as I see that I am enough just as I am, he makes my soul melt, and I am finding out I don't need a Man, but I want this one in a deep and magical way that only my soul understands.

To everyone here, you can find so much magic if you allow yourself to let someone show you, don't ever give up.

Who among the indigenous native-born citizens can now look back and state that Enoch Powell was a racist when he was actually warning us that when Britain one day awoke and realised we were 16 years away from being a minority Christian ?? White Nation.

How it got out of my love ...

Many boys touch a lover (or the other way around) by giving a gift. I lost mine. When my birthday came, I bought her a pair of gloves. But the same day my sister went to buy a pair of panties in the same store. The two parcels were delivered at home. By a regrettable mistake, those gloves came to my sister and those panties to my fiancé.

That was nothing, but an e-mail that I had written came with those panties at my fiancé. The letter was as follows:

Dearest darling,
This small gift is in memory of your birthday. I bought them myself and thought you could use them best, since you have not worn them lately. As your old ones had changed by the often wet color and the seam had broken away from the frequent putting on and off, it led me to buy you new ones. First I wanted to buy long, but my sister said the short models were fashion. It is a solid color that does not go off. The sales lady showed me hers and they had already been washed three times. They were still as good as new. They may be shown without blushing. I chose the brown color because you do not see the dirt so quickly. The shop lady has attracted them for a moment and they were very good. If you wear them for the first time, you must put in talcum powder, that promotes the sliding. If you wash them, you must keep them, otherwise they will shrink too much. I hope you wear them with the same feelings as I give them to you. Do not forget to count how often I will kiss them in the course of the year.

You darling.

(the next day it was out.)

Relationship is a mirror, and the purer the love is, the higher the love is, the better the mirror, the cleaner the mirror. But the higher love needs that you should be open. The higher love needs you to be vulnerable. You have to drop your armor’ that is painful. You have not to be constantly on guard. You have to drop the calculating mind. You have to risk. You have to live dangerously. The other can hurt you’ that is the fear in being vulnerable. The other can reject you’ that is the fear in being in love.

The reflection that you will find in the other of your own self may be ugly’ that is the anxiety. Avoid the mirror. But by avoiding the mirror you are not going to become beautiful. By avoiding the situation you are not going to grow either. The challenge has to be taken.

One has to go into love. That is the first step towards God, and it cannot be bypassed. Those who try to bypass the step of love will never reach God. That is absolutely necessary because you become aware of your totality only when you are provoked by the presence of the other, when your presence is enhanced by the presence of the other, when you are brought out of your narcissistic, closed world under the open sky.

Love is an open sky. To be in love is to be on the wing. But certainly, the unbounded sky creates fear.

And to drop the ego is very painful because we have been taught to cultivate the ego. We think the ego is our only treasure. We have been protecting it, we have been decorating it, we have been continuously polishing it, and when love knocks on the door, all that is needed to fall in love is to put aside the ego’ certainly it is painful. It is your whole life’s work, it is all that you have created — this ugly ego, this idea that “I am separate from existence. ”

This idea is ugly because it is untrue. This idea is illusory, but our society exists, is based on this idea that each person is a person, not a presence.

The truth is that there is no person at all in the world’ there is only presence. You are not — not as an ego, separate from the whole. You are part of the whole. The whole penetrates you, the whole breathes in you, pulsates in you, the whole is your life.

I am what I am and I do what I want, Some women love me some hate me, it doesn't bother me. There are things in life that you can only achieve if you are no longer afraid to fail. Women is one of them. You will not succeed with every girl you're attracted to, and you should never expect to.?

Love is painful because it transforms. Love is mutation. Each transformation is going to be painful because the old has to be left for the new. The old is familiar, secure, safe, the new is absolutely unknown. You will be moving in an uncharted ocean. You cannot use your mind with the new’ with the old, the mind is skillful. The mind can function only with the old’ with the new, the mind is utterly useless.
, fear arises, and leaving the old, comfortable, safe world, the world of convenience, pain arises. It is the same pain that the child feels when he comes out of the womb of the mother. It is the same pain that the bird feels when he comes out of the egg. It is the same pain that the bird will feel when he will try for the first time to be on the wing.
The fear of the unknown, and the security of the known, the insecurity of the unknown, the unpredictability of the unknown, makes one very much frightened.
And because the transformation is going to be from the self towards a state of no-self, agony is very deep. But you Cannot have ecstasy without going through agony. If the gold wants to be purified, it has to pass through fire.
Love is fire.
It is because of the pain of love, millions of people live a loveless life. They too suffer, and their suffering is futile. To suffer in love is not to suffer in vain. To suffer in love is creative’ it takes you to higher levels of consciousness. To suffer without love is utterly a waste’ it leads you nowhere, it keeps you moving in the same vicious circle.
The man who is without love is narcissistic, he is closed. He knows only himself. And how much can he know himself if he has not known the other, because only the other can function as a mirror? You will never know yourself without knowing the other. Love is very fundamental for self-knowledge too. The person who has not known the other in deep love, in intense passion, in utter ecstasy, will not be able to know who he is, because he will not have the mirror to see his own reflection.

Remember girls, love is just dopamine. A chemical in the brain. That's why it hurts so much when you're away from your 'love'. You are addicted to dopamine and you coming down from a high.

I am myself surprised
the way events are taking
place... right now
in my life..... i was near
to a man... i felt i
met him... (just few weeks
ago)
he is forever now.. (but.. NO)
then a sudden fall... i found
him... with other females
it hurt me a lot... and... i
could not believe... he can
do that.... while i was going
through the pain... i decided
i am not interested in any
more.... for... a life partner
in my life... i felt everything
of off... beat...
as decided to... remain single
there goes again...
the miracles.... of the
super power....
Meeting your soulmate is one of the best feeling you can experience in your life. You will feel like you are home after a long journey. You will feel happy, calm and content. Soulmates share a deep connection of mind and soul. They have unconditional love and respect for each other.
He is the one with whom you can’t even imagine your future without.
Love is amazing. Love is perfect.
i just belive..... finally
i met my soul mate....
It feels amazing when you’re in love.
I think the two words I can... myself use is... the most when describing the feeling I feel for my soul mate are “Home” and “Warm.
very soon wedding bells
planning to put a video here.