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Changing someones opinion... in CS

Have you noticed that changing someones opinion in CS doesn't happen? Especially in politics. What you believe is what you believe and NOTHING factual posted here will make you change your mind. I'll give some examples: The 2020 election. It's be

Being single at 66

For so long I have been stressed, numb, no empathy and tonight I got free. I found out that I am human and not a beast. Even though we were both created on the sixth day. I realized that dancing and enjoying the company of other single women c

Just for me, my thoughts.

This year has been the most crazy, dramatic, weird, upside down year ever. I started a completely different job, from nursing for over 30 years to an IT company on the computer all day. I went through a divorce that I had to sort out completely

Four more years...

It's been a while since I viewed the work of THE LINCOLN PROJECT and yesterday riz posted one that was very powerful. It's a simulation of what Trump might have said if he were on Truth serum and not Truth social. He's controlling the Republican par

Sincerity vs hypocrisy

In recent months, I have discovered a pattern. I meet more bad people in my life than the good ones The line in life between good and bad is, of course, very arbitrary. Well, really: who can be considered good and who bad? What criteria might there

truth and belief

Truth is naked and ugly while Belief is well dressed and beautiful with make-up. Pure truth is tasteless hard and immutable because it is created by Nature whereas Belief is very tasty flexible and soft because we make it ourselves according to our w

Second Time Around

I was wondering about this a long time,If you had the mind that you have now,and you were born again,what would be your goal in your new life? As for me? I would make my 2nd life's goal to be a Long Distance Runner

the power of words

Sometimes choosing wrong words can create a rift in relationship. Sometimes choosing wrong words can lead to war between two countries. And sometimes choosing the correct words solves all the problems. Your tongue is boneless but it can cause mo

How many of you let go of the past.

We all go though problems in life. Its part of our growth and to become a much better person. I believe some times problems are ment to be as we are either weak or need to learn. Its our chooses how to take a problem. We can either live in Ang

I am not ready for more responsibility.

After the disaster that was last week, I did some thinking over the weekend, and I came to the conclusion, that I am simply not ready to be the one who closes the warehouse. It was way too early to give me that responsibility, which I told my boss to

Unmasked

My story of the nightmare I have experienced since I met a man online in 2009. I didn't know he was very rich until 2016. I didn't know he was a narcissist until 2022. I suggest every one learn the signs of a narcissist because they are dangerous.

Safe space.

In the past that seems so long ago I kind of found my way back to me in this crazy site. I went through so much emotion and in the end I found without realising it that I needed to learn how to deal with Me, I realised that She had been buried so de

Peoples

We don't meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason

Good-Luck or Bad-Luck

In a village, a poor old farmer had a lame son. Everyone in the village called that boy unlucky. One day, king's army came to the village, and took all the strong young boys to be soldiers for the emperor. Only the old farmer's lame son was spared,

Pursuing one of my childhood dreams....

Lying in my bed (with Sweetie napping by my side, as usual) I caught a memory whilst reading online, of one of my childhood dreams. This dream, in particular, was as a result of a popular show from the 70's-80's called "BJ and the bear". I remember

Mike Lindell, your pillow guy...

When Trump was president, Mike Lindell was in the news. I'm guessing he poured money into the Trump campaign and bought rights to have White House clearance as he was there often. He was banned from Twitter but not as a claim to fame. Let's (try to)

BEWARE OF HEALERS

There are people who masquerade as healers and profess to have the ability to change a person's life for the better, as long as they follow their instructions. This is just another method of exerting control over vulnerable individuals, and establish

Lyin' Rudy...

Trump's former the lawyer Rudy Giuliani is a central figure in an investigation into election interference in Georgia. He's due to appear before a special grand jury and has been telling prosecutors that following his unspecified medical procedure, h

blackberries (and cvd)

When the virus occurred, I guess almost everyone of us must have been hit in one way or the other. It struck me at least 3 times, one time I lost my breath for a full day, was not able to climb stairs or I thought I'd die soon. Though I'm still h

To my dear friends (enemies as well), specially Billy

I'm grateful. Thankful and feel blessed for every breath I take. Being over the hill is only a state of mind. Our body might be beat, our minds tired, our strength diminish but the reality is, we are capable of steering our mind set against all

Positive Thoughts

People always insinuating negativity towards anything or anybody.... But no matter what you may go through... Never let your situation or experience affect you or those around you negatively... No matter how bad the circumstances... Stay Positive

Love & Pain

" The pain comes in wanting things. " -Buddha That is so very true. Man's survival is always based in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. At 49. I have a different perspective of love for a significant other. If I can survive without that person. That

FRIENDSHIP

What is friendship? Is it any of the following:- Prepared to help in any situation Patient Never gives up on you Appreciates you and your personality Doesn't compare you to other people Never insults you Recognises your qualities Realises t

What is your own value?

A man went to God and asked, “What is my value?” God gave him one stone and said, “Find out the value of this stone, but don’t sell it.” The man took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what it’s cost would be. The Orange Seller saw the sh

Great to be home.

Inner Child

There is a child inside each one of us, our ego does not allow to come out, but comes out in front of the person we are most comfortable with. https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTJP4q1Rcpy6WhNOf1s6ZJtsXYhA1a6W7H

Yanking the chain or chaining the Yank

Having commented on several blogs and been given the order of the boot, along with other posters, in no uncertain manner by certain O.P.s I have to call in to question people's own mentality. There seems to be a group mentality on here of late which

My daily quotes ??

As we continue to fight on our daily lives. Do not fear of failure, but be terrified of regret. Giving up is the birth of regret?? priceless??

BALICIAS TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR SELF STEEM NOT MATTER YOUR GENDER PAR1

[]HAIR : If you do not have much hair. You could make it look more by using Hair Gell and Hair Spray! Hair Gell You could use the Home Brand! It is good and Cheap! It cost a little more then a dollar ! Hair Spray you need to use the Best! You c

How to Boost your Self Steem part2 In my own opinion

Not matter what? we have to stay Positive! And make the best of our daily life! Either when it come down to catastrofe you could find something positve! Each ob as are important, Everyone ob as has talent just we have to find it! Always sorren

Going straight

As I stand here outside the prison gates, breathing in the air of freedom and feeling grateful for my early release, I am reflecting on my crime and the justness of my punishment. I have learned my lesson; from now on, whenever I am tempted to refer

"Please" Be Nice to Your Self! ( By falicia s Own Experiences)

We Always Focus on Every One Else! But We Forget Our Self! We Are Important! People Need Us!! "So Be Nice to Your Self" "Start Today" "Find a Big Mirror" And Look Your Self! What Is The Nice' s Thing You Have! For Example ! It Is You Eyes

My Personal Mission Statement

I'll do good deeds like changing your tire...and for twenty bucks I'll even tighten the lug nuts. If I find a lost wallet, I promise to drop it in a mailbox after taking only half of the money. I'll pray for the godless heathens....but I'm n

Who are more romantic, men or women?

The word romance is associated with the notion of being vulnerable in men's minds. They are conditioned to perceive being romantic as being feminine or being a wimp. Even the meaning of the word romance is confusing to men in general. I took upon

To the owners of this site: I am most grateful

As a long time member of this site, I want to acknowledge my gratefulness for the owners, moderators and anyone who is responsible in providing us this wonderful place. Not only do they give us members the chance to meet our significant others (tw

Serious Conversation

Years ago, I had a talk with myself regarding my troubles about love and relationship. My inner self told me: "I think your problem is that you are very serious about getting into and being in a relationship that you are missing out on opportunities

How to Overcome Depression! Based on My Own Experiences!

"WARNINGS SIGNS" ITs All Depend, At What Stage You Are At The Moment! If you Already are seen Visions, If you Are Feeling Violent!, Toward Other People, If You Are Letting Your Self Go,You are not feeling Hungry To eat Your " Favourite Foods", If

Turning Negative to Positive

I woke up around midnight and couldn't fall back asleep. Got up a couple times, played a computer game, didn't get sleepy, tried to watch a documentary on China history, didn't get sleepy so I let my mind wander. Bear in mind for those that don'

Without communication there s no Relationship, the

Without trust there's no reason to continue! Not communicating for quite long say weeks together and for no valid reason,when u know the other one in search of new relationships (keeping Ur partner in the dark)..ain't fine. When confronted,saying Dea

Too Much People

Did anyone ever told you this? Too much of other people is not good for you. Not at all. Especially their thoughts. Reading what they think about this and that. You're not supposed to know all these things. It's like television. It's not useful for y

Give a little bit !

It's often said, that life is what you make of it. More than that, how we treat others is actually our legacy. How we treat others affects them and often how they also treat others. These ripples of influence can have profound results over t