Hot and Cold...

I don't like it cold... Even though when I feel hurt I may act a little distant... But I always like it hot, warm... Cozy, soft, hard, sticky, full of emotion, intense, passionate, obscene, sacred, s*xual, innocent... I love it... In all its ways, shapes and forms...
devil lips heart beating



Hot and Cold
"For this love flowing against the current.
For this love that nobody understands.
At times it knows no bounds
and runs amok in a terrible way.
It drags me around like a river,
going between hot and cold,
but it's yours and its mine,
clear as a moonlit night
with the moon full...
it's worth the difficulties.

And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.

For this love that has no pretensions,
for this love
that scratches and spreads out,
for this love born out of time itself.
For this love
that sometimes I myself don't even understand.
And it plays, just like a child
with the face of a rascal,
a game of cat and mouse.
And at times it shows itself to me naked,
so delicate and pure,
that I can't imagine it being wrong in any way.

And at times it takes me so far
that I find myself where I have never been.
Sometimes I lose myself
and then return in an instant, going between
hot and cold.
This love is yours and mine.

And at times I confuse the heavens
with the earth;
at times I don't know if it's going away or coming back,
between hot and cold...
This love is yours and mine."

P.S. What about other things...
My soup, extremely hot...
My drinking water, extremely cold...
My room, cold...
My bed, warm...
My... Nah, I better stop... Jajajajajajajajajajajajja... devil devil devil laugh laugh laugh
What about yours... Do you like it hot... Do you like it cold... Somewhere in between...

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...as long as it doesn`t hurt, I`m fine thanks! grin

cool wine
Hot is terrific, if you mean passion.
If you mean anger, then no.
Cold is not good. Nothing is gained by treating each other with indifference.
Honest open communication with a willingness to learn and support each other in desires and goals
is key to better understanding of one another and relationship growth.

I don't think I ever had a love that didn't hurt, even just a little... And I have to say I like it that way... I don't think anyone can escape to being hurt, when there are feelings involved... If it doesn't hurt, I wouldn't trust it... Maybe I am completely wrong, but I wouldn't want a love so "flat" that it didn't make my heart race or my blood pump faster... Didn't it ever hurt when your loved one was away?... Mr. Viking, in my humble opinion, if it's worth it, it will hurt one way or another... bouquet
I agree, Jim... And learning how to regulate that "thermostat" is fundamental... To try to synchronize your ways with those of that special person is an everyday challenge... But, when it feels "right" it's totally worth it...

P.S. Had to google the word "sincronizar" to type it correctly in English... Geez, I have all the right words in Spanish... laugh laugh laugh bouquet
...if you say so.... laugh but yes, as the old TV serie Love and marriage said... You can`t have one without the other!
-if it doesn`t hurt somtimes, it`s probably not for real.

(by the way, All Bundy was my hero!) rolling on the floor laughing
JAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAAJJAJAAJJA... Omg... Nobody can beat Al Bundy... He is the best!... laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

P.S. Al Bundy sooooo reminds me of a CS member... He is absolutely adorable, but TERRIBLE!... laugh laugh laugh laugh
Melody, I don't think it's necessary to synchronize thermostats, as sometimes
one can inspire the other to do something different or at all. However, being cognizant of knowing when it's appropriate to push the envelope with that individual, or not, can be crucial. I've been woken up in the middle of the night and may have not been instantly receptive, but came around to change that attitude with a little nudging and was glad for the experience without regret.
It's the pushing when someone is sick, or upset that is obviously more unwelcome.
But, it varies with individual personality.

You are MUCH better with English, than I am with Espanol.
Conozco un poco, pero no mucho. Dos anos en esquela pero mi no bueno.
Dicombobulated means disoriented or disorganized in a confusing way
Frazzled mean stressed out
Cinched means its assured, or guaranteed. It can also mean secured with string or a belt (with clothes).

There's probably 15,000 Spanish words I don't know. laugh
It's better to simply ask what someone means than to assume wrongly.

Yeah, every relationship between 2 people is somewhat different because everyone's personalities are somewhat different and they have different talents, weaknesses, and preferences.
I know... I ask everything... I had a boyfriend that called me: "The MILLION QUESTION girl"... laugh








And "Little Miss Attitude"... hole laugh


P.S. You win... laugh party danceline Now, would you type the meaning in spanish?... hole Please?... laugh
Courtesy of Google;

I never knew there were so many experts on every subject until I joined CS.
In fact some are experts on every subject imaginable and some i cant even imagine,except finding a relationship
rolling on the floor laughing
Mr. Nice... Long time no see!... I have to say I don't consider myself an expert on anything... But I am an avid learner (even when I can't remember the meaning in Spanish of three words in English, jajajajajaajajajajaj) and I love to read people's opinions and thoughts... Happy to read you... Stay safe... bouquet
Jim, you are adorable... You know, I was "discombobulated" when I read the meaning of the word "discombobulated" in spanish, because the word "Descombobulado" does not exist, according to the Royal Academy of the Spanish Language's dictionary... But hey, that can be used as an excuse to start a nice conversation between two people that speak different languages... laugh laugh laugh Thank you sooooo much!... bouquet
I must admit that I'm quite hopeless at speaking Español. Even though I've lived in Spain for 15yrs. Spanish people want to talk to you in English and us English want to talk to them in Spanish. We get by though, if they speak slowly lol...Spelling in Spanish is worse for me rather than talking it....
professor
Some are 'experts' at nothing other than being a troll.
They don't know anything useful, or even attempt to help people,
so they just whine about others.

Oh, hi "nice" roll eyes wine
Melody - like I said, it was straight from Google. dunno
I know, Jim... And it's perfect... It's a translator and it did what it could, the best way it could... As I said, you are adorable... And I thanked and thank you for being so helpful... Honestly... bouquet hug
Melody you are a sweetheart and I know someone who agrees with me..............peace ................Jenny
Nice2seeyoutoo jim narsasistical
Not

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Awwwww... Thank you so much, sweet Jenny... You have always been so nice to me... I only have kind words for you... And if or when you get in touch with that sweet soul we both know, please tell him he is missed by his "Mammasita" AKA Number 6 of "The cool six"... Jajajajajajajajajajaja... laugh laugh laugh bouquet hug
Melody1671OP•1 hrs ago•Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela
Awwwww... Thank you so much, sweet Jenny... You have always been so nice to me... I only have kind words for you... And if or when you get in touch with that sweet soul we both know, please tell him he is missed by his "Mammasita" AKA Number 6 of "The cool six"... Jajajajajajajajajajaja... laugh laugh laugh bouquet hug

Be sure that I will give, you know who, this message Melody tip hat beverage delivery flower
Be good or be careful..................violin
I will be both, sweet Jenny... Promise...
Hope Cor is doing better...
Stay safe... bouquet hug
Melody thank you for asking about Cor he is somewhat better but is not there yet. But at least I now have him home hug ........... Jenny
Hey, M. Once someone told me that the perfect was the enemy of the good. Still trying to understand, but it is, little by little, getting clearer.
Hi Melody...hope you are well...I’m back in Spain and HOT!

In fact, I only like HOT cool

Here is a little song for you kiss

https://youtu.be/RAyMt3y49mc
Don’t know why my youtube vid isn’t opening....I did the as normal...
Oh well frustrated lol
So happy to read Cor is at home, Jenny... Being with his other half has to make him the happiest... bouquet hug


Excuse me, nothing to comment.
Friend of Rob.wave
No problem at all... wave bouquet
Omg... Thank you for that laugh... laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
Thank you so much, for always being so nice to me... I really appreciate it, Itchy... hug

Regarding temperatures, well, thank God that boiling point only lasts for a while!... And the stirring... Well... I really enjoy the stirring... devil devil devil laugh laugh laugh
Stay safe, Itchy... hug bouquet wave
Melody, Some people its easy to be nice to hug

Glad you enjoyed the laugh wink

and thank you for holding your laughter in laugh

"You know I'm kidding with you don't you " cheers

Anyways, thankfully I've only a small appetite devil


gotta go
Awwwww, Itchy... hug
Of course, I know you are kidding...
Thanks again and have a wonderful night... bouquet hug
Melody...thanks honey for your wonderful answer which has left me feeling nothing less than HOT HOT HOT! blushing grin hug kiss

ps...would love to hear more about your HOT encounters...grin teddybear
No, sweet Robby... I don't have HOT encounters... I have relationships... I respect everyone's actions but that's not the way I was raised... This was a seven year relationship... And it was unbelievably hot... Se _ ually speaking, my close friends were always amazed of how intense it was... But having it HOT all the time is not good... When it goes out of the bedroom and it interferes with your life, it can consume you... Intense jealousy can destroy a relationship... I was almost completely isolated from my friends... I quit studying to obtain a third degree, because of love... And I was crying my eyes off, half of the time... The turning point was one night I got home after attending classes at the university and my Mom gave me a bowl of veggies cream soup... When I looked down and realized tears were landing on my soup, I knew I had to put an end to that relationship... The constant pressure... Being almost constantly followed, watched, interrogated... To be threatened that you will be killed... NOT hot at all... He was the most wonderful human being... Had absolutely extraordinary attributes... And I refuse to say anything negative about that person because he can't defend himself... He died in a car accident almost 20 years ago... And I know he has to be doing wonderfully, wherever he is... As I said on a previous comment, I got the experience of a lifetime, during this relationship... And for that, I will always be grateful... Bottom line: Extremes are NEVER good... No matter how tempting having it "HOT" all the time, may sound...
Stay safe, Robby... bouquet hug
Jajajajajajajajajajajaajjajaja... Omg... That last comment of yours was really "YOU"... I love your sense of humor... And I think a good sense of humor is fundamental, if you want to have a successful love relationship... Hell, a good sense of humor can literally save your life under stressful circumstances... laugh laugh laugh And I have to say that I really like the fact that you wanted and tried to make things work as a family... ¿Y durante 26 años?... ¡Me quito el sombrero, señor Robby!... That speaks really well about you... Never stop smiling, Robby!... hug bouquet
discombobulated

One of my favorite words! thumbs up
Melody applause

When I go to bed, my hands are always very cold coz prior to that, I would wash my face with cold water and apply cold aloe vera gel all over my face and neck.

Once I get under the covers, I would reach out for my Arty and he would shout, “Your hands are COLD!!!”

To that I would reply while trying to stifle my giggles, “But my heart is WARM!!! laugh
Raised, I like that word, too... It's kind of funny... wave bouquet
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Honest, caring, loyal, funny, witty, passionate, a rebellious sweetheart... Been told I have a heart of gold and my energy is so strong it can be felt when I enter a room... Willing to answer to any questions... Love good conversations... I don´t do [read more]

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