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September 5 " By releasing resentment and mistrust, she will automatically begin getting more of what she wants and also enjoy expressing her true and loving self."

Two high IQ people cannot live together because their egos will clash. But two high EQ people can live together easily and happily.
one person high IQ and one person high EQ, can be the best combination.

When one logs in to their CS account, what catches one's attention?

Is it the tagline? Is it catchy, cheeky or boring?

Is it the username? Does it describe the person who created the account?

Is it the profile? Is it detailed enough to make one send an email? Or click like? or even click favorite?

Just saying....perhaps it is all of the above!

In the 1960's Herman's Hermits did a song about marrying the widow next door who had been married to 7 Henry's before him making him Henry the eighth.
The song is a humorous flip to Henry VIII, King of England who had six marriages.

I've done blogs before about young widows on CS who are setting their selections to men 99 years of age. There are several thoughts about this. One is: They made a profit on the first one and finding another older guy has a higher percentage chance to meet a wealthy guy who won't be around too long!

Hmmm...

What is that thing without which, love is incomplete?

love is incomplete without respect.
And respect is incomplete without trust.
And trust is incomplete without Virtues.

If partners have respect for each other, then there will be complete love. Without respect, it is just a physical attraction and it is temporary.
Respect is for virtues that are lasting.
When the respect between the partner ends, then understand that the love has also ended.

If you want to save love, earn respect.
If you want to save respect, earn trust.
If you want to save trust, increase and maintain your qualities.

2012-13 was the first time that I ever tried Online Dating. That wasn't successful, and I tried again in 2018. Two of the sites that I had joined were "Badoo" and "Mingle", and one of them was the source of my greatest dating disaster.

A man that I chatted with online for a few weeks worked 'off-shore', was single and 50, but still living with his mother (who didn't seem to trust him much). We first met at a restaurant, and although something about him appeared a bit 'off' to me, I ignored it. We went to the beach, and, in his already inebriated state, he made sure to stop along the way to visit his 'friends/family members' before getting there. I helped him find an apartment, which, I found out he never inhabited (weeks later). I invited him to church and, again, he showed up inebriated. We were to attend an end-of-year concert in his area, but he sounded so 'out of it' on the phone, I didn't go.

When I finally admitted to myself that dating him was 'un-productive' (about 6 months later than I should have), I told him so, he complained vociferously and I left the scene immediately. Of course, he was inebriated again. The next day, he was even more so, as he swayed and drifted from the fast-food restaurant that he was at, on his way to my parked car, mumbling to himself and fishing in his pockets for the $ that he owed me.

What a disaster that was!!!! And that was a shortened version.




Any scary stories to share?...Anyone...

5. Have Fun With It

If you think you are in a relationship with a player, sometimes the best thing you can do is just have fun with it. Think of it as a friends-with-benefits type of situation, and let yourself enjoy that whirlwind of lust and connection with each other.

When you make a game out of their game, you’ll find that you’re less likely to be hurt. It’s also about lowering your expectations about this partner without lowering your standards about love.

6. Keep Your Boundaries Clear

When you’re interested in a player, it’s best to keep your boundaries clear. Of course, they may completely ignore those boundaries – but it’s still important to keep them clear for yourself.

As you become closer, you may be willing to be a bit more lenient towards them – and that is exactly what they want. Breaking your boundaries means giving up an idea for a relationship you deserve. Don’t let your date interest ruin it, even if your relationship goes so well that you’re ready to invent pet names for each other.

Related reading: Boundaries in Relationships – Keeping Them Healthy

7. Don’t Feel Compelled to Seek Revenge

Even if a player hurts, you it isn’t necessarily a personal vice against you as an individual. Players often see themselves as the main characters in a dating game. So when they make friends with people or enter romantic relationships, they see it as a successful quest and not for the pain it actively causes.

When they hurt you, you may be compelled to seek revenge, perhaps by sleeping with their friends or wrecking their stuff. If you’re a woman, don’t do that. Ultimately, this is going to cause you more pain than what it’s worth. And while you are perfectly within your rights to feel hurt, it is best not to act in such a way.

8. Be Ready to Move On

“Good people give Good Memories, Bad people give Good Experiences, Don’t Judge, Learn your lessons and Move on”

Kunal Tandel, author

Players often have a multitude of people they are romancing, along with multiple backup plans for dates. They may break up with you in person. However, they may also end the relationship by ghosting you and never establishing a connection again. You may get so used to the feeling of being on the back burner that when they ghost you, it can take months before you finally realize you’ve been dumped.

These things happen so often that it’s best to set yourself up with a mental timeline and be ready to move on. We find that two weeks to a month of being ghosted is a good amount of time to determine if it is time to move on or not. When you move on, don’t allow them to pull you back in; they had their chance with you, and you should not allow yourself to be placed on the back burner any longer.

Dealing with a player can be hard, especially when you find yourself falling in love with them. However, it is important for your mental and emotional health that you can handle being in a relationship with them without the fear or worry of finding yourself heartbroken. As you take the time to learn how you can spot who the players are, how to play their game against them, and how to manage your feelings and expectations you will find that the world of dating just gets a little more interesting.

Rise Above And Triumph!

If you fall in love with a player, the breakup can be painful. But, you can get through it. Rely on your friends, meditate, pray, engage in self-care, eat amazing food, watch movies that make you laugh, and listen to great music. Ultimately players end up alone. You can write whatever future you want.

Hey! If you come across a blog or blogs from an unknown account, that was my old one. I found it and just reading my old blogs and forums. Sorry! Back to reality!

Every time I come on here, it seems like I'm always faced with "likes" from women. It's 771 and counting....I'm a bit tired of this feature on here, because nothing really ever comes of it. I personally think a lot of the women on here try to receive "likes" back as if this was some sort of popularity contest like in junior high or something.

I'm sure some of you have the same problem as well....

Slithering through the grass, A serpent moves so fast, With scales so smooth and green, It's beauty cannot be seen.

It glides with grace so still, A hunter on its way to thrill, With fangs so sharp and quick, It strikes before you even click.

Yet still it's feared by many, A symbol of death and plenty, But it's just a creature wild, Living life with no revile.