False accusations...

I'm the subject of false accusations on CS... again. Not the first time and my accuser has been the same person who has done this several times over the years.
Probably, two weeks ago, the profile of a regular blogger has gone quiet and the suspicion arose that I'm responsible for reporting this member.

Sorry to burst your bubble... FOR THE RECORD, I had nothing to do with it.

Around the same time his profile status changed, I noticed the disappearance of another member. I came home from meetings to see butcher had last commented on one of my blogs. When I clicked the blog to read his comment, it wasn't there. His profile appears to be closed.

So mysteriously 2 members have gone silent.

My suggestion to the person who is accusing me, is to stop your hate and paranoia. Seek professional help for your condition.

It's expected this blog will fuel another round of hate blogs in retaliation... so be it.
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Don't let the bastards grind you down!
Thanks... the problem is if someone lies enough about another person, others tend to believe it's true.
I know who did report the regular blogger you allude to, Chat, and it wasn't you and it wasn't me. laugh

I think the initial report was on the basis of the aforementioned blogger calling other members 'wankers' repeatedly, but given Butcher disappeared at the same time and both profiles have gone dark, I wonder if there might be more behind their disappearance than punitive measures for one of them name-calling.

Perhaps the initial complaint raised the site's awareness, but with an election looming (remember our political blog ban post J6?)and CS trying to fatten their coffers with their 'premium' jiggery pokery, maybe some of the stuff going on wasn't a good look/legally kosher for the site owners to allow. dunno

Ultimately, if a certain person hadn't taken to calling people a wanker quite so frequently that it looked like he was signing his name at the end of every comment, that certain person might still be here merrily poking his own personal bear (who may, or may not have been self-pleasuring.)
Not if those others are intelligent to any extent. Your character is clear to be seen (just as the poor character of some others is also).
Don't let it bother you Chat.

I've had the finger pointed at me on occasions and also kicked to the kerb for standing up against antagonists.

I've noticed almost a dozen people missing in action from both here and in the Forums so I guess the C.S broom is in action cleaning up the site.

I've stopped taking offence at other people's remarks and become more selective ,for want of a better word, as to whom I respond to and when to click the "sign out" button.handshake
I consider myself privileged when I have an interaction with you, so thanks more making the effort on several occasions.
Corrected.

Hmmph. laugh
Touche.grin
Thanks for your comments... thumbs up
Thanks jac for the reminder, I forgot about the bickering on some of his blogs that had to be locked/deleted. That in itself would have been sufficient invitation for the moderator to take action without anyone reporting him.
I had forgotten that some blogs had been deleted recently, too.

Come to think of it, whatsername, TenofCups may have had her last blog go kapoof! and I haven't seen her since. It was funny watching her desperately trying to pick a fight and no one biting, so I don't know why that one disappeared. Maybe she deleted it herself in embarrassment. giggle

I'm thinking Spitz is likely right, though - CS is spring cleaning.
In further news, Luke was suspended around the 5th February, but his profile didn't become 'hidden' until about 10 days later. His profile hasn't been deleted.

Butcher last posted on the 20th February, but no news on whether he's hidden his profile, or if it's been deleted.

And it's just occurred to me that I think all three were vocal Russophiles. Perhaps that might be a potential legal sticky wicket for the site owners in the same way that J6 talk was at the time. dunno
I have concluded that some people on CS with mental illness make this place miserable.

Sometimes ignoring them does not work. They don't understand "speak when you are spoken to."

Happy Sunday to all CS'er.

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You're not too selective You jumped on the bandwagon with a member who had Tourette's when it came to the word wanker as well as other vile slurs aimed at a particular member whom constantly bullied & trolled a particular member Enablers are just as bad as the wanker himself I didn't report your best friend in fact come to think of it I never once reported your best friend when he would troll me referring.to me as a an Aussie slut or other vile slurs
Chat this isn't the real world so don't allow keyboard warriors sitting behind a screen to get under your skin

Those kind of people want a reaction so don't give them what they want

You & many others know how decent & respectful you are
I haven't a clue what you are rambling on about to be honest. I've been off site for 3 years and only came back recently.My best friends are where I live not on C.S.I live in the real world not on here and am not responsible for what others choose to write.
I think perhaps your kindness and socially skilled management of potentially volatile confrontations may be mistaken for agreeing with others.

Personally, I like to watch when you're coaxing the best out of someone, even if I want to slap that person with a wet kipper. giggle
I read this blog without logging in but as I hadn't commented on anything in a couple of days I couldn't see my own name on anything to check whether I had been deleted or not uh oh laugh

Not sure who you're talking about but did notice Luke quoted in the comments, and had already noticed he had gone off-air, Hope he's taking a break, either by choice or a short CS jail break, and hope to see him back again.. I've said before and will say again I don't go a bundle on the political blogs FROM ANYONE because of the aggressive reactions they cause but I've always read and enjoyed his other blogs and his comments over the years. To quote another blog, you get back what you put in, with Luke. If you are aggressive, expect aggression, but the same goes with debate, with considered opinions, with humour. He's an honest straightforward WYSIWYG* and hell they are rare here and to be valued, not poked at or fought with.
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Also don't know who has accused you of ridding the blogs of members but hey, you've blogged quite often about reporting fake profiles and them vanishing so - if you want a reputation of policing CS, you have to expect you will be accused when others vanish? You are obviously in with the mods. nerd but I do believe you stick to fake profiles rather than frequent bloggers.

I HAVE reported a few blogs which I thought crossed even the CS line, where almost anything goes. Sometimes the blog vanished, usually not, although a couple of the more offensive comments might. Once or twice the profile vanished, at least for a short time, but in those cases there would have been many complaints. I'd like to think so, anyway - the thought one person could obliterate another's established longterm profile on one complaint is not a comfortable one.






*Everyone knows this marketing term, right? But in case - What You See Is What You Get
suzie, thanks for your comment.
Historically, I've avoided making comments on religious and political blogs, especially ones that are extreme or differ with my views. I got along with Luke, we could disagree on a topic without having an argument.
I noticed his disappearance and after hearing it from others did I realize it must have been a decision from administration and not closed for vacation.
I miss him. I also miss Butcher.

As far as reporting fake profiles goes, here is an example: 4 new profiles appear within minutes of each other. They usually have different photos, often the same age and sometimes the same location. When you read each profile and see they are identical with opening line, more about me, more about my match, occupation, it's obvious these profiles are created to scam someone.
Who checks this?
It's beyond the means of CS to monitor such fraudulent activity, yet it's a whacking talking point for one member who calls me the self appointed sheriff, done in a negative way. I'm knocking out more than 1,000 fraudulent profiles a year and ONE GUY has nothing better to do but complain about it.
I read that blog and I never saw you mentioned, unless you're the 'self appointed sheriff '.

Did you appoint yourself sheriff?
Which blog did you read?
I read Celtic's blog.. looking for Luke.

I haven't read any others but as accusing people do they probably put it on several blogs.
They don't want anyone to miss any misconstrued information. doh
That was the follow up to a swipe on Ann's blog.

Since it's the same person going around CS saying these things, I'd say the position of sheriff is already filled... not that one was needed.
“Sorry to burst your bubble... FOR THE RECORD, I had nothing to do with it.”

So why was he banned then? Sorry I have been out of the loop. Haven’t been following this site closely. Did the mods delete the blog that he posted the offensive comments on? If not then I would like to be directed there. I can’t imagine Luke being a bully. He was always super sweet and funny. dunno
Unless someone received official notice, it's believed he was banned, probably for arguments with another member. As far as him making offensive comments, I prefer to stay out of it but read jac's comment above.
I recall several things happened over the course of a year or so. Some blogs were locked, or deleted by him. At least one was removed by the site administrator/moderator that he remarked on another blog.
To note there has been far worse on the blogs and forums. This one time a user was pursued relentlessly by other members around 2022, mainly on the forums, bitter, twisted, trying to really run the person down with no success. In fact it had the opposite affect. Eventually it was locked down.

It was not a matter of liking or disliking the individual concerned, it was about the vicious behaviour that member was subject to.

In my opinion, strictly mine only, I do not think this blog was necessary, At the end of the day where is the evidence, based on what, a greyed out profile or a user not posting, sending messages only? Many users who get into conflicts, disagreements or arguments here called each other names, follow each other around. That is to be expected.

We all know people get banned or suspended for one reason and another.

If one starts off with a provocation then expect a reaction.

Keep on zapping the scammers. But could you stomach reporting sites where there is really bad stuff involved causing pain and harm to humans? Because those kinds of sites do get shut down only for more to appear, it’s a job that many simply would not do. So I give those involved a lot of credit in reporting such horrendous abuse.

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quit ya gossipingrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wine

Come on really, it’s getting a bit laughable and slightly ridiculous now.

wine
What’s the purpose of advertising this? Is it really relevant? To inform others? Why not give the individuals the opportunity to tell others themselves, if they do wish.wine

Generally you write more interesting posts. wine
Inquiring minds want to know. jac answered a few questions.
If a person gets ejected, for whatever reason, there isn't notification to the other members.

Some have returned with new profiles and life goes on...
Users here do notify each other, they have built up friendships so will use other methods of informing others.

Enquiring mindslaugh That also means having a pop at people? Take advantage of their inability to post and refute any accusations?wine

Users can always report profiles to CS, it’s that simple.


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some members are allso Friends on other sites,like FB etc.
So word does get around!
Forums are tame compared to say,ten years or so ago!grin
True, so speaking the truth about my stalker would keep the gossip mill going outside of CS.

Thanks for the comment!
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Very very tame, was brutal back thenwine

I remember it wellwine
If you are really concerned about someone stalking you online then you should report it to CS and the relevant authorities. wine
If you're suspended from the blog/forums, CS doesn't notify you for how long.

Back in the days of thriving blogs and forums, one might be suspended for a few days, maybe a week. These days it seems people get suspended for weeks, or months with no idea when they'll be able to post again.

If CS doesn't notify the badass sinner, they sure as dammit don't notify anyone else.

There are clues, however:

*A blog goes kapoof! and one, or more regular posters go quiet for a few weeks
*A suspended member PM's a friend and tells them, the friend tells everyone else
*If someone has PM'd in the past, or you 'favourite' them, or they're on your 'who's viewed me?' record, you might see their profile as normal, 'profile hidden' , or 'profile deleted'.

The person who reported Luke PM'd him to say they had reported him for calling everyone and anyone a wanker, or some such thing relating to hostility. That person tells me Luke's profile was active after he was suspended, but about 10 days later Luke hid his profile.

I'm sure a few days, or a week would have sufficed to get the point across about reserving calling people a wanker for high days and holidays, but it appears that's not the way CS rolls anymore.

The source of my information has never PM'd with Butcher and neither have I, therefore neither of us know whether his profile is hidden, or deleted.

If a profile is deleted, you can't tell if that member's exit was voluntary, or not. If it was voluntary, they can reactivate their profile at any time. If it was deleted by CS and they don't create a new profile to get around the ban, they may be able to reactivate their original profile in about 6 months.

Does that help?
No... that's not in me to report another member who is stalking me.
I'd get an unfair reputation. I'm trying to stay neutral.

Already he's the sheriff/best blogger/critic/blog monitor reads my blogs.
Sadly, he is unable to control his hate for me, but he's really not stupid and since his comments lash out only a few times a month, he's under the radar of administration.

Would the site moderator delete his profile? Doubtful.
1. People usually like to know that their mates are okay.

2. It's handy to know what people are getting suspended/banned for because the site owner mood appears to vary over time, i.e. over the J6 period and possibly as we move towards the US elections.
I’m a sense, yes you are reporting it because you out up this blog highlighting your situation, whilst at the same time alerting others.wine
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