RE: god fearing the number 1 most used word in female dating profiles

Then you don't remember the changes they made after a couple of lengthy threads discussing their tactics a couple of years ago?

Information was revealed so even the gullible could easily identify them. The changes meant we left the gullible vulnerable again and that is not fair play.

I'm not concerned about you being scammed Riz, nor anyone else who is savvy.

RE: god fearing the number 1 most used word in female dating profiles

Any chance you lot can stop telling the scammers all you know, only they have been known to change their tactics after they've been thoroughly discussed on the forums.

RE: god fearing the number 1 most used word in female dating profiles

Really...?

I would have thought you had training in being a thoroughly lousy troll. It's where you light shines. tip hat

RE: Fly spray

Oh dear, is it wrong that made me laugh? laugh

RE: The HUG.

If someone reacts poorly to your good manners as you see it, isn't that an honest return? dunno laugh

RE: The HUG.

Well, if you don't know, why did you state it as fact?

I'm not finding your sentence construction clear to comprehend EnglishTeacher55, but I wonder if it is your 'good manners' which some women think is 'weak'.

If you feel a need to be approved of, or liked by everyone it can come across as a lack of confidence. If your 'good manners' cross the line to not treating women as normal human beings equal to yourself, it can feel swamping, oppressive and intrusive. Are you maybe crossing that line at times in your eagerness to gain approval?

Are you expecting something in return from some women which they are not actually obliged to give? Are you disresprcting some women's boundaries under the guise of 'good manners'? In which case, that is not 'good manners' at all.

RE: The HUG.

How do you know that some women look at a gentle male as being weak?

Why would it matter to you if some women do?

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

So, belief is not necessary for perception, but is perception necessary for belief?

Not only was I deeply confused by the apparently contradictory statements about reality, I think I bypassed them in favour of the idea of belief not being a pre-requisit for perception within the confines of spirituality. It seems simpler and less corruptable, to me. It's not something we have to agree on, it just is on a personal perceptual level.

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

Actually, (again) there is a conceptualisation of 'god' in there:


su·per·sti·tion

*excessively credulous belief in and reverence for supernatural beings.

*a widely held but unjustified belief in supernatural causation leading to certain consequences of an action or event, or a practice based on such a belief.


Does that conceptualisation fit the definition of superstition?

There's no mention of 'god' being a supernatural being; if 'god' is 'everything' wouldn't that imply 'god' is at least inclusive of all things natural?

There is no mention of cause and effect, supernatural, or otherwise.

This is why I find 'perception' more interesting than 'belief'.

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

Okay, in which case, could you arrange for Mount Everest to be delivered to my front room, please? giggle

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

I've not done LSD and how the hell did you do CRAP? Smoke it, or snort it? laugh

I did say it made no difference to you premiss that Pedro is not obligated to provide proof whether he was making statements about a belief, or a perception and that I just think using the phrase 'I perceive god' has a different quality to 'I believe in god'.

Spirituality on the basis of perception is a whole different ball game to spirituality based upon belief, as I perceive it.

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

Good point.

Well, he actually said god isn't a reality and then straight after god is a reality, which confused me on the reality front no end. laugh

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

Actually,

4)you assuming his perception is based upon silly superstition suggests you have pre-conceptualised Pedro's perception, even though you cannot possibly perceive his perception. You can ask him about his perception, or describe your own, but to conceptualise his suggests you're introducing information that you've brought from your own experience, not his experience. My perception is that you appear to be psychodynamically muddying the water there. laugh

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

I perceive your premiss to be inaccurate on three counts:

1)The same as with Moosey's post, Pedro didn't say he believed, but that he perceived;

2)It's not necessary to prove one's perception for that perception to be discussed. For example, if I say I can see pink elephants, I don't need to prove I can see them, for others to ask how big they are, how I'm feeling about seeing them, or for others to share that they see green giraffes;&

3)If I see pink elephants and you don't, who is to say that I'm wrong and you're right? I see them and the perception is real to me, you don't see them and that perception is real to you. Asking me to prove I'm seeing pink elephants is no more logical than me asking you to prove that you don't.

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

RE: The eyes of truth are watching.

Errr...didn't Pedro say it was his perception, not his belief?

Not that it changes your premiss that he has obligation to provide evidence, just that Pedro's statements have a different meaning, or quality with the use of the word 'perceive', rather than 'believe', to my mind.

RE: Is Death Penalty or Capital punishment a good justice?

Am I right in thinking you are saying if someone innocent in this life ends up in prison, or executed it'll be because of something they did in a previous life? Are you saying, somewhere along the line, they will deserve their suffering?

RE: Is Death Penalty or Capital punishment a good justice?

It's interesting that as big as you are, you need bravado and yet as small as I am, I don't.

Do you know what is written on the death certificate of executed people in the US?

RE: Anyone wants to accompany me on trip to France this summer?

Well done, Lanna. laugh

RE: Is Death Penalty or Capital punishment a good justice?

There's lots of stuff of Clive's on youtube. Well worth a watch.

RE: soulmate

Sometimes people distance themselves from their own fears by becoming aggressive towards that which they fear the most.

RE: soulmate

Forgive me that I don't like to see a man get a kicking when he's down, particularly with an audience.

Forgive me if I don't display bystander apathy.

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RE: soulmate

So, you suggest the alternative to berating someone is patronising them?

Both are belittling, unskilled, unproductive, unimaginitive and both are more to do with you than the OP.

RE: soulmate

Not from you after that psychodynamically interesting outburst of yours on this thread. laugh

RE: soulmate

Or you end up bleeding on the M6...

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RE: soulmate

@ Tru...

No tears my loverly, you left yourself wide open for that piss-take. giggle hug

RE: soulmate

Do you realise you have a problem?

RE: soulmate

Assuming you're putting up the right trail marker for that particular person.

What if you get it wrong?

RE: soulmate

The M6...by foot, my little chick-a-dee. giggle

RE: soulmate

'Advice' is more about the person who tries to foist their ideas upon someone else, than the recipient.

It just takes more time, patience and skill to listen and support someone as they find their own path which is relevant to them.

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