My best friend's ex-husband had 5 affairs during the course of their marriage. Every time they moved, he found a new mistress. The only reason she eventually found out was because he & the last one got busted making out in the car in a parking lot. Then he turned the situation around & tried to make her feel guilty for doing something wrong.
He's now remarried. And what cracks me up is that this new wife believes he's changed & will be faithful! My friend & I are just waiting for him to do it again. In fact, when she was over at his place the other day for their girls, a neighbor walked by & the ex & the neighbor smiled at each other & said hi. My friend could just tell that something was going to happen there. Time will tell!
I learned from experience that you should never go into a relationship hoping to change someone. I did that in my marriage. In the end, he wouldn't change & I couldn't live with the person he was.
I'm not saying I don't believe everything I read. I'm just saying I'm critical. They can write anything. And they could even believe it to be true. But as you get to know the person better, you may see cracks in the surface.
I'm not saying I don't believe, Ambrose. But I tend to be extremely cautiously critical. They can write anything. It's best to try to get to know them better in the forums or by phone, if possible.
sweetowen Forum Posts (8,850)
RE: THE GIFT,,,,
Loved it! Thanks! I'm sure I'll be reading it several times.