RE: most beautiful place you've traveled

It's a shame this isn't a picture thread. dunno

RE: most beautiful place you've traveled

The Brecon Beacons (Bannau Brycheiniog). In a cold winter, the waterfalls freeze spectacularly and in warmer times it's like the ice age only left 5 minutes ago.

And there's a tidy little fish and chip shop in Brecon town centre.

RE: THE BIGGEST LIARS ARE

The biggest liars are men who feel the need to measure the size of everything. professor

RE: Rain

Move to South Wales. It's your ideal climate. giggle

RE: the black rhino extinct

What would it have taken to save the black rhino from extinction?

War?

Killing people?

I don't know what the black rhino's environment was like, but if they were poached by people desperate to feed their families, how could poverty have been tackled in time?

Or was it unstoppable greed and corruption?

It's maybe easy to be an armchair advocate, but what were the practicalities of trying to save the black rhino - for surely people tried.

A sad day, though. Thankyou for raising this issue DJ. handshake

RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?

Are we back to butt standards?

Sometimes I catch sight of my side reflection and think I'm looking at a caricature butt profile. sigh laugh

RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?

All the sheep will be dead by now. Sorry.

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RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?

Now I don't know whether to answer the question with a 1-0 score, or 6 inches. sigh

Damn, am I in the freak category...? uh oh

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RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?

Well, I kind of interpret Connecting Singles as a singles site. I'm not sure how I came to that conclusion. confused

Maybe it's got something to do with the name and all the different options which people may seek inclusive of, but not exclusive to dating. dunno

RE: Gifts

I was once given a large bottle of Channel No.5. It perked my best friend up no end at a time she was feeling low. grin

RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?

What do you mean by a result? Like scoring a goal at football?

And why would you expect a time parameter?

Is it true men have to measure everything?

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RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

Hopefully, you mean you're doing a white 'woman'. roll eyes

RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

That's interesting, the way your (then) friend felt it would reflect badly on her if you spoke to someone.

It's like she needed affirmation of herself through her friends, rather than her inner self. I'm now wondering if this kind of prejudice is rooted in feelings of self-inadequacy, rather than other-inadequacy. I suppose I already knew that, that it's maybe obvious, but perhaps it's become a little more concrete for me.

Perhaps awareness of that dynamic provides us with an avenue for tackling prejudice. dunno

RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

Have you got apples with that tart?

RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

In my village we have two small trailer sites which are rented out to the Fairground people. The owner is a twit, but his wife and kids lovely. There's never been any issue with any of the tenants and I've done a fair amount of work for some of them. I've found the families to be like any other.

There are also a group of Gypsies who collect scrap metal for recycling which is very handy for those of us who need to get rid of stuff, but don't have the means of doing so. I make a point of stripping stuff down, so I'm not expecting them to dispose of my rubbish that's not useful to them.

RE: Which is the greater risk for harm?

My brush with death was childbirth, too. I'm curious to find the answer, now.

RE: anyone hear of schizoaffective disorder?

Thoughts and emotions are very interwoven, are they not? laugh

RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

Okay, I'm confused by what you've said here.

Why do you think travellers in England can't be Gypsy and must all be non-Gypsy travellers?

My daughter is Gypsy living here with me in Wales. We live together. She's not a different social class from me, but she does have different ethnic roots from me from her paternal side of her family. confused

Wouldn't it be up to the Irish Travellers, or Gypsies to decide for themselves whether they are ethnically distinct? I'm feeling a bit narky at your suggestion that my daughter can't own her ethnicity from both sides of her family.

RE: ultimate equipment adjustment

I hope you get given an effective anaesthetic, CG. uh oh

RE: anyone hear of schizoaffective disorder?

I think Pedro does a lot to challenge people's perceptions and lack of knowledge about mental illness.

RE: anyone hear of schizoaffective disorder?

Yeah, that's interesting given the affective disorders and psychoses were previously considered entirely separate.

Recognising the overlap between the two has precipitated a revolution in the way mental illness is viewed, as I see it.

It's becoming much harder to justify shoving people in boxes and taking their control away from them with somewhat arbitrary medical models.

RE: would you date a traveller/gypsy

I find it a bit odd that it's even a question.

My daughter is half gypsy and she has no shortage of admirers.

RE: would you date someone with bi-polar?

Well, for some people the diagnosis may be useful. It may help them 'own' their difficulties, or a model may provide a way of conceptualising what is going on for them.

It may be that some people feel their lives are chaotic, confusing and frightening and handing over control to someone in 'authority', or the feeling of being looked after serves a purpose.

Perhaps if there was more common knowledge and understanding of mental illness, it would reduce the negative aspects of diagnoses and labelling. Perhaps having the choice of using models, or not, is also an aspect of taking personal control which people shouldn't be denied.

RE: would you date someone with schizophrenia?

That sounds remarkably like you're making the common mistake that the very rare multiple personality disorder is included in the schizophrenias.

Schizophrenia means 'split with reality', that is the schizophrenias come under the category of psychoses. Multiple personality disorder is also classed as a psychosis, but multiple personality disorder is not one of the schizophrenias.

RE: would you date someone with bi-polar?

Besides, terminating someone's employment based upon a diagnosis, rather than performance would constitute discrimination.

A skilled and intelligent employer would make use of an employees skills. Just sayin'.

RE: would you date someone with bi-polar?

I work with a chap who has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. He's lovely and probably the person I most like working with and the work colleague who is most interesting to talk with. He occasionally loses concentration. He just needs a little nudge when that happens, or some simple coping strategies like writing things down, rather than trying to hold things in memory.

Bear in mind, bipolar disorder, like all 'mental illnesses' are based on models. A psychiatrist will look at a collection of 'symptoms' and see which model they can best shove that person into.

Psychiatry is beginning to move away from diagnoses to more productive 'formulations' where no label is assigned, but 'symptoms', or traits are addressed for each individual.

RE: Why? little feet when born, put on their certificate of birth?

No they don't do that here, Soph.

I was just joking about the size of my granddaughter's feet. She's like a puppy, not having grown into her big paws yet. laugh

RE: would you date someone with schizophrenia?

I think people with 'mental illness' (I don't much like that phrase) are frequently much more self-aware than others.

RE: Why? little feet when born, put on their certificate of birth?

The birth certificate would have needed to been printed on a big piece of paper to accommodate my granddaughter's feet when she born. giggle

RE: Would you date someone with Aspergers Syndrome?

It would depend upon which spectrum traits the person exhibited and how much I liked them.

Spectrum traits which are compatible with my own, sounds like a bonus to me.

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