well, since you asked for honest.... I'm gonna do absolutely NOTHING. Been working hard all week. I'm gonna enjoy the comfort of my home, I worked hard to make it cosy and nice. I'll have friends over... if they promise to be nice, lol.
They all want different things! Each and everyone of them is an individual, just like you and me. When you get a date, ask her, she might appreciate the consideration.
I'd love to be myself, only my self won't allow me to be me so I'll have to continue to pretend to be someone else until my self realizes that I AM myself!
It's funny. Some people jump on a dating site expecting results in any time frame. You know, it's the same out there. I used to go to night clubs and watch people ( it's very interesting and instructive ) and I'd see guys hovering women, expecting something to happen right there and then. It's easy to see what they have in mind, especially at a night club, and women are only too aware of that. Most women go to a night club to have fun a meet friends. "hooking up" is the last thing on their mind. Most men go there to pick up and come out disappointed and drunk, that's the source of most fights there. I love going out with no expectations. I want to connect with people, find out what makes them tick, where they're from and the stories they tell, their hurts and joys, both men and women. I love to dance and having fun, even alone! And wouldn't you know it, I get hit on just when I'm having fun, just when I want to close the place at 3am, happy and tipsy. The dating sites are the same for me. I enjoy reading what all of you have to say, it teaches me about the world I live in, what people are thinking and what are some of the issues that affect some of you or all of us. Do not take things so seriously, you'll end up with an aneurism and die before you even meet "that special someone".
For that special person who: Doesn't try to get into my head for fears of finding somethings she's been unwarrantably suspecting ( lies, deceptions, cheating or an emotional withdrawal)No head games. A woman who is so comfortable with herself that she doesn't need to diss anybody, male or female. Compassion A woman who is strong enough to take on this crazy life head on without complaints or self pity. Humbleness. A woman who feels secure in love enough to not ask about people I meet or other women I might talk to. Trust. A woman who loves me enough to know when I need time to myself without the need for a long explanation. Respect. A woman who can take care of our place without putting a guilt trip on me. Support. A woman who feels secure enough to take constructive criticism without getting her feelings hurt. Understanding. A woman who is discerning enough to know why I might need a shoulder to cry on when things get tough. Gentleness. A woman who's mature enough to understand a situation and give advice without ulterior motives. Wisdom. A woman who's adventurous enough to let me be myself in bed and do all the things a lover loves to do. Lust. A woman who feels confident enough to let me deal with my ex-wife without butting in my past mistakes. Respect. A woman who's wholesome enough to welcome my intense, undying love. Love. A woman who's mature enough to understand why I might have made a mistake and help to correct it without a sermon. Forgiveness. Because that's the kind of love I would give her in return and maybe it isn't fair to be so demanding but I am who I am and I expect to be treated the same. Call me demanding but most of all, call me a Capricorn!
Two years is generally enough to know where a man stands after a divorce. Of course there are exceptions, we're not all the same, but it was the case for me. And the legal stuff is right, stay clear of it.
Your opinion matters here, Ice, and I think you are right. But like Langley said, knowing both persons character helps in giving an accurate point of view on the matter. The father figure also jumps in mind. I have a 16 y/o daughter and I think I would seriously have some huge misgiving about her dating a 37 y/o.
But seriously. I've been married twice and I don't want to be kicked in the nuts again. If I do marry again, it will be to a certain person I know, her and only her. There's only so much insanity a guy can take after all and in my experience marriage just spoils everything. She'll have to be damn close to an angel for me to marry the next one!
Are all Narcissists male or did you just forget to add " her" ?
Sorry, just had to
The more I read this thread the more I understand why some women walk with their head straight forward, seemingly avoiding any eye contact with men while on the sidewalk... Or is it because they are very involved in their thoughts and preoccupied with their daily business??
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No one would stay at base,
RE: Dancing It Out - Girl's Night!
HAVE FUN AND DRIVE SAFE