If you have moved forward,, can you ever go back??

You split with that special person in your life,, but what if they came and asked you back,,,,,

Would you take the chance that the reason you split in the first place had resolved itself dunno dunno





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Well, I once had an old car that the Reverse would not work. lol but in relationships... I would advise it's not necessarily a good thing to back with someone you split up with before.. you may be setting yourself up for a repeat... but, never say never, maybe both of you have changed since. I would also advise, if the problem that split both of you up in the first place has truly resolved itself, then give it time to see if truly did so. No reason to rush into anything. Making it official doesnt necessarily make it better. Just be sure that you are both happy and ready to be together again.
In my case, noplayball
bonjour livinwave

Follow what your heart sayscomfort hug bouquet
Hi Lachica blushing
I never go back! Ever!

If it didn't work out the first time it's for sure going back will be the same.
Hi Sweet Darlin Frenchie,wave
I guess you can always go back, "If the feelings are still there".professor
After Five years of "off again, on again, off again", Jeannie and I finally got married last November 27thhug
It was a simple ceremony, with just two witnesses and a minister.
It then took us a month before we told her son and her mother, that we got married..mumbling crying

They are still gettin used to the idea.doh , .

anyways, I hope all is well with you, and you're tryin to behave yourself.
Take care, Sweet Livin, .. hug
Mike
Hi Livin wave

I agree with Ed.comment if your refering to a person.

Me i went back for him and promisses was just words..he never change!
But if he worth it and you know deep down your soul he will never hurt you..then you can go girl!bouquet
Only you can answer that Livin.. we can all give our opinion but without knowning the reasons as to why, I cannot provide mine.. Sometimes people change for the better, sometimes they never do... its down to how you feel and want you want in your life... wine Couple of tracks for you.. from either side.. though you do not have to go literally with the last words of the second one.. wink



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Ed was right ,,"Never go back,Ever"
I agree with Ed. I tried it once but the guy concerned never changed and we split up again. In the end though only you can decide what's best for you.
Once I move on, I move on and never turn back... it wouldn't work for me, because moving on for me means getting over the feelings and once they've gone, they've gone forever.
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You should never go back cherie. In a short space of time all the things that caused the split would be back. People rarely change for long.
Ex is ex for some reason.
sorry folks a little busy at bartender waiter drink pouring :buddies


wave Frankinstien

Good points you have made there,, Would you leave someone for drugs & alcohol?? would that not be a time when they needed your support??

wave Guadal thanks for stopping by confused

wave robrt787 My thoughts entirely,, ok some people can change,, but if they could do that,, then why did'nt they do it when they needed to save the relationship frustrated frustrated
wave lachica mine too professor scold scold scold


Bonjour mon amie,, mon cœur ne serait jamais le permettre scold

hug teddybear
wave AJ,,Mike,, mon ami

teddybear teddybear It don't count in your case scold as you never really left her,, elephant joy cartwheel gotta go cartwheel Je suis si heureux d'entendre vos nouvelles,, félicitations envoyer tout mon amour à tu les deux
kiss kiss hug hug bouquet bouquet teddybear
Never on your Nelly!!! Have you got a Repeat Prescription??doh
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wave Lazly,, I agree with both of you,, words come so easily conversing hug

wave Yash124g & Lipsee,, Thanks guys,, Its been 3yrs since my X left,, and hopefully my divorce will be here soon,, gotta go joy cartwheel shimmy there's no way I would go back,, I love having my own life here bartender waiter drink pouring buddies and maybe one day,, I will get share it with someone dunno hug

wave sweetkitten,, They do say better the devil you know,, but I think life's to short

wave Sur de Quito confused That'll be a no for me then cheering
wave Jetche scold no intention of doing such a thing mon ami hug

wave PrimaveraPrague Lots of reasons in my case laugh hug
wave particolor rolling on the floor laughing I may of signed up for life doh but thankfully I got parole cheering repeat perscription confused never even take the same route home after going shopping hug wine drinking
wave sleepin_bird But if you had truly loved that person could you ever forget them confused dunno
Livin...Down Under. If you go to the Doctor,and you need more of the same Dose of medicine,he will give you a Repeat Prescpiption !!
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doh Parti,, But the medicine made me barf barf
Nope, never, next.
wave Hammockman,,

Man of few words typing but very wise ones thumbs up
Hi Livin, we cannot control the actions of others.. we can only be true to ourselves and our wellbeing.. applause Also, given that your divorce is about the be finalised, that may be the motive behind his actions... dunno I'd move on.. which you have.. wine cool
applause Yash124g,, yes,, I have moved on,,, although it took a year to get back to being me,, I think the lyrics of the song say it all for me
Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri
Sur!!! Love the new pic thingy. Dillon??
Looked again, don't think it's dillon.

But I liiiike it.

Nice to see ya back, SDQ.
Livin the dream wave


conversing A wise woman once told me: "- backwards, not even to get more impulse -"


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going with your opening post dream ...
if you have not found something better with someone better, then yes' i would go back.
wave alonerdo,, Wisdom is a wonderful thing to possess
wave itchywitch confused I did,,, hmmm I found ME!!
then upwards and on wards dream wave
hug itchywitch Thanks
DREAM...

Yes i lost the one who really touched my heart in that special way . . . .

even after all the evil she did ...after we broke up . ..

i would take her back . .

i write letters to her. . . .but do not send.....

thankful to have broken the hold she had on my soul .

lost in the memory of such love that I think.... can never be found again . .

content now just to have a lover and a companion. . .

i try hard to forget that i once had such a love that really met the deepest inner secret needs of my heart and life

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DREAM . .I WANTED TO SEND THIS PRIVATE . . BUT YOU ARE NOT ACCEPTING MESSAGES . . .OR FLOWERS .. SO I RISK SENDING THIS TO YOU PUBLICblushing
wave mrLonelyboy

Thanks for stopping by,, confused I do accept bouquet and typing
not from my area dream. . .confused dunno


you have area filters blocking. . .. ps im now in se asia?
wave mrLonelyboy,, confused I thought I had recently read a blog of how happy you were,, and your profile depicts a different story dunno
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