The Chase
Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey.Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.
So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.
Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.
Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.
Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.
Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.
Or do we?
Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it
Comments (245)
It is good that you know what you want and will go out there and get it...even if there is no running involved
It shouldnt be a game, peoples lives and feelings are at stake, I prefer to have a totally honest profile, this will stop many women from making contact, those that do are intrigued.
Communication and subsequent skyping will certainly show the real person behind the profile, next step is to meet up and see where things go.
In my time here I have met 9 women in person, some were deluded eejits, some were nice, a couple absolutely fabulous, The more we meet people in person the better, and of course bonking burns calories.
You should write a diet book, Map
But then the enjoyment of it far surpasses going to a gym or running a marathon
Reading some womens comments who seem very upfront when they like a guy they will just say it.
I must be missing this chip.
I simply cannot find a way to let some guy know i like and am interested in them.
I need to read a self help book on this or something.....jeez
KN....tell me ur secret lol
They are usually a bit more forthright than us
Ya as much as we like to gab....i think the Irish are a bit backward about coming forward.
Ya its a nationality thing ill go with that instead of the fact im too chicken to put myself forward.
But it is true. Americans would be much more forward than us, and so would most Northern Europeans as well. And any Oz woman I have ever known would put us to shame as well
Ah well ill just pray my fella can read minds or works on subliminal messages...
Its my only hope..
Lets pray together.. maybe that would have a compounding effect!
Sometimes timing; circumstance; and a whole host of other things might come into play. Sometimes one may move more quickly than the other is used to, etc. There are many variables at play.
Hiya Dee... the above post was meant for you.. wave
And there's me just after dusting off my bible
Oh dear, no wonder you stay well away from them
Whats the name of this Pub.
Let's see
Hard
Long
Wide
Doesn't need dinner made for them
Yep, lamp-posts win
I have a strong stomach!
Just enjoying some of the comments here.
Just wanna say hello to DeeDee and KN
Hiya Mimi,
Im ready to pray when u are.
I hope ur on ur knees.