Difference between men and women on expressing
ANGERI was reading all the effects of negative emotions that can truly impact our lives and realized a very strong difference between all of us on expressing and or handling this trait.
But even more so between the male and the female species.
While anger is a very important part of our lives, provided it is done in a healthy way for the right time and for the right reasons, it truly can hurt our relationship if it is out of control. Anger management has become a very effective tool in family services offered to Californians, a part of the family restoration programs.
We get angry for so many reasons, there's no way around it. We're human beings, and part of our lives is beset with many things that, believe it or not, requires us to be angry.
Question: When do we need to get angry and how do we handle it?
What are the things you do when it happens? Perhaps an example would be nice specially if a positive result was achieved.
Thanks for all your participation and contributions.
Comments (26)
Well there is justifiable anger. When a wrong has been committed against a person, this could be a cause for justifiable anger. Each person handles anger differently. As the saying goes: count to ten before you speak when you are angry. Let the steam out while you are counting. I don't always practice that but I try. I seldom get angry but I do get irritated! Can't think of the last time I was angry. The bible says: "Do not let the sun go down on your anger". In other words, try and resolve it right away! JMO
Have a wonderful day my friend!
There should never be the need to get angry either in life or in a relationship.
Essentially anger appears when a person is unable to cope with a given situation.
There are lots of reasons to get angry, let it be a situation that happens or a person treating us badly. The reaction to these situations shouldn't be getting out of hand imo, no getting abusive either verbally or physically.
Now I have been angry many a times. When MY students we're not giving their best as I knew they can, I was legitimately angry and after several warnings. I'd failed them, measure often underrated because truly we can give our best if we try.
Of course I was never unrealistic and in spite of my ratio on passing, my subjects were always full before any other professors were.
Today I'm occupied with this emotions for having been lied to and all my fault.
Children are of course a normal subject of being angry if only to emphasize the need of learning.
I definitely recommend that.
My level of tolerance is high when it comes to handling anger. Being in the world of professional vocation, we're trained to be of utmost importance to practice good manners and right conduct. To be an example of controlled application of emotions. A fine line between being professional and not is a very questionable margin specially when dealing with aggressive people. It's best to calm down, think and don't face head on anybody that test you on this emotions.
I normally ignore and don't acknowledge this aggression by, like Jim says, walking away.
Thanks my friend.
Have you ever been angry at all?
On your last statement yes, our failure to understand and lack of patience can make us prone to anger.
But we wish we can all control and redirect these feelings so as not to regret our actions later.
Thanks again my friend
I am sure you already do this as everyone on here but this really works for me.
Yes, anger can be a burning feeling, but don't burn all bridges.
I do get angry but when it really cuts deep, I think it's better to walk away than to just explode there and then.
I'm fine thanks my friend.
Our culture is so incomplete without sensationalizing anger. Look at all the movies, stories, news, all for the hype of anger enticement.
Thanks again Mad and take care.