I don't usually delve on the past, it's the best way to get depressed As far as future goes, I'm working on my own business and trying not to repeat the same mistakes I have no regrets though and as far as what I want to change, that's already happened so I'm all cool then
Yeah, mine was a good woman too, until she went crazy and threw her problems at my face, I had nothing, absolutely nothing to do with them but I guess I was the closest one so she unloaded on me.
I told her she could leave if she wanted to, that I wasn't holding her with chains so she showed me how she felt... Might not have been the best thing to say but at that point, it was make or break so...
I know how you feel Dknew. You get involved, you start caring and open your heart and make all efforts possible to keep her happy and then **BAM!!** it's thrown back at your face and she's gone leaving you with a shredded heart...
I feel you, I really do. I'll be a long long time before I utter those words to someone again.
I posted extensively on this subject on someone's thread. I'll say it again for those who were sleeping, lol. Ahmedinajad is a dully elected President, don't mean he's a good president, look at ours, but as such he deserves all the cordialities of a president...Until we knock him dead or declare him a terrorist and you all know what that means : another war.
( I think we've covered that already, haven't we? )
No, this thread wasn't about Mothers Against Drunks, I just put MADD on the title as a pun to the argument... A pun or whatever some other smart a@# wants to call it... A lot of CS memebers seem to take threads and make it their own but oh well, no biggie.
This is very good advice, b_n_d. And you're right, how can someone profess their undying love for someone they've never even met? It's beyond me. I think some sort of relationship has to have started, and I don't mean a few e-mails or even phone calls, LOL, for those three words to be uttered. Does going out with someone a few times matter as far as being in love with someone is concerned? I have found myself in a marriage with someone I realized I didn't even love! Sure, chemistry was there but love is much more than chemistry, it's a commitment to exchange one's life for the other, unselfishly and without hesitation. Love is a serious matter. Halas, like life, it is nonchalantly taken adventage of and thrown away just as easily. Many hearts would have been spared pain and sorrow if people just learned not to play games with the word Love. I made that mistake... Never again.
I love the public library next door, a cafe with outdoor terrase, a mall within walking distance with IMAX, miniature golf, high school and park. Chinese retaurant and supermarket. It's not a very safe place but it allows me to spread goodness when some poor homeless guy can knock at my door for a sandwich or a coke. There are better places to live but I'm not one to stick my head in the sand when our world is full of injustices.
I've never seen a ghost or heard one but I was woken by a hateful presence that I saw with my ethereal eyes and disappeared as soon as my physical eyes opened. I freaked me out !!
RE: The dangers of flirting
What do ya mean?