What is your opinion on True Love?
Do you think it exists?Do you believe in it?
Can you define it?
Or is it an outdated idea that is not suited for the modern age?
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Comments (41)
True Love exists and you can find it as well around you. It is not always between man and woman but True Love exists.
Unconditional love is true love. And we are in age of spiritualism and love revival. Welcome to new approach.
I myself believe that true love exists. I have faith that basicly love comes from Heaven, from God, trough heart and feeling. My grand parents and my parents had the true love, whatever had happened, they were still in love each other until death apart them.
Finding true love at the bar....it never darned on me
My definition of true love is more than likely to be different to everyone elses definition of it, however, there is nothing to say that we are right or wrong with our definitions.
I personally think that true love is a concoction of feelings and emotions that have been gathered together in order to try and quantify it and give it a recognisable label.
Love is the one thing that no one can quite explain without referring to feelings or emotions.
I believe in honest love, a love that is given freely without reservation, conditions or expectations, it contains no ambiguity or pretense, it doesnt have a use by date, although without the proper care and attention it will slowly fade.
I would suggest that in the old days they would call this "True Love" and if it is then im a believer.
but thats just me.
different to each of us,we have it ;loose it;ruin it;look for.."
^^^^PERFECT ANSWER up there ^^^^.. many of course not ALL who have given up on love are usually stuck in that box. The box of online dating only, the box of he/she HAS TO BE a certain body shape, ethnicity, height etc. the box of fear, the box of insecurities, the box of low self esteem and a whole other sorts of boxes that have caused them to believe True Love no longer exists.. They've been hurt once or twice or a million times and have given up.. Some just choose the wrong people to love (but nothing is ever or hardly ever reciprocated)... Be patient and step outta the box..
I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON TRUE LOVE
In My OPinion the bible perfectly defines true love..
1st Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
It's very sad.. scorned and bitter men and women (mostly).. easier said than done I know believe me.. but GET OVER IT!!!!! especially after years and years and years of hurt, pain, unforgiveness.. one must at some point say enough is enough I DESERVE TO LOVE AND BE LOVED...
If I could market Healthy Self -Esteem Pills (America is a drug culture right???!!!) I'd be a gazillionaire like the rest of the drug companies in the world lol... I'd first market to men and women online... any ideas for the name of the pill?
:)
So good luck on your journey and in your search
From what I have heard from a few people, I think it may exist.
I recall speaking with a married women once, whom I asked how she meet her husband and how she know he was the one she should marry.
She told me they worked in the came factory. One day, they both passed each other in a hallway and a conversation had started. During the conversation she said he touched her hand and she felt an exchange of energy that was amazing and from that day on she knew she was going to marry him.
Who am I, not to believe that story?
Best to be careful who you marry and wait for the right one to come along..Otherwise it wont be a happy union..
to all, read about Buddhism if you want to understand more in depth.
Great questions. I think that the only reason it may be outdaed is because people have put "things" before feelings and have turned certain human circumstnces and imperfections under the lable of "baggage" things such as children and family is now reffered to as "baggage" where as in the past such things in one's life were considered "blessings" . Having emotions is oncered "drama" ...in the past this was considered "deth of character"
We have basically taken things which were viewed as possitive and have turned them into negative things ....almost as though we must be non human/ non feeling , completely self sufficient and with no dependents or anyone counting on us for anything.
Is this realistic? Probably not which is probably why "true love" seems so unattainable today.
Now excuse me, I have a date with my true love (in my dreams of course ) ..