You know your body better than anyone else, if it doesn't look right, best to follow your gut reaction, what harm can be done by having it checked or reassured that it is normal
I wouldn't wait, best to get it checked, so many hospital viruses about, my son became badly infected after having his appendix removed, it was MRSA which they managed to treat successfully.
Governments would just find a way to line their own pockets,better to do as Boban and be proactive yourself, that way you can be certain that all the money goes where you want it to go.
I think there is a lot more truth in that than most would give credence to, I think that most of us, if treated well and shown affection, would fall in love as long as we were willing, of course if you fight it then it could never work
Yes there are ghettos all over the world, they all look much the same, but if the persons love is genuine, then why should the motivation for a spouse be so wrong? Obviously if the whole relationship is based on lies, it will fail, but there has to be motivation to want love, betterment may be just one of a million motivational things, what makes it right or wrong?
I honestly have no idea about this and as I read the posts I can easily slip from one argument to another.
Maybe there is no right or wrong motivation, there just is...??
What I am getting at is what motivates you to find love, and whether betterment is just as valid a motivation as companionship and/or sharing your life with a soul mate
I think if we analyze why we want to be with someone,it comes down to sharing, companionship and how they make us feel, that would then trigger love, so really we are all looking for something in the hope that that will trigger the love we seek.
My point was that some people look for a better life, though possible marriage, I don't find that a wrong thought, as long as love is still a part of the relationship,of course if someone marries just to get a green card and then leaves the moment they have it, thats very wrong, but, in arranged marriages for example, those couples nearly always grow to have deep and true love, plus the families get what they also were seeking.
But if the guy that found you and fell in love with you did so only because initially he was seeking to move from say Malta to Scotland, would that tarnish his love or cause you to not love him, when if he lived two miles away and you met the love would have been mutual?
No not me, my take is that we all want to be loved, how or why someone wants to love me is not so important, if it is for betterment or solely for love what does it matter, the outcome is the same.
I was referring to someone from a better country rather than third world, I just wonder if the reasons behind finding love can be for betterment as opposed to say wanting a companion, surely the reason we are all looking is to find fulfillment, so just because someone is unhappy with their way of life, should that exclude them from wishing to marry someone who can take them away from that grief?
That would depend of whether it was discussed prior to getting married, if it was,and I was told she was also in love with me, maybe it would not be at the top of my worry list
After reading some of the threads/posts from last night, I think scrambled would be closer, some people really do have such narrow views and so easily lead it seems beyond comprehension. There are some who complain bitterly about the squabbles and backbiting that take place , yet still find it funny to post controversial threads in hope to cause trouble, it says much about them in my view.
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RE: Is there a doctor in the house? (Or a nurse?)
You know your body better than anyone else, if it doesn't look right, best to follow your gut reaction, what harm can be done by having it checked or reassured that it is normal