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Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

I was talking about stuff in general, but now some of you have mentioned personal things, it's made me think perhaps I could sell my wedding and engagement rings, my eternity ring maybe I would keep.

Bagelo! You throw out anything that hasn't been worn in a year?
I would have practically nothing to wear if I did that!

Maybe I should go shopping for myself....blues devil

RE: what was the last film you watched at the cinema?

Just have to wait a little longer for a review then.....laugh devil

RE: what was the last film you watched at the cinema?

That sounds like a good one Ickle, have a good time and let us know what it was like please.

wave conversing devil

Joke of the Day

Senior Moment

Two elderly women were out driving in a large car, both could barely see over the dashboard.
As they were cruising along, they came to an intersection. The stoplight was red, but they just went on through.
The woman in the passenger seat thought to herself "I must be losing it. I could have sworn we just went through a red light."

After a few more minutes, they came to another intersection and the light was red again. Again, they went right through. The woman in the passenger seat was almost sure that the light had been red but was really concerned that she was losing it.! She was getting nervous.

At the next intersection, sure enough, the light was red and they went on through. So, she turned to the other woman and said, "Mildred, do you know that we just ran through three redlights in a row? You could have killed us both!" Mildred turned to her and said, "Damn, am I driving?"

peace devil

Joke of the Day

Wife says to her husband that they could not afford beer anymore and he would have to give it up.

Then the husband caught the wife spending £43 on makeup.

He asked why he had to give something up and she did not.

She said she needed the makeup to look pretty for him.

He said that was what the beer was for.

The divorce becomes final in a few months!



peace devil

RE: How many of you have actually met someone from a dating site?

Hello Smoky, be welcome, good to see you here...wave

From this site I have not met anyone for a date and as has been said, the distances are prohibitive for me.

But I have met a few from other sites in the past.

I have however made friends from this site which I find very valuable and have met up a couple of times with one of them.

peace devil

RE: How should one proceed from mails to dates?

Hello and be welcome...wave

I would like to web cam with someone to be sure they are who is in the photo if there is one.
Then a phone call is good, to hear the voice and how they talk to you.

Then if it is agreeable to both parties agree to meet, at a cafe is good, a fairly short date is best in case either one is not comfortable. That is assuming you live fairly near.

good luck......peace devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

That's good, I bought up my daughter from six and son from 4, it is very hard but as you know very rewarding too.

Trouble is when your on your own, there is no one to take the pressure off!

Sure you do well by them though.....devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

Odd isn't, how long it takes to let go of feelings despite the cause of them being gone for a long time...hug devil

RE: Does age matter?

Oh you've just made my year! You smooth talker you.....hug smitten devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

rolling on the floor laughing I thought I got stressed!!!!!!

I'll share some china with you!

hug peace devil

RE: Songs that make you cry

That is just the saddest thing Porsha.....hug

Honey always bought a lump to my throat, so very emotional.

peace devil

RE: Does age matter?

Well you better hurry up while I still fit into your age bracket requiements!.......rolling on the floor laughing hug devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

Oh your good, all but two of the kitchen drawers have kitchen things in them and there are five in all! .....tongue

I'll let you into a stress secret, I keep chipped or cracked china for when I really need to let off steam and put a peice in a carrier bag (I don't need a mess to clear up) take it outside with the hammer and smash it to bits, then calmly throw it in the bin.
It works a treat every time, I just think of whoever is doing my head in and voila!

yay devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

Hi how you doing?

Do you think it's just a woman thing, hanging on to stuff?

You will be pleased to hear I have filled up the bins again and will be filling up the car to go to the dump again this afternoon!
So I think I am making progress.

But there has to be a reason for this behaviour, or am I just more disturbed than even I thought.....dunno

wave devil

Friends hang out

Hello to me, thinking I should have called this thread, Siren's Diary! laugh

Ok so I messed up and can't get another ticket for the show, which is such a shame because my friend is very talented and I will miss seeing this performance!

But I have booked a table for dinner, but can't tell you where as it's a surprise!

Going to have to stick a pin in the map for somewhere to go on Saturday as inspiration is sadly lacking right now.

I think it is because of the daunting task ahead of me today to clear up!!!!!!

I hope you all have a good day, take care.....peace devil

Why is it so hard to clear out and move on?

I am having what seems to be an annual clear out of the home and find I am not very good at it at all.
I am sure a lot of it is not wanting to let go of my past, but I have moved on in so many ways, I'm not sure why.
In the past I have had to sell furniture I was very attached to because my ex wanted us to move abroad.

Do any of you have trouble parting with things?

Or if you are someone who can keep things to a minimum, please let me know how you do it......!
dunno

peace devil

Joke of the Day

Grannies on the Road


Sitting on the side of the road waiting to catch speeding drivers, a state trooper sees a car puttering along at 22 mph. He thinks to himself, "This driver is as dangerous as a speeder!"

So he turns on his lights and pulls the driver over. Approaching the car, he notices that there are five elderly ladies - two in the front seat and three in the back, wide-eyed and white as ghosts. The driver, obviously confused, says to him, "Officer, I don't understand. I was going the exact speed limit. What seems to be the problem?" The trooper trying to contain a chuckle, explains to her that 22 was the route number, not the speed limit. A bit embarrassed, the woman grinned and thanked the officer for pointing out her error.

"But before you go, Ma'am, I have to ask, is everyone in this car OK?

"These women seem awfully shaken."

"Oh, they'll be all right in a minute, officer.

We just got off Route 127."


roll eyes peace devil

RE: a poem i wrote about 5 years ago

Your very good with your words Jason.....wine

When things go wrong with a relationship, however hard it may be, you have to come to terms with it being over or you can never move on in your life.

good luck.....peace devil

RE: BEAUTY TIPS

Yes we all need do look at ourselves and think who we are and try to be someone better, always room for improvement.

wave devil

RE: are we all so insecure

Hello Crazzy, good to see you in here......wave

Scouser, I have not seen a particularly hard nosed insensitive person in here so far, fairly straightforward I would have said of you and intelligent.

Yes I have insecurities, but only my very close friends would know I hope and of course now you, but you won't be telling will you....lol

I tend to put my head up, smile and try to walk tall with confidence, seems to work, only trouble is I get told I look stuck up! Till someone gets to know me that is, can't win can you?

peace devil

RE: hi does anyone belive in true love

I'm a genuine single lady,

have you found a man?

roll eyes devil

RE: what was the last film you watched at the cinema?

I think it was Harry Potter and the Prisonor of Azkaban..... all books and films are just great...devil

RE: BEAUTY TIPS

I'm fine thank you and how are you finding the forums?...devil

RE: Miss MY Friend....Darryl Worley

The lady of romantic words strikes again, beautiful.

devil

RE: ever came to malta

Hello and be welcome.....wave

I was in Malta for a holiday many years ago, loved it there and also over to Gozo.
But I hear it is far more built up now?

peace devil

RE: If you could go visit any on on cs right now?

Well the Lady in Red...is on my list, which is quite extensive!

Belushi will be in Suffolk this weekend, so I am in for some laughs!

So many guys and girls would love to meet from all over the place!

peace devil

RE: Michigan vs. OSU

I couldn't begin to hazard a guess, Michigan maybe, or could be OSU (what is OSU?)

Are we talking baseball, or hockey, or football?

peace wave devil

RE: BEAUTY TIPS

Thanks I'm sure we will, it's Belushi, so guaranteed some laughs, he is such good company!



peace devil

RE: BEAUTY TIPS

I'm fine thanks, just clearing out the spare room for a friend to stay the weekend, well that's what I should be doing......roll eyes

wave devil

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