RE: What panic when told that some people were buried alive by my teacher, I was ten years old

That string around the toes attached to a bell - the it's where the expression - 'saved by the bell' the comes from.

I've had a close shave with the grim reaper. It was just a part of life, but with a flood of endorphins. laugh

RE: Somebody likes me

Or 'like' her back.

I've noticed my 'likes' list is mostly men looking for an intimate encounter which I've blocked so they can't mail me.

RE: So, can someone tell me

Hex, you're a prolific and confrontational poster.

When people said they didn't like the current tone of the forums, I don't think they were hoping you'd ban everyone, but yourself.

RE: So, can someone tell me

Guinness...?

Murphy's...?

Are those poncy brand names?

RE: Self image !

No, I'm not in the right place for that particular kind of communication I crave, Johnjim.

I can still hope, and occasionally someone says something on the forums which puts my head in a good spin.

I do get other things out of the forums, however, and I private mail here can be quite different from the forums.

RE: Self image !

I've created threads in the past, One2, without much success.

Maybe I should take a leaf out of your book. laugh

Different people respond to different stimuli; we respond to different stimuli at different times. That's interesting in itself, both in terms of observation and introspection. It's all inspiring and a learning process.

I was referring to something different, though. We all interpret from our own value framework: I find it frustrating when people attribute bizarre motivations to my posts, or behaviours. It's not so much that I'm concerned about how I'm personally perceived, as frustration that my posts have all sorts of stuff attributed, or added to them which hasn't come from me, but from the perceiver.

It kind of negates using the techniques of debate and logic, which I put some thought and effort into.

RE: Self image !

I can't say I'm that self-actualised that I don't care how I'm perceived.

I'm finding I'm more and more self-reliant as I personally develop, however.

I find it more frustrating that my attempts to discuss and debate are misinterpreted. I crave the kind of dialogue that is challenging and inspiring.

RE: UK Banks to freeze accounts of all illegal immigrants.

People have bank accounts in different countries, regardless of their residency.

People have bank accounts in the country they have a visa to reside in.

Say they have a visa to cover an academic research project contract. If that contract is extended, or they secure another, they might apply for an extension of their visa.

If that visa is refused to make the government statistics look good, regardless of the long term advantage of a country's research status, or product...and the academic's bank account is frozen within hours of refusal, it's possible that they won't have the means to leave the country.

Cue more financial expense deporting someone who would have otherwise got a job and taken their valuable expertise to benefit a less stupid country.

:dunno'

RE: If you could......

I'd be interested in more details of that scheme, Rumps.

I'm not clear about what you're saying.

Perhaps you can run through what the scheme does for an individual - how basic is the income, what do they do to earn it, how do they come to move to the countryside, eduction, qualifications, what work opportunities are available to them after the scheme including transport access to where work is - things like that.

RE: If you could......

It's easy to blame the most vulnerable and underesource in society.

They don't have the resources to fight back.

RE: If you could......

Sorry about the Greece gaff, One2.

I was born in England too, but I wouldn't have been if it weren't for the immigration laws being easier back in the 50's than they are now.

RE: If you could......

Go spend some time chatting to homeless people Rumps, and you'll begin to see some easy solutions to at least make a start.

But thanks for the prom Queen compiment. batting

RE: If you could......

Are you looking for free passage back to Greece, One2?

Only if the government wants to send me back to my homelands, their gonna have to wait until they can cremate me and scatter my ashes into the four winds.

laugh

RE: Biggest Moment

And you apparently know equally as little, Chris, if you think that Christian fanatics aren't killing countless innocent people all over the world.

Armies have a rather shameless habit of using religion and their god being on their side. It doesn't make atrocities a religious, or godly act.

Nor does it mean all religious people commit atrocious acts.

To muddle these things up is to be guilty of prejudice, a most essential weapon of war.

RE: If you could......

I'm going to make it illegal to leave people our on the street with no food, water, bathroom facilities, or shelter.

RE: UK Banks to freeze accounts of all illegal immigrants.

At what point will people be taking advantage?

The moment their visas aren't renewed, but before the information about this is put in the post?

The day before they are due to leave the country like the Cardiff schoolboy, but when they need access to their accounts to pay for a taxi to the airport to leave?

RE: UK Banks to freeze accounts of all illegal immigrants.

A few years back there was a purge of foreigners round here.

The bit I heard about involved not renewing visas for a lot of academics. It involved the interruption of significant and funded research projects contributed to by specialists from all over the world.

Freezing bank accounts holding significant sums sounds like going for easy targets to boost statistics, without the consequence necessarily being at all beneficial to the country.

Like the Cardiff schoolboy who was dragged out of class by police on his last day with his peers before returning to his home country with his parents the following day, I wonder what resources and inhumanities will be expended in packing people off who are already packed for the off.

RE: Is there too much kindness on the forums?

I put the * in twit.

We all read from our own value framework.

RE: Is there too much kindness on the forums?

Plainly, you didn't get what I was saying, Hex.

RE: I'd like to know which emoticon you regard as most powerful... and nominate

tongue ...how to say the English 'th' sound.

tongue ...how to say the Welsh 'll' sound.

RE: Cabbage recipes .... an invitation especially to those who 'lurk' to join in and post your favourite

I'm trying to remember how my mum used to cook red cabbage.

She was a lousy cook, but this was one that was mum proof. laugh

She used to bake it with apples and maybe cinnamon. I'm sure there was a bit more to it than that, but I can't remember. dunno

RE: Cabbage recipes .... an invitation especially to those who 'lurk' to join in and post your favourite

Do you like your cabbages r-r-raaw and r-r-riiggling, Molly? laugh

RE: Cabbage recipes .... an invitation especially to those who 'lurk' to join in and post your favourite

Hmm...lush. I'm gonna try that sometime.

Lightly steamed cabbage with garlic butter, or plant based alternative is nice.

Polish tomato soup - fry onions and garlic in a little oil. Add seived, fresh tomatoes, or unseived if you want to retain the nutritious pulp and seeds. Add stock and a very small handful of rice. When it's nearly cooked add a chopped cabbage leaf, salt, freshly ground black pepper, tamari, maybe a few drops of lemon juice, or anything else you fancy to tweak the flavour.

RE: Kindness

You've just inspired me, Debs.

I've been trying to work out a way of dealing with a problem.

I think I've just sussed out a way.

RE: Would you like to live longer .. or better?

@Dace45...

Yes, I know that and my daughter was much more shock than when my mum said it to me about having a debilitating stroke.

I got the gist of what she was saying, though - neither of us want our lives artificially prolonged for the sake of staying alive.

I don't expect my daughter to actually put a pillow over my head, but maybe if I no longer want, or remember to eat, it's time to let things take their natural course. I'd rather not have people ramming food down my throat for their own needs.

RE: Lookins Matchmaking

Juden - German for Jew.

RE: Lookins Matchmaking

*shoves Life out the way with ample bottom*

Jac & Ocee grin

RE: Where's the international help

I did read in the British media some stuff about Trump's promised aid.

I'm pretty sure it said that as part of the package, low cost loans would be available for uninsured properties.

That appears to imply some level of interest would be payable on the loans.

I'm also thinking the people who would be uninsured are the people who couldn't afford insurance.

Would they be able to pay back loans at all, never mind ones geared towards profit, however small?

Maybe, I've misunderstood.

RE: Where's the international help

Oh, how I like predictive text. laugh

RE: Where's the international help

I'm relieved to hear you're sage and we'll, Karl. hug

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