Long term or short term relationship
Both are perfectly acceptable ways to be in the world. Short or long, both should be approached with sincerity and open honest communication so that both parties on board can get the most joy and enlightenment from the experience as possible. It’s all about learning and growing and become our greatest selves whether it’s just for one night or forever.
How about you? Are you in or out?
You are entitled to your own opinion
Comments (18)
I had a male friend who was in relationship fo more than 10 years, they were just a simple couple.
During the 1991 earthquake I was deployed to Red Crescent with my colleague from college and guess what my male friend ask me if who I was with in short need to introduced them both because we were team.
In a blink of an eye my male friend admitted that he was smitten by my colleague
It's just happened very fast and they are now married for 20 years
I think long term applies to some cases as well as short term. It's just depend on both if there is chemistry
To fall in love with someone else can happen, a major contributor divorces.
Happens all the time.
To chose however to enter a short term deal is something else.
It ain't for me, I want it to "last forever" each time.
By the way, Norway on top statistically of one night stands worldwide.
If it works out well super! That was the goal.
Mixing apples and oranges looks good taste I guess
I have plenty of male friends who I cook for..Laugh with..Converse with..Dance with when we go out in a girls & guys group for the night or lunch during the day..Or other fun activities as a group..The only thing my male friends don't do is share my bed
If I ever find myself in a relationship it will be by accident..When I go out for a girls night out or any other scenario I don't scan the streets or venues looking for Mr Right..If I ever find myself in a relationship I would prefer it to last a life time or close enough to a life time.
I call a lady a day or two after our date night and say, "Hello lovely (her name)"
She replies, "Who is this? Johnny? Luke? Richard? George? Sam?"
I know I know I remember we touched this topic in my previous blog
I wish you the best in finding that right guy for you for a lifetime
How can you be so lucky guy
That lady even hasn't mention your name
You must me the heartthrob that most younger ladies are looking for
Just practice safety measures I would say
The short term part of the relationship is like a test drive, like test driving a car before you buy it / try before you.. then you make your mind up on the different points from your test drive..
You have good perspective regarding handling relationship
My concern is this. It might be fun for a night.
What if you later find someone-- more so than anyone you met before -- you truly love?
What if, in all your adventures, you contracted something loathsome and permanent?
I try to stay clean so that my future wife can say yes, without also having to say yes to disease.
It's that simple.
I can relate on what you are trying to say
You have a point there as in before taking the long drive we need to warm up so as we'll be safe as we go along
So the short term relationship should be thrashed, the limits pushed and the test drive is like; Drive it like you stole the dam thing and the police are chasing you..
Then if your car handles the thrashing, it may get you most of the way around the block of life..
I was thinking maybe you have that incident wherein you just take it FAST AND THE FURIOUS