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The goverment want to make it more difficult to bring relatives and new partners to Sweden. The goverment might fall on Monday 2021-06-21 due to another reason. But after a new election if the opposing parties win they want even more restrictions. So from July 20th it will be difficult to bring a partner to Sweden. Not impossible though. 2015 came about 100000 refugees. Those who could stay now want to bring their relatives. To stem this the new laws will come into effect. Unfortunatly for those who want to find love online they go by the same rules. Basically only those who have living quarters with extra available rooms and have been employed for at least 12 months with big salary can bring spouse. If you have your own buisness and have not regulary withdrawn salery you are in trouble no matter how much money you have in the bank. If you are a Swedish citizen and have lived abroad for two years with a spouse you are ok. This is the goverment will. Opposition does not want any immigrants at all.


2021-07-10
Government made new law to speed up immigration decisions. After you file a complaint that your case has been processed for to long the immigration office should give a decision within four weeks. Today I got an mms from a person who has an ongoing case since mid 2020. It's clearly stated in the letter that immigration need more time and o*al interviews and will not make decision within the 4 weeks. So the office piss on the law makers!

I hate the idea of constitutional same rights for women.
I think, there must be 1 boss and that is usually the man as the physically stronger part.
All the rest will not function. And this implicates the man's right to punish every part of the family who doesn't walk the line.
If I read in 85% of all female profiles here that women expect to be treated as a pricess or queen and that a good sense of humor is expected, then I only feel to be in the wrong film.
When seeking in what countries wordwide the beating of women was still allowed, I only found Afghanistan and Russia and maybe some neighbouring countries, or I found that women were disciplimed by starvation or by violence not coming from the man but from his family members, the mother of the man, f.ex.
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I know that it is much better if a wife learns early in her life what her man wants and doesn't wait to be beaten to execute his will.
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I am aware of the fact that most worldwide Constitutions see this topic differently - maybe my profile will be deleted now, after 12 fruitless years here.
I only think that all these Constitutions are wrong. I try to write down why I think so, later.
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My basic idea is that there can be only 1 captain on board. I know, pilots in rivers and harbours are captains too and then there are realkly 2 in charge, but the decisions then makes the pilot.
I think it is essential that lifetime marriage decisions are made as early as possible, as in old China, in early childhood. All what we do here on that site, seeking a lifetime partner with 48, and reading "Children maybe one day" is just a bad joke.
Quite like studying until the age of 30 just to find a better man, or gaining more prestige.
I see well that keeping women in the house and kitchen makes a society poorer of scientists, doctors and other high class professions.
It is a pity that the data collected here are not publicly available, as raw data, to be pulled out with a language like DBASE in the 80th. I would love to learn how many of the females here are that qualified, deserving these "same rights". All I see are estimated 80% of female Hair stylists, and other more or less low qualified activities.
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I know, it's just a minority point of view. Me, probably beeing alone the whole minority wordwide.
What Russia fights for today is the idea of a totalitarian society, where one boss rules, - the contrary of same rights for all. WWII seems to have shown that democracies definitely are the winners, We are the good ones !
Maybe we are all wrong, all-together. All these elderly singles here might prove that, but the raw data are not accessable - a pity !

i came here after few years i have seen lots profiles i knew from years back then ,which were looking for dating
i had marriage for over 7 years


Is It :

obsession
addiction
nightmare
non ending lust etc ?

postive honest comments pls

Scanning blogs while I'm on the phone with customer service to cancel a dental plan I cancelled in January... but the billing department didn't get the memo.

There will always be difference of opinions in blogs (and forums) because people are... people.
Someone said something that offended someone else and 5 people decide to make it their business too.
Daddy said we cannot post political blogs so I can complain, except when I post a political blog.
My dog is smarter than your dog and his credentials don't mean a hill of beans in my country.

Here I go with the "Logically Speaking" since a small percentage of the bloggers aren't genuinely seeking a relationship (the reason isn't important) due to _________ I doubt it would it really affect CS if 1) comments weren't allowed on blogs 2) blogs disappeared completely.
That would stop the bickering real fast!

Change of topic:
I'm not sure what site it was on but statistics were posted for every member. The other members knew how many messages were sent, received and read. I believe you were prompted to message other members in a 'shit or get off the pot' participation. It also gave statistics to how man messages were deleted without being read. Woah... with information like that... I'm thinking, why bother sending a message to someone who deleted all of them without reading a single one. Members who didn't actively contact other members dropped in rank and became invisible until they started back messaging other members.
Interesting concept.

"...I used tell her I love her again and again. Though I knew in the deep of my heart that she doesn't love me..."...shows the importance of being true to you and all around you.
At no time and under no circumstances should anyone ever say "I love you" without feeling that very moment that magic flow of love deep inside the heart. At all times should you say exactly and directly what you really wish, feel, need or plan to do. Truthfulness is an absolute need for success in life, in love life, and in all eternal aspects of life.

To feel guilty is of no benefit to you or her - it simply shows and proves to you that you made substantial mistakes by pretending to love someone without really feeling that magic true love for that one.

Leave your wrong partner at any cost of tears!
Leave her no matter what she says!
The ego game is a betrayal of your own true needs as well as the betrayal of the true needs of the wrong partner you are together.
ALL need love...
All need true love...
All need to be ready, prepared, and pure in the heart to give and to accept all love.

Hence all need to grow and to mature - a wrong partner may make aware of what is missing - and the more, the longer you miss something the greater the readiness to do all needed to be ready for the right one from the very beginning.

After all the lies or pretending to love, you hopefully feel how it is inside you and hope you realize the importance of true love, of truthfulness toward self and your partner from the very first second.

Learn from your mistakes for your future.
Be ready to be fully true from the very beginning in any future encounter with a potential partner.

A strong one loves no matter what happens, no matter what happened in the past and no matter what the future brings. Such true love between two strong lovers only can last eternally from heaven to hell and back to heaven - in good days and in challenging dark days as well.

Unconditional love never cries, unconditional love is - from the beginning and without limits !! All your wrong partner shows so far is ego game and nothing more.

When you part - then part in friendship but for good without seeing her for a long time. Distance helps to heal and to get clear in mind and heart. After many months or years, both are ready to start a new love relationship with the right one of the waiting period has been used to understand all made mistakes of all previous relationships and use those mistakes to grow stronger and clearer in the heart for a future new relationship. GOOD LUCK EVERYBODY. And i am waiting for the real one to come to my life and take me with her and sail away

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,—I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death....




And when love speaks, the voice of all the gods makes heaven drowsy with the harmony.”
Love’s Labour’s Lost.

Doubt thou the stars are fire;
Doubt that the sun doth move;
Doubt truth to be a liar;
But never doubt I love.”
Hamlet.

Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.

The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.?

We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.


The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.

gone nuts... yes
gone bonkers ... yez
gone berserk... yes
gone bananas... yes

freaked out....


I am so very lucky to have, in the beginning, crossed paths with you. It took us to this lovely stage in our lives. A point where I feel that with you I can’t wait to create, evolve with you, and face the future with you. In a boy friend..... you are everything I ever will desire. I’m never going to like anything or anyone else. I can guarantee that.



Words may not articulate how much I love you, but my acts will never fail to reflect my love for you. Yesterday, I loved you, love you today, and I will love you until tomorrow is gone!

you

lit a fire inside me. With each passing day, it is a passion that grows. Just when I think that I’m getting used to my love for you, you’re going to do something small and wonderful. Maybe you’re going to make me laugh, or say something so clever it’s going to make me see the world in a different light, and instantly there it’s again, the surge of feeling, of passion, it’s like a wildfire in my soul that comes over me
so easily..

What is Love? Love is a set of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs with strong feelings of affection. So, for example, a person might say he or she loves his or her dog, loves freedom, or loves God. The concept of love may become an unimaginable thing and also it may happen to each person in a particular way..

in a simple word...
it is..... just.. Mesmerising


i dont mind be born again
and again... just for this
feelings.


You are my heart, my life, my entire existence.

Must being in love always mean being in pain?

what a pleasureable pain
it is...

Someone reminded me that yesterday was 4/20/22. That's significant to people who smoke... dope. Not on my radar. Okay, I've blogged about things like this before.
I once worked for a guy who smoked a few times a day. Actually it was more than a few times. I did freelance work for him on nights and weekends and had to go outside when he lit up as it bothered me.
Anyway, I've read lots of profiles that say they are 420 friendly.
The normal selections ask if you smoke (cigarettes) and drink.
I've seen other sites having a selection for recreational drugs.
That would eliminate surprises dating someone who assumed you took drugs because they do.

If CS does some programming updates asking if someone is 420 friendly could be a selection. The same goes for Tattoos and piercings.
Some people are turned on seeing their mate 'inked up' and having a field for that would allow members to search on tattoos as easily as looking for a redhead.

My ex BF's are such phenomenal teachers. I am beyond grateful for what love and support they were able to provide, when we were together. For those karmic relationships that went toxic and abusive, I am even thankful for those lessons in boundaries, self-care, and protection.

The amazing thing is, once completely & safely away and out of those situations, that's when the clarity comes in; you can see the value, of what looks in the thick of fresh wounds, to seem like hell. Well yeah, in the moment, it is. A yoUniversal hazing and initiation of sorts. "That which does not kill you, makes you stronger."

I can't tell you how many people that have either seen what one specific ex did to me (when he forgot I had the cam and mic on, while in the chatroom) - calling me a strong woman. That never went to my head, because I just didn't believe it. It's hard to. I'm starting to see it now, though.

My twin flame is the best ex anyone could ever have. I just wish my relationship with my other ex's, were as golden as with him. Despite differences, I cherish him so much and always will.

I appreciate the Scorpio Chiropractor's depth. We shared such a DEEP bond and connection, regardless of him being 30 yrs older than me. I love that so much, and value him taking it to a level that was of importance to me when he took me out into the mountains and into his garden. Spending time with Gaia together. That means the world to me.

I value the organic groceries that the Sagittarius Healer went out of his way to buy me (almost weekly). I never asked him to do that. When he found out how much my EBT deposit amounts were per month, and looked at the cost of organic foods - he just took it upon himself to jump in and make sure I had all I needed. I am also grateful for the AIKI martial arts moves he taught me, and he too taking me out into his fruit tree garden and showing me how to help him in caring for those tree's (some had fungal infections).

And although the Pisces Chemical Engineer is not yet an ex, I do want to give props for the time he gives me out of his busy day to just share his technical world with me. Just like Johnny 5 in Short Circuit, he knows I get off on INPUT. So telling me all the technicalities that go into water waste treatment and converting plastics into fuel - the sh*t blows my phukking mind. I love it. Even moreso, what I value most about him is that when he saw in himself how his treatment of me was effecting me, the fact that he (instead of blaming me as the others before him did) he consciously chose NOT to project, but instead of saying "I'm sorry" in words, he simply did corrective actions. He not only changed his behavior, but he also worked towards remedying the wound that he observed was created.

So in this post, I merely wish to glorify all the super shiny amazing aspects of those that have been in my life. And this is how I KNOW the more I practice the Law of Attraction, the more I SEE/Experience the manifestations of it playing out in my relationships. This guy I'm involved with right now, he's TOTALLY accountable.

I started this practice of using L.O.A. back in 2010, after having read The Secret. And I have seen all the relationships (despite some manipulations here and there, and downright either mental/financial/s*xual/physical/ spiritual abuse) --- the other stuff, has gotten gradually better and better.

It's like, the more spiritual work I do . . . all the fasting and helping others selflessly . . .the self-love spiritual baths. . . all the internal processes; burning down the sh*tty karma. I see the rewards with each new man that I allow into my life. And I keep being told by my spirits that my soulmate (as we have many) that specific ONE that is the end all, be all is so close. There's high possibility he finds me this year.

Just praying he lives in NM, AZ, UT, CA, Southwest CO, Southeastern OR some place in or nearest the desert.

Well before I thought there is no love people just play with every one feeling
??The meet the a person handsome cute smile ever was also came out from a broken marriage we met in this dating 4years back. I was from Fiji and he
Was in Canada we both had the same Indian background from Fiji He Send me a email here and I did reply after two days was busy scene of my family from Canada at the airport I replied his email after two days and he was surprised and happy I was the first person he talk on this dating site I still remember I called him and Heard his voice and disconnect the line because I was scared and then I called him again and tell him that Hi it’s Sharon and we talked for hours the day he planned everything with me did he want to get settle down with me and I was just giving him hopes that yeah everything will happen one day and he was happy that he got to know me I never thought that I wanna meet a person in my life who will love me so much by just talking he never want to see any tears in my eyes and he promised me that he will never cry in your life and I believe you he showed me all his love and affection and spoiling me with so many gifts chocolates. And then I thought that is just a dream I’m living in and then after seven months my dad passed away he help me out in every race bring the funeral in the prayers One day I was sitting down I was so frustrated and so lonely and he called me and I was talking to him I start crying I told him I need you I wish you were there for me and he laughed ha ha ha ha and he told me I’ll get back to you after 30 minutes I said OK he called me after 30 minutes and tell me can you just pick some stuff up from my friend he’s coming to Fiji in two days I was upset that I wish it was him and I question him so much that I don’t want anything from there and I was upset again and he couldn’t see my upset face and then he told me that he listen to me carefully I am coming to Fiji to meet you in two days and I will be with you for 2 1/2 weeks are you happy I was in cloud nine and when he came to Fiji first time I saw him I was like wow who is that handsome guy I still remember our first hug first kiss and first everything These days will never come back when he was going back to Canada I cried the airport and he laughed at me He told me don’t worry I’ll be back to see you again in three months I was happy but again I was crying when he left I never thought that I gonna be so much close to someone in my life he came after four months Henny spent 1 months with me we had lovely times he propose me to be his forever and he went back everything was going so good we bought our anniversary gifts and everything for four years seven nothing he give me all the happiness he can he never wanted to see tears in my eyes but now I’m just full with tears in pain cause it’s six months I lost him he died due to stroke I wish I was there with him to hold his hand he’s in heaven I will never find someone like him someone who love me that much and care about me in every steps ??????????our live work never die I still remember two days before passing I asked him you have to fight for me and then he told me yes he closed his eyes he told me that he love me more than anything in the world That person has love me till his last breath and I would love him till my last breath sharavi

When I think of "You don't look like your father" actress Liv Rundgren aka Liv Tyler comes to mind. Her mother Bebe Buell had a brief relationship with Aerosmith singer Steven Tyler distanced by his drug addictions and had been living with Musician Todd Rundgren.
Liv always thought Todd was her biological father.
About 10 years later Liv met Steven and noticed their resemblance. Her mother later confirmed her suspicion.
Okay, so everyone became rich and famous and life moves on...

That doesn't always happen that way as some suspicions that are confirmed by DNA testing often have negative consequences. If you've seen episodes of Maury Povich or Dr. Phil you know what I'm talking about.
Typical scenario: She's a Baby-Mama looking to find who the real daddy is. The 3 guys she's been shacking up with all took DNA tests. The reveal is explosive!

Maury, Maury, Maury...

Here's one where two women claim the same man fathered their children and he denied their accusations.