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When we are newly in love, we believe that it will last forever. As soon as we have a previous history of love to refer to, we realise that it might last a minute or anything might happen.

If two people work together with the same goal in mind, will the love have at least a possibility of a forever after?

A gentleman wrote in saying he is trying to be everything for his wife and providing everything she wants, but he is not getting what he wants...sex.

The Psychologist responded to his concern...and she states that in today's world with the roles of women and men changing, there is confusion of sorts going on with both genders. One thing she states about women, the same qualities that they want in a loving relationship, are the same qualities that DO NOT foster a drive for sex.



Hmmmm

Her recommendation to the gentleman was to talk with his wife....basically no real solution.

I am convinced of it. I met a perfect woman. Single, sweet, well educated and gorgeous too. There is a catch.

She has a bad heart valve and a normal blood pressure of 96 over 82. Tick Tock. Make every second count because the sands in the hourglass may soon be spent.

I want to wish a Happy Valentine's Day to everyone on the blogs, whether they be friend or foe!

If You Are Single and Looking?
Do Not Give Up!!
You Will Find That Special Person!
If You Already Have Some One, and Is Special!
Make Sure You Appreciate that Person!
And Do Not Let Go!

Have a Beautiful Day Every One
Love From faliciaXO

Let's call him A (for Adventure ) he's around 50, a good technician, will never have a problem finding a job, right now he's up for technical manager at his company with one other candidate and feeling increasingly stressed. He and his wife used to do a lot of hiking, and he wants to quit the job and go hiking for a month in the mountains to re-set his head. The route he's looking at has scattered villages but there would also be some nights they'd have to camp out.

His wife, a full-time housewife, takes a little persuading. She leaves all the route-planning and arrangements up to him but finds out all the kit they will need, buys it, packs it, and sorts their iron rations. They’ll be limited to a 40kg load – it is understood he will carry the 30kg backpack, she the 10kg one. He will pitch the tent on the nights they sleep out, sort the campsite (including lighting the fire), she will cook nutritious meals, make chunky sandwiches for each following day, and warm his sleeping bag at night. She's genuinely looking forward to it.
Or
His wife is completely up for it, and gets her employers to agree she can take the month off. They study the route together, shop together, and will carry equal 20kg packs. They’ll share all the chores and take it in turns to lead the climb, and since good sleep is essential, they will pitch their tents alongside each other on the nights they sleep out
Or
She tells him he’s insane and simply reacting to stress at the office. If he ducks out now he will never recover the ground he’s about to lose, all the time he has invested in his career so far will be put back years. She suggests instead that he go for a weekend hike with a friend from his climbing group.
Or
She says oh, okay, when will you go? Enjoy yourself!

Which wife would he want – and, maybe a different answer, which wife does he need?

(For those who think I use CS only for book research, yes and no - this isn't a book in the making but yup, genuinely interested in what people think)

" As Dates" We Need Communication in a Daily Basis!
By Messages, Emails, Phone Calls or By Images!

We Ned to See You Possible More Then Twice a Week!

We Need to Spend Time With You!
We Need You to Want to Spend Time with As!

We Need Your Affection!
We Need You to Want our Affection!

We Maybe Need Sometimes Your Help as?
We Maybe Need to Help You Sometimes?

We Need You To Be Happy
We Will Try to Make You Happy!

We Need You To Want as Happy!
We Want You To Try To Make as Happy!

" We Really Are Not That Complicated!"
Thank you !
By falicia
What Is Your Opinion?

I Remember My Love was here
I Remember When She comment
I Remember When She reply on my behalf
I Remember When She send me Flowers
I Remember Her Posting ecards
I Remember Good Morning Afternoon Evening and Good Night She wrote
I Remember All the hours mints and days
When we were busy here
All I Remember Her Love for Me
Now Only I Remember the Past
Nothing In Present and Want to Restore
All that Gone If it Can
Love Love And Lost In Love
It was A Dream I Remember

Remember, love can be grand !


But divorce, can run you several grand $$$$ !

...so, after excluding the 99+ percent of responses to the profile, those occasional likes, and so on, the rare long term writing back and forth ensues. Often more vetting is required, and it's all grist for the mill. In time, occasionally, someone finally has to admit to fewer likely possibilities than first thought. Still, several options remain. Quit as friends? My favorite is the friendly, helpful, thoughtful, intelligent ACQUAINTANCE. It amazes me that such occurs/endures. Perhaps the sharing over time explains it. But who knows? And in time, who really knows?