A One Night Stand.
Here you wake up with a strange woman next to you in bed and then you remember the cute girl you picked up in a pub last night. Wonderful! Not only did you get laid but you won’t have to deal with her PMS next week because you will probably never see her again.
You are happy, your little friend downstairs is happy, so what else matters?
Maybe she does. For all you know she is awake but pretending to sleep. Although she probably also had a good time, she may feel a bit shy, guilty or even upset with her self about her folly last night. Why make her feel worse by being a díck?
Get up and wait for her in the lounge. Respect her privacy and don’t go snooping through her things and don’t help yourself to her fridge. Sit down and wait. When she emerges, stand up and talk to her politely. Treat her with respect so she can concentrate on the positive aspects of last night.
Now don’t be a jerk to just run away. Look at her body language. If she wants you to go, then go without delay but if she wants you to linger then stay a while; you may even get a second helping.
If this happened at your place, offer her breakfast before seeing that she gets home safely.
Don’t ask her number if you don’t plan to call her and don’t insist on it if she does not want to give it.
Be a gentleman. A little respect goes a long way.
Comments (49)
One for each. I'll take the boy.
I thought so too but why was I slaughtered because of this blog.
You were right with your prediction.
The women slaughtered me.
Maybe next time you better put the brain in gear before engaging the mouth but silence still remains the only substitute for brains.
You were the one making the most noise here and turned out to be the only one objecting to this blog. Heaven knows why. It was a blog cautioning males to have respect for women.
Empty vessels makes the most noise but I suppose that is also an old saying that no longer applies.
I think you just wanted to pick an argument on my blog.
Misreading will causes misjudgment.It's a normal phenomenon. H'm ...Now I am not sure this comment fit in here or your another latest blog ?
Oh, I should go now to take the subway out,don't want to miss it.
Take it easy,Cat.Today is Sat.
It belongs either way. No problems one way or the other. Have a great Saturday.
Two very smart observations. But of course you are wrong again on both counts. However, I do have a problem when the likes of you criticize blogs - not just mine - with no foundation to it.
But then if nastiness makes you feel better, go for it because with your out of line comments you and your comrades turned a rather ordinary blog into a much more interesting blog getting attention it did not deserve.
You see, this blog was and rush job just to keep me busy until it was time for the real blog. As it is it turned out better than the real blog.
actually good advice and manners....
or you wake up with a strange woman next to you in bed and then you remember the cute girl you picked up in the pub last night.....
and later after your little bout of old age dementia is treated with medication, you realize that cute girl and strange woman was your wife all along......
love can be grand in all its forms