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Mar 19, 2019 12:41 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!

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Mar 19, 2019 2:37 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
Judgementalism is also an "ego problem".
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Mar 19, 2019 4:22 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
smiley963: Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!
If you were to take the same people that you're talking about & reverse your statement to
" Really - Men / Women have a love life with people older than their parents!", it still would be equally true.

Mightn't do much for your ego argument though.dunno
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Mar 19, 2019 4:42 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
My kids are still at primary school
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Mar 19, 2019 4:55 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
I never understood the double standard of men get patted on the back for dating a much younger woman yet the woman is always assumed to be a gold digger.

Yet when women date younger men.. something is psychologically wrong with them

If they are not committing a crime.. it is none of our buisness
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Mar 19, 2019 5:54 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Bnaughty: My kids are still at primary school
is that what you call em?
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Mar 19, 2019 9:46 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden149 Posts
smiley963: Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!
You will find that most of the population who are healthy are attracted to their own age group as they get older.
There are a few people around though who have an age crisis, women as well as men and it shows this to everybody else, but themselves rolling on the floor laughing There are those also who have been through a childhood trauma and are still looking for mommy or daddy. Again, everybody sees it, but themselves.
Such people are the easy victims of scammers or toxic narcissistic sociopaths, so one should really feel sorry for them.yay
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Mar 19, 2019 10:43 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Demeter123: You will find that most of the population who are healthy are attracted to their own age group as they get older.
There are a few people around though who have an age crisis, women as well as men and it shows this to everybody else, but themselves There are those also who have been through a childhood trauma and are still looking for mommy or daddy. Again, everybody sees it, but themselves.
Such people are the easy victims of scammers or toxic narcissistic sociopaths, so one should really feel sorry for them.
Yet if you go to Asia, you will find a high population of Scandanavians in the 70's and older married to girls in the 20's and 30's. And living a very happy life lol.
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Mar 19, 2019 11:41 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
as long as they are two consenting adullts....I don't care what they do......wave
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Mar 20, 2019 3:08 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
CossackCat: I never understood the double standard of men get patted on the back for dating a much younger woman yet the woman is always assumed to be a gold digger.

Yet when women date younger men.. something is psychologically wrong with them

If they are not committing a crime.. it is none of our buisness
Gold-digger or not you might believe both sides are getting what they want.

Older woman/younger man you're likely to believe both sides would rather be somewhere else. She envies his youth and if she could steal his age she would do and use it to land herself a silver fox.
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Mar 20, 2019 3:21 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
A clue is that when most women do sincerely like a younger man it's an obstacle or at best a coincidence, it's because he can sound 50 at 25.
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Mar 20, 2019 3:37 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Yes, I'd give that as the difference. The older man might wish her not to be an immature 25 where the older woman will wish that he is mature for 25.
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Mar 20, 2019 4:00 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Bnaughty: What?
laugh
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Mar 20, 2019 3:13 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden149 Posts
rizlared: Yet if you go to Asia, you will find a high population of Scandanavians in the 70's and older married to girls in the 20's and 30's. And living a very happy life lol.
Yes I've seen some of them. The younger girls here are wise to them and they have a word for them "Gubb Javel" The old men "Import" young Asian girls to Scandinavia hoping to keep them, but alas the girls are too clever for them and as soon as they get their permits after two years of hell pretending to love "Grandpa" they leave the pathetic and doddering old fart and have a happy life. Ha ha ha!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Good luck to the girls.yay
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Mar 20, 2019 3:51 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
I call it selfishnessscold
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Mar 23, 2019 3:51 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Bnaughty: My kids are still at primary school
mmmmmmmm be careful what you say might be misinterpreted .... or maybe that is your point . !!!!??? Personally i feel relationships with big age gap are unhealthy often its a use use situation its not an equal relationship . I feel insulted by very young guys contacting me imagining that id be thrilled at prospect of being with a guy 20 or 30 yrs younger . No I wouldn't...... I find the whole idea off putting and disrespectful .
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Mar 23, 2019 4:05 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
It is fact that older men prefer younger women . Young guys chasing older women is also common but older women for most part do not want younger men they want mature man like themselves . This I read from research done on one of the big dating apps. I believe it to be true as it is also my own experience . I get most contact from guys who are 20 or more years younger than me and when I look at profiles of men in my own age group 60 plus they mostly seeking woman 12 to 25 yrs younger . It's partly why I've given up hope of meeting a suitable man .
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Mar 23, 2019 4:52 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
smiley963: Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?
Someone in his late twenties / early thirties, working and living on his own, is hardly a kid. Not even for his grand-mother, only for you. Or are you suggesting peadophilia here?


smiley963:

People will be people!!!
Sure. Do you expect people to be something else?
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Mar 23, 2019 5:39 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Tulefell: Someone in his late twenties / early thirties, working and living on his own, is hardly a kid. Not even for his grand-mother, only for you. Or are you suggesting peadophilia here?


Sure. Do you expect people to be something else?
My g?f is sligtly younger than my daughter, honestly it doesn't cross my mind, she is good friends with my daughter.
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Mar 23, 2019 6:23 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
aries1234: My g?f is sligtly younger than my daughter, honestly it doesn't cross my mind, she is good friends with my daughter.
I know you are just a mindless selfish old man
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