I Just Got Rejected...Tough!
I was chatting to this super nice guy, we exchanged messages here on CS and I seem to tick all the right boxes...all those flowery and sweet words almost turn my world up side down. After few days, we took our whirlwind romance to the next level...and by that I mean on what's app.
We were so happy to have each other's number and he said I'm going to be his GF and we will have a great relationship. I am a very nice and fair person, just like the others, I gave him a chance to change his mind but he was so set of having a relationship with me. I said OK then. 
We started exchanging messages on what's app and as usual, I would wake up finding messages on my phone...No, not dirty messages...just nice thoughtful ones
The guy seems very thoughtful and persistent till we talked about kids...he knows I have but he was greatly discouraged when I told him I have 6 children
the last message I received from him was "cheers"
Where did I go wrong?
To my lost love...hope this song will touch your heart
Comments (41)
Garn, you're better off without him
u are better off without him
most times what glitters isn't gold anyway
you are going to meet the right man who will cherish you and your kids
he probably went for a meeting.....he will be back!
I think he's scared of responsibilities...I mean of bringing up my 6 children...he didn't even give me a chance to tell him how old they are
Yes, I have a gut feeling I'm going to meet that right person...one who deserves 6 children and their fruity mother
How many kids do you have ?
I doubt it! I think he's looking for someone without kids or at least only have 1...6 seems too much for men nowadays
Do you have kids?
6 little monsters
No, not the twin...I'm the older sister...her twin is around tho...roaming around CS
6 kids...egg roll
I'm devastated! Men can be shallow these days...
No, he doesn't know I have 1...the guy wasn't that in to me, is all
You, you deserve better so don't settle for second best
Are you sure u wrote six, any other alphabet in between s and x can sound so crazy.
Yeah I am blessed with 3 beautiful kids
I wrote number 6 in bold black...can't be mistaken for 16
Yes, we are so blessed to have our children. Many out there longs to have one or two but not so blessed like us. I love my son...I'm fond of children and spent many years with children when I was home in Philippines. I was a Catechist, thought them a lot about the good of their religion and how to be a good person when they grow up. I was a good, funny and crazy sister to them. If you tell them now that I'm such a crazy person here on blogs, they won't believe you
nothing lost there
or maybe he had a dozen himself and think 6 more would be too much to handle
I thought you could both climb to greater heights and be on
My sentiments exactly
Yes, it's obviously more exciting...that's OK
You sound like a broken record
If I remember it right you were the one who initiated the "teasing" I was merely following your lead
and I'm grateful for the fun times too...you made me realized the joys of online dating
update: Nilda married the man she met here, same one who sent her some money so she could get to a new place in preparation for his visit, he came to see her dozen times before they finally got married and went to Texas...they are now happily married and trying hard to have a baby
I only want your best interest at heart...good health and happiness
3 kids are good...having only 1 is not a good idea
Next time when you meet another nice guy, narrate to him about your kids - in time gaps - one by one..
Bottom line, these "tests" don't really prove anything and are just playing with people (if you are not serious). I know you are a loving girl and a person with heart, so try to see it from their eyes.
He didn't give me a chance to narrate...if he stayed long enough, I might even told him I was just testing him...but he showed his true colors a little early...good for him
I think it's better to open at the beginning...can't have a man fall in love with you online, decide to meet...then you finally go to meet him at the airport with 6 kids tagging along
This reminds me of a very nice guy I met here...I was very new here, no profile pics yet, we had a very nice friendly chat, shared a lot about families, he had many kids and grand kids...well, he started to like me and I simply didn't like the idea that some of his children are around my age and one or 2 could be a little older than me. He was a very nice guy and I made it clear that we can only be friends.
Yes, I'm just messing around with some players here...not looking for anyone...but considering that my profile is very clear that I'm in a relationship, it doesn't seem to deter them...they're bored and looking for vulnerable people to play sick games on
We're not in love...just having a little fun out of the situation
I'm sure of the guy is looking genuine he wouldn't took off the way he did...could at least ask how the kids are doing...
I know it's a scary thing to be responsible over 6 kids that aren't yours..he probably concluded that he's going to be a meal ticket, I can't blame him
There's the problem right there...I think he wants to have little monsters of his own...but knowing that I already have six seems to make it a little impossible for me to provide him more children...