I’ll Never Fall In Love Again.
How many times have you resolved not to fall in love again? And yet, once the wounds have healed, we just fall in love again; time and time again. And when we fall in love, we forget all our good resolutions and break all our own rules.
The strange part of it is that we usually a fall in love with strangers. Let’s face it, we don’t look into the eyes of somebody we have known for years and then suddenly go weak in the knees. It is a stranger that does that to you. If you don’t want to fall in love, avoid meeting or seeing strangers. But then there is probably a built in cut out switch somewhere to allow you to fall in love with a known person in the absence of strangers.
A man and a woman who have known each other for years will not fall in love with each other, even though they may be a perfect match. However, it may happen that they can come to their senses and decide to throw their lot together. Given some time, they will grow to love each other and spend a lifetime in happiness but that was not falling in love. It is a cultivated love brought about by a logic decision and probably has the best chance of success.
I think falling in love is a primitive breeding instinct to ensure the survival of the human species. And it is built into our genes to fall in love with strangers to diversify our genetic material. Inbreeding had never been good for any genetic pool.
Have a great day and I hope you meet many strangers. One of them may just be the one you've been waiting for.
Comments (72)
Been drinking lemon juice again this morning? You must check the label. Orange juice is much sweeter.
It cannot be that bad. Generally men just loooove women.
But jokes aside, if the local guys don't fall in love with you, there is something seriously wrong with their taste in women.
good blog my friend
Best apple pie under the shadow of the apple tree at the base of Table Mountain.
Go on take a
bite, I mean peep.Why do you think im here hahaha Hope is last to go I heard
Thanks for being you
Yep, being in love is a temporary affliction caused by the chemistry in your brain while loving is a cultivated and more permanent feeling of fondness and affection.
Most love starts off by falling in love and if you can get the real love in place before it wears off, you can go shopping for rings.
Half blind and half deaf is about the best condition a man can be. They don't perform about what they cannot see or hear.
Cant get any worse lol
Some of us live at the Cape of Good Hope!
@ Cat, I don't mind what ever happened to snow-white happening to me. Nothing compares to what Eve for eating apples.
Never is a very long time.
7Billion seems capable and alert!
I wonder what is the odds of catching him, 7 billion to 1?
of, I mean, in my Eye.I think Eve got off ok. It is the poor serpent that was sentenced to wriggling on his stomach to find his food. And he was probably not even there when the devil did his impersonation trick.
Listen to CC. Never say never.
Cat: A man and a woman who have known each other for years will not fall in love with each other, even though they may be a perfect match. However, it may happen that they can come to their senses and decide to throw their lot together. Given some time, they will grow to love each other and spend a lifetime in happiness but that was not falling in love. It is a cultivated love brought about by a logic decision and probably has the best chance of success.
Yes, I agree, and think its the being "in like" of each other first, with all things in common with the person before considering cultivating what you share in common to the next level. Falling in love?... usually hits the ground without a net to catch either party
good blog
Wow see how quickly the 'good' feeling can spread?
Yes, love like a little garden and needs constant care. You have to work on it all the time for it to bear fruit.
Well, you are one step better than me. I fall in love with my mirror all the time but it is getting better now. I no longer kiss the mirror good night. The mirror now kisses me good night.
Mae West
I love it.
enjoying life is important...forgiving others helps...then you never know what the day brings you...love can be around the corner!!
Right! Love may be lurking anywhere.
Did I really tell you that? It must have been a very long time ago. I used to say that a lot when I was young.
It just comes to show how people can change.