The Enigma of Women
Although I adore women, they are an enigma, no guide books or code breaking machines are yet capable of deciphering or understanding what these beautiful creatures really want.An extensive search of the Internet and time spent correlating the results showed these are what women want in a man:-
Honesty, Understanding, caring, strength, compassion, security and Loyalty.
I think these would mean different things to different women and they still dont help without more information.
So let us men ask questions, and or let the women tell us what they really want.
As a vast majority of people on the blogs are around 50 or older, so have women's priorities changed?
I dont want sexist or stupid questions, might delete any of them!
My first questions:
What makes you feel special?
What are you really looking for? (not a glossy impossible match like some profiles)
Comments (63)
Berry, Oh by the way I totally agree with your post regarding the cliques and behind the scenes gossip.
I've even experienced it myself.Just proved to me just what kind of people I'm dealing with.I have some friends in the real world who value me.
This isnt really a blog about cliques and stuff, it happens sure but its the same in life away from this place, this blog is a safe space.
I wish Johnjim was my neighbour.
But you will have to explain why you wished you lived next to Johnjim
Women these days
His attitude to me... (it's hard to describe, but woman usually feels if she is special for him).
Also his touches and hugs, give joy and a sense of security, give a feeling of warmth, It makes me feel loved and special. :)
What I am looking for?
Well... I am looking for someone with whom is nice even to keep silence together.
Maybe if you watched the movie with Mel Gibson "What Women Want" it will give you an idea?
I myself like a man who makes me feel special and ruins me for all other men.
Most of what you said is true, we are looking for men to be honest with us, caring, loyal, trustworthy, respectful, understanding etc. etc....
I wish men would actually read our profiles, but that is asking for a lot. Example: On my profile I clearly state that I will not answer emails with personal emails and phone numbers. Almost 100% have emails and phone numbers included.
Anyway, I am looking for someone who will treat me with respect and be honest and be able to communicate and hold an intelligent conversation. Also someone to share my life with the ups and downs, someone to be with for fun and other activities. Someone who makes me feel special, and shows me he cares, is thoughtful, caring, asking about how my day was etc.etc....