Why Marry An Older Man?

We often see young girls marrying an older men. Some would say that she is just looking for a father figure in her life but there may be more to it than that.

For one, she may be looking at his secure financial status; life is not cheap these days and there may be some advantage in being an old man’s darling in the stead of a young man’s slave. Financial stability can be a big tie breaker. Starting off in a 3 bed room house may be preferable to starving in a one room apartment.

And then an older man is generally more mature and sophisticated with a quiet confidence and years of experience and is more than often a good listener.

He will normally be patient, punctual and will display good old fashioned values like opening the door or pulling out the chair for you. Good manners go a long way. You will find him dependable and he won’t keep you waiting for hours, nor will he get upset when you stray off the topic.

An older man can be a great teacher and you can greatly benefit from his greater experience while deeper his wisdom and ability to listen will prevent him from forcing it onto you.

But most of all, he can be too good a friend to lose because the relationship will mean more to him than the sex. Physical intimacy is the cherry on the cake and not the object of the issue. He has done his conquering and has nothing to proof. If it happens then it does, if not, then so be it.

So there may be more in an older man that meets the eye and that sexy young girl who dropped her hunk to marry an old man was perhaps much smarter than what you give her credit for.


Have a wonderful day, all of ya.