The Chase
Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey.Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.
So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.
Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.
Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.
Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.
Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.
Or do we?
Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it
Comments (245)
Yes, patient and understanding...well, they are experienced, most know exactly what we want and when we want it
Yeah, I knew.
A man of the world such as you should be able to give the less street-wise men a bit of good advice.
it's working for me just fine!
Err, now if I can only get this thing to go for more than 3 minutes.
I got a song to go with my comment: "Bang a gong, get it on" by Power Station
The grass is always greener and all that ! ya know.
Happiness and contentment will come along with the right person I would think.
FYI, I'm back in the Bible Squad and attending weekly Bible studies again...so that would make it up and balance my life
I actually think ur pic looks like the cover of that Phil Collins album.
Yes thats a compliment!!
JJ,
FYI, I'm back in the Bible Squad and attending weekly Bible studies again...so that would make it up and balance my life
Poor Priest
This is about your approach to attracting a potential date
Meh. People are hard work, I'm getting back on the fence
As I said to JJ, I wish it were as easy as he makes it seem
don't be like that! I'm really trying here
Do you want me to beat him up for you ?
I'm on the Fence
Non was saying I don't fit in the bIble squad, he's wrong! I used to be a Catechist and thought Sunday school to little kids...special on month of May so I'm holier than he thinks!...will you please whip him for me?
And anyway, he would probably be fantisising about you at Sunday School while I'd be doing it
Actually my friends asked me if I'm ready to be baptized in Jordan River this summer...you can imagine my difficulty in restraining myself from laughing out loud, that was the devil in me I guiess
I think I shall have to change in 2018, it is not too late yet !