RE: Where's the international help

I know the British aid in the Virgin Islands isn't foreign aid. I addressed this issue as it had also been raised in this thread.

I addressed the issue of foreign aid in the second half of my post.

RE: Where's the international help

I've heard stuff in the media about there being plenty of advanced warning and Britain's response in the Virgin Islands being woefully lacking.

I do wonder why troops were sent out there, but weren't used to help make preparations for the storm, but we don't seem to be very sensible when it comes to cost saving preventative measures. We like good looking economic statistics better than sensible economic statistics.

I'm not sure I understand how foreign aid works. I've always thought of it rather simplistically - richer countries give to poorer countries, likely with an expectation of something in return, such as political co-operation.

It never occurred to me that nations who give aid, might also receive it. It never occurred to me that when Britain has had floods (we can be a bit wet) that it wouldn't be sorted out by Britain alone.

RE: Should all narcissist thread be banned?

... laugh

RE: Should all narcissist thread be banned?

@O2N...

Perhaps people just try to make sense of their world's, with whatever information and other resources available to them. dunno

RE: Should all narcissist thread be banned?

I can be whatever you want me to be, Dedo. batting

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RE: which famous person do you loolk like...?

You're looking a bit of a pale face yourself, greenboots. wink

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

Maybe you and others who stayed left room for those more vulnerable to leave.

Glad to here you're okay, have no drastic damage and I hope your privations don't last long. hug

RE: Museums ?

Ych i fi!

As we say in Wales. laugh

RE: Museums ?

Well, I'm all natural and now you've likened me to an old, wrinkly reptile, you're history. snooty

RE: Church bloopers, always good to lighten the mood

Thankyou BC and KB for brightening my morning. laugh

RE: Using sign language.............

British Sign Language has a lot of overt signals and unique facial expressions. It's very noticeable if people are using it in public with lots of arm waving and funny faces.

I've noticed the youngsters at work seem to have evolved the language to something much more subtle and less socially devisive amongst their peers - they've made it cooler, less 'disabled'. I'm guessing there's much more lip-reading going on because the hand movements are so down played, but maybe not.

I'm guessing, a lot of the time there's some shorthand and slang going on. Just as people locally refer to Pontypridd as 'ponty' and everyone knows where they're referring to despite all the other place names beginning with ponty, like Pontyclun, Pontycymer, etc., Pontypridd could just become the sign for the letter 'p'. Pontyclun could be 'pyc' as is used by the train companies to abbreviate it and distinguish it.

Also, there's no need for joining words, or written grammar to make language comprehensible - no need join words.

I'm guessing all this, just from watching people sign. I'll let you know more if and when I start classes. laugh

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

Relieved to hear you're weathering the storm, Happy. I just wish you weren't alone and scared in the dark.

Know we've been thinking of you all night and waiting anxiously for news.

hug

RE: Using sign language.............

I only know a few bits of British Sign Language, but I'm saving up to learn.

As a partially hearing person, I half listen to sound, half lip-read.

Lip-reading is a bit of a misnomer, however. It's more like face-reading, as lips don't move in isolation. I find it very difficult to hear people if they're wearing large sunglasses because they cover a lot of facial movement. laugh

As people gesticulate whilst speaking, we all interpret sign language. I find visual communication a welcome relief from how tiring it can be trying to hear, or lip-read mumblers.

As for names and place names, spell them out in sign.

RE: Irma is coming

It's a bit wild here in Wales, too.

I was on the coast yesterday at sundown and saw the highest tide I've yet seen there.

I was, and am a little apprehensive about conditions and how they might escalate. I can't begin to imagine how terrifying it must be in the midst of the hurricanes.

RE: Mandela affect

I'm not sure what you mean by the Mandela effect, but I have been influenced by a couple of things he has written.

You've just reminded me of my intention to read some more.

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

Thanks for dropping by, Lucky.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. hug

(but we know you're a tough old goat and will be working yourself silly again in a couple of days time laugh)

RE: Can the family unit be saved

I can't see any masculinity through your tantrumy posts. dunno

I don't hate, nor do I fear my granddaughter's tantrums. They're just tiresome and grating.

Good luck with the family unit thing. I'm sure there's loads of women out there just gagging for more whinging and squabbling to negotiate.

RE: Irma is coming

It's the last hurricane for at least 19 people in the Caribbean.

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

I'm comforted to hear you won't be in the path of the brunt of the storm, Lucky. I've been fretting.

But some poor sods have been and will be.

And yes, I have heard of hurricane katrina. A while back one of our forum posters rather graphically and angrily described his involvement in the recovery phase, months and months after the event.

I can't remember the poster but I do remember some of the things he said. I hadn't realised it was the most disadvantaged who were left behind. I suppose it's obvious, I just hadn't thought of it.

The British government have come under some biting and heartfelt criticism in the media for doing too little, too late in the Caribbean. It's been said they had the information early enough to do so much more.

I'd like to think that in the wake of the Grenfell Tower fire our government might have been more on the ball, if not for humanitarian reasons, then at least for show.

Respect due to the aid workers risking themselves on the ground with José on the way, mind.

I hope you don't lose your power for long, Lucky. We'll want to know you're okay, as well as comfortable and fed.

RE: Can the family unit be saved

I've just checked, my big girl's pants on the right way, label at the back and on the inside and everything.

Umm...nah...I don't hate white men.

It's you don't like. grin

RE: Can the family unit be saved

Feminism is a movement for equal rights for women.

You can't have equal rights for women, without equal rights for men.

How stupid do you have to be to not see the opportunities in that? laugh

What you're calling for with the destruction of feminism, is to go back to men having more rights and power than women, for sons to have more than daughters.

That's why no woman wants a family unit with you. It's not about society, so much as about how unpleasant you are personally.

For so many women, being a single mother is exactly about saving the family unit from men like you.

Some of us stay on our own, some of us find nicer men to share a family unit with.

Maybe, if you learn to play nicely, someone might want to play with you, but you need to take personal responsibility for that and stop blaming women.

RE: How about this:- What type of subjects and by who do u want on the Forums ?

Hang on a mo, Dedo's wearing my knickers.

I don't want them left just anywhere. snooty

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

$99 may be good if you have $99.

Or $495 for a family of five with three children.

Or a credit card.

And money for somewhere to stay.

But what of the people who don't?

RE: which famous person do you loolk like...?

MikeD12 - Dougal from the Magic Roundabout.

DaMoose - Brian from the Magic Roundabout.

Galrads in the photo next to the aeroplane - Zebedee from the Magic Roundabout.

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RE: which famous person do you loolk like...?

There was a young Aussie lad on the forums a few years back who reckoned I was the spit of Jessica Alba. Couldn't see it myself.

And then there was this fella who was convinced that I was Nylon Jane, aka Stap-on Jane and thought he had some well-established Internet relationship with me. Unfortunately, I do have a facial resemblance to her and I suspect this fella told his mates, because I had a spate of similarly disturbing emails at the time. laugh

I suspect who I actually look like is Mikhail Glinka because my mum does, I look like my mum and we're somehow related.

Err, that's me and my mum are somehow related to Mikhail Glinka. I kinda worked out how me and my mum are related some time ago. laugh

RE: MAJOR CARIBBEAN STORM

Keep safe, Happy. Keep checking in with us when you can. hug

RE: Can you like someone if you want to change them?

What's that Mohammed Ali quote...?

A man who thinks the same at 50 as he did when he was 20 has wasted 30 years of his life.

Something like that.

You can't change people, they can only chose to change themselves.

I'd find it very difficult being around someone who wasn:t into developing personally, didn't question and analyse stuff, didn't bring new ideas and information into the relationship.

I need all that because I couldn't do it on my own in a relationship with someone who wanted to stand still.

I like to be a stimulating part of other people's change and for them to be a stimulating part of mine, whatever the type of relationship.

It's like bungee jumping of the mind for me. laugh

RE: Is removing Christopher Columbus statues a good thing or bad thing?

Sergio had it right.

I was saying God committed genocide with the whole Noah's Ark thing.

The biggest genocide ever, if it was supposed to wipe out everybody and everything on Earth with just a couple of exceptions.

I wasn't implying the flood was manufactured, I was implying that the story and consequently the God was.

I was implying that the story and the God was made in man's genocidal image, rather that man being made in the God's image.

History is written in the image of the writer, so 'rewriting' it is about the change of writer, not a change in past events.

You can't change past events, but you can't definitively record them either.

Even a film of certain events will be interpreted from each viewers own value framework. History is rewritten even from first hand experience, the first time it's recorded.

Actually, even a film of certain events is a rewrite, given the placement of the camera is a biased perspective.

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