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In this world of technology I often wonder why we feel people are exactly what they say they are, maybe because we crave the illusion of them.

Not saying that a lot of people are not real, I have found over the years of being here, a few of the most real and open people on this site.

It used to be that you physically connected with a person eye to eye, feel their energy and either gravitated towards them or kept your distance.

We portray what we are comfortable with, I am the first to admit that, and then we get scared of the first physical connection, because we imagine that other person expecting a more perfect 'you', then you think you are.

We all have hangups about something we wish was more perfect and tend to hyper focus on that.

The thing is if you feel like that surely the other person has similar fears of their own, nobody is perfect and thank goodness we all have different types that make our hormones sigh and shiver.

We just need to find someone, somewhere that is perfectly imperfect for us, and someone who we don't feel the need to change for, because then you can lose 'you' and became a shell that's empty and lost.

It's just so scary.

Hard to top this email I just got from a previously never heard of admirer.

"I am physically and mentally healthy. I have proof I can show you."

She is also pushing 60 but she still hopes to have children someday.

So, ladies. What do you think is a better date, sitting on the guard rail watching cars or grocery shopping?

I will get this flirting thing yet

So, I come to this site and I check the Invoice. Sometimes there is a message, sometimes there isn't. I also check the blogs, seeing if any catch my interest (a few do, but please keep writing). And then I start on the "Meet Me" course, adjusting my search for any woman between 24 years of age and 34 years of age (I am 34). First, I start with my home state. When no results show up, I go for the option of all states and, sometimes, even different nations. I do find quite the unique individuals, women of different backgrounds from entrepreneurship to working in high-paying fields like business, law, and medical fields. There's even a few former military women on the site.

I am asked if I want to meet the woman, which I respond with a "Yes" or a "Maybe"; I only say "No" if the woman's status is married or separated (divorced makes me more hesitant, so I usually skip those individuals). I even give a few women a "Like" every now and then.

Now, I know I am not the only one who does this; it is a public site after all, and the options and preferences are available for all. My question is this: would anyone like to actually meet up?

1.- NEVER CRITICIZE.
Men are incapable of growth, change or progress.
Never. Even if it´s constructive.
For men, self-improvement is keeping WC closed.

2.- LAUGH.
Laugh that whatever he says, even if it´s not funny.
A fake laugh is like a fake o*gasm. Music for our ears...
I know, you´re thinking a fake o*gasm is no o*gasm.
But you´re the only person in the room who know that.
I'm not saying a fake o*gasm is good.
But is better than a no o*gasm at all.

3.- MEN ARE VISUAL.
Change your look according to the type of men you're interested.
Be more accessible, or not... It depends on his personality.
And for God sake, be logical. Don't hang out with CHE GUEVARA
and try to shave his beard.

4.- NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS.
Men don't really care or listen. I know it's hard to accept.
Some men pretend to care, only to F.U.
I'm not assuming all men are like bonobos playing with their bananas...
I KNOW.

And that's The Ugly Truth, 2009 film with Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler.

Married couples are more likely to get a divorce than single people.

The more you know

he was once in love with a girl a very beautiful girl that he thought was his soulmate.... spending every time and everything that he owed and have on her, just to make sure that she was always happy and never in need of anything.... never knowing that one day that love that he thought was real and bound to last will shuttered and crumble to the ground. he takes her out for dinner and was planning on proposing to her that night not knowing she has her own plans.as soon as the waiter brought the desert, handing her the glass of wine and the chocolate cake with the ring inside of it, her favorite cake, taking her second bite into the cake and noticing the proposal ring and pretending not to see it, placing back the rest of the cake into the plate, he notice her face expression. this is the day, this is the day that she wanted to break up with him . out of all of the days this is the day she choose, to crush a his heart, his soul. looking straight in his eyes with no remorse and saying those words that no one ever wanted to hear that it is over and we should start seeing different people. wasting eight years of your life with someone who was just keeping you around until they thought that they have found mr/mrs right is more than heartbreaking and no words can explain or describe it.
he was frozen, couldn't breath, couldn't speak, couldn't move. it was like he was in an different dimension and seeing his whole life flashing before his eyes at the same time. he didn't even notice that she wasn't even there. after reality hits him he grab his jacket leaving his great grand mother ring behind. a good thing a friend of his worked there and notice what have just happened. going back to his place and realize what have just taken place and quickly rushing back to the restaurant. his friend was on break and decided to take the rest of the evening so that he could cheer his friend up. to the strip club his friend said. they both went to the club that they uses to go over the weekends after school. their was this special stripper they both like, she is more like a therapy or counselor. after leaving the club they went to the bar nearer to their house where the bartender is more like a cousin. drinking and spilling out his broken hearted. running into his ex who have just dumped him for her cousin's cousin, talking about no hard feelings....three months later he dumped her for a prettier sister. now he his fine he is doing much better he have met this beautiful girl she is very intelligent, hard working and own her own business. he is glad that his friend brought him to the strip club and then to the bar for a second drink next to their yard or else he wouldn't meet this girl and the funny thing is he didn't found her she found him. after couple drinks and running into his ex. she just flew right in and stopped him from making a fool out of himself kissing him and taking the beer bottle from his hands before he slap the hell out of his ex new boyfriend. she is now sorry and wish that she could turn back the hands of time but its too later for that. they both ran into each other and talk things through and she saw that he was engage, he could see it in her eyes that she felt sorry but he can help her now he still loves her but can forget what have happened and now he happier than he could ever be. sometimes you should think about your next move before moving. think about other people feelings and do things a little differently. and he forgave her.

My friend have a woman from this site who come from England .
She visited him in ja often,she gave him money .and that's what he need.

Just tell me why you people on dating app buying Jamaican love .


They only need you women for your money


Tell me.if no body don't want you in your area.

You women are crazy::rolleyes:

Especially the fat women,they buy Jamaican men love ..

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The Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie story is far from being over. According to ABC News, parents of Gabby Petito have filed a $50 million wrongful death suit against Utah police.

'The suit alleges that if the Moab police had followed a Utah law on domestic violence, "Gabby would still be alive today," James McConkie, one of the attorneys representing the family, said during the briefing.'


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