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5 things men want from women in a relationship/marriage

1) Peace

One of the greatest things you can give a man is not your body but peace of mind

An atmosphere in which he will find happiness, a place where he can relax and think plan and reach his goal to conquer his world and achieve his goal in it without pressure, constant disturbance or problems

If you can't give him peace leave him to find someone who can

2) Understanding

He wants you to understand him

To understand his ability (financially for example) and manage with him and not let the demands exceed them

To understand his nature (temperament likes, dislikes) and know how to blend/flow with him peacefully

To understand his calling and know how to support him to achieve it not fight it

An understanding woman captivates the heart and kidneys of her man.

3) Encouragement

He may not say it but he looks to you for encouragement daily

Your words mean a lot to him

"Baby I know you're trying I love you

I see the sacrifice you are making for us and our future thank you

Baby you can do it you can get it done things may not be the way you want them to be right now but I m with you

Men love and cherish a woman who encourages them to succeed

4) Respect

Calm down the first one before you get insulted You yourself don t want respectv so what are we not saying?

No man wants to marry a second mother or an elder sister in a context of authority

Treat him with respect as he treats you

Talk to him respectfully (publicly and privately)

Respect and respect him as you would your pastor

5) Influence and sponsorship

A man wants his wife to be treated like a child but few admit that

Men also want to be spoiled and taken care of

He wants you to take care of him
Men are very weak in this area so most men do not joke with their mothers the first woman to take care of them

Be there for him to make sure he eats, even if you are not the one currently cooking for him still encourage him to eat

Remember: God may give us perfect wisdom to do the right things

I received a text message yesterday from a school friend I've known more than 50 years. Her husband and I communicate a few times a year and it's usually about other friends good and bad situations. The message was about another friend who passed away a few months ago. He was a retired attorney living in California and only a few years younger than me. Another one gone.

I dropped off the website for class reunions and she gives me updates.

As long as I've known her, she's been a vegetarian. She returned to Miami 12 years ago for a reunion and it must be working as she's about 125 pounds and most of her girlfriends who attended the event were no less than 180 pounds.

I'm expecting family holiday photos of her 2 kids and their families, then I could send them to my friends and say "Hey... do you remember ______?"

Oye Weh! WTF?
Texas teen reportedly turns Dad into the corrupt Fat Bald and Ignorant, for his illegal trespassing on January 6 in the Swamp. Lionized as a hero by the deep statist deep syndromic left, VERY deep. But we ask, was he indoctrinated to do so in our government schools? Soon a go fund me page, and a rich kid? And a book? Doubt it?
In my travels, speaking with every day folks, in the Anscluss Austria, the PRC, former USSdR, and post WWII fourth Reich, the latter was part of my undergrad degree in German, folks told me this sort of thing was once quite common, and encouraged by the Party. Rat on neighbors, and family.
Chairman Mao's Red Guard, Stalin's Komsomolkaya Pravda, Shickelgruber's H youth---what an interesting history. Calls for re-education camps, as for Uighurs, for us deranged Trumpsters, are not the only cautionary tales, peebles.
As always, don't just take my words for it. Just read.

Have you seen that child who couldn't finish his pie because it was tainted with his innocent blood? Or worse, he wouldn't be able to eat it because his soul had flowed back to its creator.

Did you see that little girl whose expensive toy fell next to her? The game does not move and its owner cannot play with it after today.

Did you see that kid lying near his school book? Of course, he will not be able to complete his schoolwork because he has become a dead body.

Imagine if you were that father who returned home and saw his loved ones killed and slaughtered.

How do you feel as you collect the remains of their toys that they were happy about when you brought them to them and they thanked you for them?

I remember the word Baba when they said it, how beautiful it was in their mouths

I remember when he started walking, stepping, and then falling, and I tried to help him walk gently and compassionately

Every corner of the house has a memory of them

How many ideas did you prepare for his good upbringing?

How many hopes I built in planning for his future

And now he is a dead body in your hands. The evil people killed all of them unjustly and aggressively. This is how their families feel.

Shine, Son...……………..

After many long cold winter months, spring finally comes into the country and we can start preparing for the BBQ season. To get off to a good start, it is of course very important to refresh the necessary etiquette of this sublime outdoor cooking, as only a real man can do.

When a man is a volunteer to take care of the BBQ, the following chain of activities is set in motion:

1) The woman buys the food.

2) The woman makes the salad, cooks the other vegetables and provides dessert.

3) The woman prepares the meat to bake it and puts it on a nice dish together with the necessary herbs and oils and brings it to the table next to the BBQ. Here the man waits with his 6th beer, next to a finally burning fire mass.

4) Now comes the important piece: THE MAN LAYS THE MEAT ON THE GRILL! 5) The woman goes back home and starts collecting plates and cutlery to cover outside the table.

6) The woman comes back outside and calls that the meat is burning. The man thanks the woman and asks if she brings another pint while he keeps the situation under control.

7) Again important: THE MAN TAKES THE MEAT OF THE GRILL AND LAY IT ON A DISH AND GIVES IT TO THE WOMAN!8) The woman now fills the plates, distributes the vegetables, the lettuce, the bread, the napkins, the sauces and places the plates on the table.

9) After dinner the woman cleans the table and does the dishes.

10) Most important of all: EVERYONE DISRUPT THE MAN'S COOKING ARTS AND THANKS HIM FOR ALL THE WISHES HE HAS DONE.

11) When everyone is finally gone, the man asks the woman if she has enjoyed her "cooking-free night". To see her reaction he decides that some women are never satisfied .......

...according to Jerry Seinfeld. In my duties as executor of my folk's estate, I'm learning things, and perhaps being confided in, more these days. Learned of the separation and possible divorce of a close family member, and am saddened greatly. Both of these folks always seemed like decent people, and wonderful parents, to me. Sure, I know that sometimes things evolve into a situation where a couple ain't right any longer. Still, almost always heart heavy to hear it.

................. Happy New Year

real love ………………..