woody636 Forum Posts (1,267)

RE: Why we should live live to the full and enjoy our blessings every day!!!

Heart goes out to you and your cousin. Been there, done that.

RE: Do you believe in affinity soul?

Don't know about soul's having two parts, but do believe you can find the one that makes you feel "complete".

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Layla (slow version)- Eric Clapton

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Desert Rose - Sting

RE: Drink, dance and be Merry.

Puddle of Mud and Jack Daniels sounds good to me!!

RE: Would you like fries with that?.......Mayonaise that is........Never used mayo with fries?.....

Those are SSSSOOOOOOO Good!!!

RE: Just need to vent! LOL!

And making new friends already!!! Just block the weirdos and enjoy the good ones. Lots of both hereabout but I'm sure you can sort em out!!

RE: Give something to the one above you ...

One of those long aussie rain slickers to go with the hat!

RE: Just need to vent! LOL!

Hi there! Glad you got over the case of the nerves to write the guy and hope you eventually get a response. What's the worse that could happen? He doesn't write back?? Helped you build your confidence in taking a chance and to me thats a good thing. You can't win the game if you don't play! Go for it and good luck!!

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Change the World - Dave Barnes

RE: What's your ancestry?

Back under the blankets with you, young lady! Have to get well for your trip!!

RE: What's your ancestry?

Hey Claire! Haven't seen you in awhile, darlin! How's life treating ya??

RE: What's your ancestry?

Now THATS an ancestry!!

RE: What's your ancestry?

Hi all! Mutt here also. Mom's side - pure polish; Dad's - English, German, and Irish.

Need some help here.

Maybe so, but she's out on a limb all by herself, or almost so. I think she's looking at the fact that she's lost her mom and her brother. I'm the ONLY one left. Now I have my daughter checking up on me - when are you going to be home, ect. Lol!! Funny, but at the same time, not funny. Know what I mean?? And yeah, I'm going to continue to live my life the way I see fit - only way I know how to do it. Tracy will survive, but it doesn't make it any easier on either one of us. Maybe just a time factor? Not really sure; just try to muddle thru.

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Woody, doesn't she have a boyfriend, husband, her own family by now? If she does, why wouldn't she want to let you do the same? If she doesn't, maybe it's the high time she focused on that rather than living in her memories of the beloved people that have passed and will NOT return? Can you tell her than her brother AND Mom would be the happiest to see you and her happy?[/quote

No, darlin. She just finished her masters degree and is job hunting. Mentally she knows whats going on but emotionally is a different story. My family, all my family, was/is really tight. Blood is thicker than anything and we've always acted accordingly. My wife's passing due to cancer was something out of a nightmare - only happened to other people, not us. Life gives you a rude awakening! Like I said earlier, we had a "fairy tail" life until this. For me, over the course of the 3 1/2 years that my wife fought her disease, we came to grips with what was to be. Not what we wanted, but had time to say our goodbys. Don't know that that was the case with my daughter. Not sure that any children can/could accept the mortality of their parents. Not much choice tho, she had to deal with it and she has very well until this. And we have talked about it. Still don't think she can accept it, tho. Mentally yes, but emotionally, no. Maybe time will make a difference? Don't know, but personnally I can't be anything but what I am.

Need some help here.

Daniel, I've never talked to you before, but I've seen some of your posts and comments by other people about your posts. Your everything they said you were, just good people. Wish more had your attitude. Thanks dude!

Need some help here.

Thanks all for the responses. Try to be involved with her life as much as possible. She's not just my daughter; she's a best friend. Evidently I taught her too well to be independent as she will not commit to her boyfriend until she's satisfied that she comes first in his life. I know that a lot of what is happening is because it's new, but it doesn't make it easier. A lot is emotional change but that applies to both of us at this particular time. Still not easy to deal with. So where do you draw the line and say this is best for me or this is best for us?? Really crosses the line on what you want out of life. Have to go with what my heart says is right but how do you know for sure? Guess if I had the answers I'd be a millionaire.

Need some help here.

Thanks bud! Rough road to hoe; live thru a lot worse and we'll make it somehow. Just have to face realities which is tough sometimes. Just wish I could make her understand everything that I feel inside. Tough to do.

RE: do u believe your soulmate exists?

Yeah, I think they exist. Finding them and realizing that their the one is tougher tho.

Need some help here.

Really at a loss here. She knows she's 1st in my life. But I can't stand still. Just not in my nature. I've made it as plain as possible that she's loved and nothing will ever change my feelings but that just doesn't seem to be enough at this point in time. How do you make a 30 year old understand what your going thru? Beats the hell out of me!

Need some help here.

She's a big girl, you've talked about it, so let her get over it however she needs to. There's no reason you should change, she's the one who's going to have to get through her own grieving process.[/quote

sort of what I've figured. But it's really tough. Her brother/my son died 10 years ago and its only the 2 of us left. Tears me up to see her distraught.




















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Need some help here.

Those of you that don't know me , my wife passed away last year. Wonderful woman, wonderful marriage, but I'm ready to move on and have started dating. Having a problem with my daughte who is 30+. Talked about it beforehand and she was fine , but when the actual event occurred she sort of went bonkers. Couldn't handle the actuallity of my being with/dating someone other then her mother. We've talked about it, but nothing has changed. I realize it's going to take her time to adjust but feel bad for her. At the same time, I'm not ready to change how I feel either. Any suggestions??

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Black Magic Woman - Santana

RE: Good day to all anyone have a positive to share?

Morning Never heard of that. Explain please?

RE: Give something to the one above you ...

Your welcome, darlin! Now .........about that

RE: Good day to all anyone have a positive to share?

Always! Who the heck knows what tomorrow will bring? Fun to anticipate! By the way, thats a great picture you have posted.

RE: Give something to the one above you ...

Whatever works!! I'm easy!!

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Don't be sad, darlin! Just a really beautiful song!!

RE: Something I have been wanting to post for a long time, so here it is

Some times it's REALLY hard to bite my cheek on the political threads, tho. Mostly manage. Just not worth it!!