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Time to heal

This is a peaceful thread so please don't start a riot or use obscene language. As a human being watching the World implode over the incident in Minneapolis I have to ask myself why we are not learning from this instead of tearing each other apar

When there is a will there's a way. There is always a way.

HAPPY 2023 for All The Good People in CONNECTING SINGLES!

And Also The People All Over The World! Try To Stay Positive Not Matter What! Learn To Be Happy With Little As Well! If You Staring Getting Sick Seek Help ASAP. Try To Untie Your Self With Friends, Relative, etc. Be Understanding, of Other Peo

a whole load of ifs and buts.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "if I had a penny for every penny I didn't have." would I be any the wiser?

To the owners of this site: I am most grateful

As a long time member of this site, I want to acknowledge my gratefulness for the owners, moderators and anyone who is responsible in providing us this wonderful place. Not only do they give us members the chance to meet our significant others (tw

"We Need To Be Better Imformed"!

"We Need To Know What Really Happens Around as" "Not Just Believed Only One Sort of News!" ButTraying To Find Out The " True" from Different Sources! There Will Be The Time , When Thre "True " Will Take Time! But The "True" Will Be Out, for All

Narcissism and the internet

I encourage bloggers to google The Internet Narcissism epidemic Its a well known fact,that Narcissists use the internet as a tool to inflate their imaginary Grandiose image of themselves,I have seen a few endless lengthy blogs here,Narcissists try an

So someone (I won't say who) emails me

the all important question. "Did your repair of the lawnmower's pull cord pass a field test?" LoL, yes, that is important to know. What good is a repair that doesn't work? So, in the interest of settling any doubts, after returning the as

A Ho-Hum cloudy day

So dark and gloomy outside I have the lights on. The rain has passed, but the clouds linger. I am living dangerously. I have gotten tired of opening and closing the front door every 5 minutes to let one or both cats in or out. So I have propped t

Self Improvement

How nice it is to be free. No restrictions. Well as you may already know, there were so many of us in CS jail in the last week or so. All for different reasons but bottom line is that on my note it said: "This site is free

Attorney Sidney Powell...

...God, that wavering southern female drawl must drive men wild during pillow talk. But I digress. Sure, these high flying lawyers do sometimes stick necks out, in support of a losing cause. Especially if somewhere down the road they see professiona

Self Delusion

How self-delusional do you think you are? It is said that everyone thinks they are a good driver and have a good sense of humor. I’ve seen people here write that they think they are smart, witty, funny, etc... and I am left scratching my head.

I No Longer

Interesting statement. She could have said this when she was 16 or 60. I've started to notice the similarities between the two passageways. https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xfp1/v/t1.0-9/1897739_10152494458557945_7920293910

your approach

Wondering how one know's honesty of a person in a long distance friendship or a relationship.

Enjoy the ride....

Imagine you paint your old boat and decide to take it out on the lake, even though it’s a foggy day. As you steer through the fog, another boat slams into your boat damaging the new paint job. Most of us will be furious why didn’t the person

The Gamble Of Life

The play field of life is uneven. We all start with different chances, and what we do with it, determines our future. It is like a game of poker. Some start off with better hands than the others and some have better cash reserves than

My surname is registered as a domain name for awhile. So, what kind of web site do I build using it?

My surname is registered as a domain name for awhile. So, what kind of web site do I build using it.

Awakens your soul

I read once that best love awakens your soul! I was thinking about the phrase and after giving a deep thought ...... ...faith and with the right people wakes my soul. What is your take on awakening of soul? Hi all

Success Vs. Failure.

Success can be defined as the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. In simple words, one reaching their destination. Accordingly, failure can be defined as the lack of accomp

My opinion on opinions

One purpose of the blogs is to express your opinion. Quite a few just post videos or cut and paste articles; which is not so much expressing an opinion as just agreeing with someone else's. I think there is a case to be made that, if you are not ca

With real joy comes real pain.

With real joy comes real pain. Any time we fully experience true joy or feel the preciousness of life on an emotional level, we can expect to feel a great amount of sadness. Many of us shy away from the things that would make us happiest, beca

Building a country girl

Country life is cool. She has been learning that. Her BF and I had her starting out with various types of .380s (Colts, PPKs etc), but I figured she was finally ready for the real t

Free at Last

I handed in my notice at work today. Soon I'll travel to parts of the world where I'm not blocked by 98% of the women on CS Meanwhile, for your listening pleasure

Say something kind ....to a fellow CS member

And let's start the new week with love and peace in our hearts... I shall start.... Red you are like golden sunlight on CS and your rays of warmth shine through Lady Itchy...you are beautiful and smart..and always make me laugh.:l

How great thou are???

Greatest tragedies in human relationships are the inability and unwillingness to tolerate and accommodate views that are different. We find comfort in those who agree with us, but personal growth occurs in situations where there are differences i

Wishes

If you could change things in your life what would you wish for?

Pursuing one of my childhood dreams....

Lying in my bed (with Sweetie napping by my side, as usual) I caught a memory whilst reading online, of one of my childhood dreams. This dream, in particular, was as a result of a popular show from the 70's-80's called "BJ and the bear". I remember

You're So Vain....

"You logged into blogland like you were walking on to a yacht Your words strategically placed along the lines Your pic, it was fairly dark You had one eye on the webcam, and watched yourself smirk And all the men dreamed that they'd be your 'c

Do You Panic?

Do you have a cool head in a crisis or do you panic. Can you handle a crisis or do you stand around not knowing what to do? Or even worse, do you break down? A crisis is like any other event in your life. The more you are exposed to it, th

So Which Is More Important?

When I was sitting at the foot of a guru....who was wonderful by the way, he used to always say, "Seriousness does not equal sincerity". I have watched and observed 'serious' people. I used to be one of them, to a degree. They have no innocenc

At least I have Me for 2022

What is it with new years that I am sick everytime they come. I have left behind all the disappointments 2021 has brought me. And in such a strange and unwelcome way, they have their own way of sneaking up. Now, Im wallowing all by myself, clogge

Going straight

As I stand here outside the prison gates, breathing in the air of freedom and feeling grateful for my early release, I am reflecting on my crime and the justness of my punishment. I have learned my lesson; from now on, whenever I am tempted to refer

16 Habits Of Highly Sensitive People

1. They feel more deeply. One of the hallmark characteristics of highly sensitive people is the ability to feel more deeply than their less-sensitive peers. They're very intuitive, and go very deep inside to try to figure things out. 2. They're

pondering

I was just on my way back from a movie when I was looking out into the night sky. Parking my car, the stillness of the night revealed the lively chirping of the crickets. lol awkward transition here....:) It is often said as we go throu

friends

is it me or does this website only have mature women over the age of 40...am i on the wrong website?..

Do You Like You?

Not too long ago, I hated myself, hated the situation I was caught in, hated my looks, hated everything about me..... Miraculously, I snapped out from my depression and self-pitying. Best feeling ever! I now see myself worthy of love

Philosophy

I became interested in philosophy a few years ago and made a casual acquaintance with some of the characters who have played a part in its progression since Socrates wandered about the market places of ancient Greece, annoying the locals. I can’t sa

Pay caution to the wind...

Usually when someone says my mate has a problem ...blah ..blah ..blah..can you help him ? there never was a mate or (pet) to begin with but after presenting oneself as a confident image they then deny themselves the right to be honest therefore can

what Has Turned My Life Around

After many years of struggling and being down more days then not I have realized the secret which has turned my life around and this might be worth you giving a try as well, in the past everything seemed to go w

A Restless Night

I think it may have been because I was frustrated at nothing interesting happening on the site last night that I ended up in one of my funny moods. The kind of mood where I feel like picking a fight; only a virtual fight, I wouldn’t dream of getting

WHY SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE TO BE NEGATIVE?

lo0+ BECAUSE IN MY OPINION THEY DO SUFFER FROM LOW SELF ESTEEM! THEY DO NOT LOVE THEMSELVES! THEREFORE THEY DO NOT LOVE OTHERS! THEY CHOOSE TO SEE THE BAD IN EVERY ONE! NEGATIVE PEOPLE NEVER GIVE TO