Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own! (30)

Mar 19, 2019 1:41 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!

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Mar 19, 2019 3:37 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand2,298 Posts
Judgementalism is also an "ego problem".
Mar 19, 2019 5:22 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 1,113 Posts
smiley963: Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!
If you were to take the same people that you're talking about & reverse your statement to
" Really - Men / Women have a love life with people older than their parents!", it still would be equally true.

Mightn't do much for your ego argument though.dunno
Mar 19, 2019 5:42 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
My kids are still at primary school
Mar 19, 2019 5:55 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
I never understood the double standard of men get patted on the back for dating a much younger woman yet the woman is always assumed to be a gold digger.

Yet when women date younger men.. something is psychologically wrong with them

If they are not committing a crime.. it is none of our buisness
Mar 19, 2019 6:07 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Bnaughty: My kids are still at primary school
Oh shit , I thought you were soz.
Mar 19, 2019 6:38 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
aries1234: Oh shit , I thought you were soz.
What?confused
Mar 19, 2019 6:54 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
raphael119online now!
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Bnaughty: My kids are still at primary school
is that what you call em?
Mar 19, 2019 10:46 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden225 Posts
smiley963: Is it an Ego problem, as they need to boost it, with the kids, to prove that they are not nearly an antique yet?

People will be people!!!
You will find that most of the population who are healthy are attracted to their own age group as they get older.
There are a few people around though who have an age crisis, women as well as men and it shows this to everybody else, but themselves rolling on the floor laughing There are those also who have been through a childhood trauma and are still looking for mommy or daddy. Again, everybody sees it, but themselves.
Such people are the easy victims of scammers or toxic narcissistic sociopaths, so one should really feel sorry for them.yay
Mar 19, 2019 11:35 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Love is an emotion which we have very little control over, so if love blossoms, why be judgemental? Unless it is through jealousy of course.
Throughout history men have been attracted to young nubile girls, only "social" changes have created a false sense of "right & wrong", the Victorian era having had a profound effect on what was morally correct or incorrect regarding age differences.
That a man can fall deeply in love with a younger woman, is rarely questioned, it is always the reasoning behind the women's choice that raises eyebrows.
Yet history has shown that often the woman genuinely loves the older man, feels a greater security and protection from a man who is already established and secure in his own life.
Then you have "power" many women are very attracted to powerful men, mainly IMO, because these men ooze confidence, and confidence is, without doubt, one of the strongest reasons a woman falls for a man.
Having said all that, they are those women who see the money rather than the love, and gives up everything just to get some of that money, willing to sleep with someone who in reality disgusts them, but the financial carrot is just too powerful a temptation. It is obvious to the casual observer which women these are.

I guess a true realisation is when you see a man in his 60's, who obviously is not financially wealthy, but has a wife in her early 30's.
Mar 19, 2019 11:43 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Demeter123: You will find that most of the population who are healthy are attracted to their own age group as they get older.
There are a few people around though who have an age crisis, women as well as men and it shows this to everybody else, but themselves There are those also who have been through a childhood trauma and are still looking for mommy or daddy. Again, everybody sees it, but themselves.
Such people are the easy victims of scammers or toxic narcissistic sociopaths, so one should really feel sorry for them.
Yet if you go to Asia, you will find a high population of Scandanavians in the 70's and older married to girls in the 20's and 30's. And living a very happy life lol.
Mar 20, 2019 12:41 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
as long as they are two consenting adullts....I don't care what they do......wave
Mar 20, 2019 4:08 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
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CossackCat: I never understood the double standard of men get patted on the back for dating a much younger woman yet the woman is always assumed to be a gold digger.

Yet when women date younger men.. something is psychologically wrong with them

If they are not committing a crime.. it is none of our buisness
Gold-digger or not you might believe both sides are getting what they want.

Older woman/younger man you're likely to believe both sides would rather be somewhere else. She envies his youth and if she could steal his age she would do and use it to land herself a silver fox.
Mar 20, 2019 4:21 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
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ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK5,236 Posts
A clue is that when most women do sincerely like a younger man it's an obstacle or at best a coincidence, it's because he can sound 50 at 25.
Mar 20, 2019 4:37 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
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Yes, I'd give that as the difference. The older man might wish her not to be an immature 25 where the older woman will wish that he is mature for 25.
Mar 20, 2019 5:00 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Bnaughty: What?
laugh
Mar 20, 2019 4:13 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden225 Posts
rizlared: Yet if you go to Asia, you will find a high population of Scandanavians in the 70's and older married to girls in the 20's and 30's. And living a very happy life lol.
Yes I've seen some of them. The younger girls here are wise to them and they have a word for them "Gubb Javel" The old men "Import" young Asian girls to Scandinavia hoping to keep them, but alas the girls are too clever for them and as soon as they get their permits after two years of hell pretending to love "Grandpa" they leave the pathetic and doddering old fart and have a happy life. Ha ha ha!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Good luck to the girls.yay
Mar 20, 2019 4:51 PM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
I call it selfishnessscold
Mar 23, 2019 4:51 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
Bnaughty: My kids are still at primary school
mmmmmmmm be careful what you say might be misinterpreted .... or maybe that is your point . !!!!??? Personally i feel relationships with big age gap are unhealthy often its a use use situation its not an equal relationship . I feel insulted by very young guys contacting me imagining that id be thrilled at prospect of being with a guy 20 or 30 yrs younger . No I wouldn't...... I find the whole idea off putting and disrespectful .
Mar 23, 2019 5:05 AM CST Really - Men / Women have a love life with kids younger than their own!
It is fact that older men prefer younger women . Young guys chasing older women is also common but older women for most part do not want younger men they want mature man like themselves . This I read from research done on one of the big dating apps. I believe it to be true as it is also my own experience . I get most contact from guys who are 20 or more years younger than me and when I look at profiles of men in my own age group 60 plus they mostly seeking woman 12 to 25 yrs younger . It's partly why I've given up hope of meeting a suitable man .
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