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“I’m a certain way, but I should be some other way.”,

This world is a crazy and sick place, and humans in general are not beautiful. But it’s all subtle, and most people do not see this(i am sorry ...
if you think otherwise)

Don't you want to know yourself ?

Can you live joyfully without knowing yourself?

Knowing yourself means understanding your strengths and weaknesses, your passions and fears, your desires and dreams. It means being aware of your eccentricities and idiosyncrasies, your likes and dislikes, and your tolerances and limitations. Knowing yourself means knowing your purpose in life.

How well-fixed are you with your own morality?
What are your biggest fears?
Your self-limiting beliefs?
Your relationship with money and wealth?
Your human relationships with friends, family?
Role gratitude plays in your life?
What you think you can do as a human?

What is that something you always love doing, even when you are tired or rushed? Why?
What lifts up your joy?
What you think is possible for you?

“The purpose of the heart is to know yourself to be yourself and yet one with God.”
- Edgar Cayce.

Without virtue, man is most unholy and savage, and worst in regard to sex and eating.
Aristotle.

human being is responsible for its own actions despite of the obstacles in life.

“The heart is the most powerful generator of electromagnetic energy in the human body,
the heart actually sends more information to the brain than the brain sends to the heart.

We All have Light And dark side within. Need to fight!
behavior is valuation.
The more you know about yourself, the more you can make wise decisions for interacting with the world around you.

how stupid, sick, and twisted this world is, until the insights start rolling in, or you implode instead. And oh yeah, this is the most painful path.

Your dreams matter. Your dreams are important. Your dreams are worth going after. Don’t believe anything less.

now time to meet with a realized Master or Guru who arrives from nowhere 'through the Power of Thoughts.'
(Most important Never compromise your self.)
a guide shows us the way. While....
a guide keeps us on the right path.

To enter the Spiritual Path, we all enter the Path of Knowledge to experience deep integrity and a changed life style.
After we have.....
illuminate a radiant path to the center of our own being to be oneself; and show us the way to carry that light into the shadowed world.
This capacity to be yourself is very much about being free of the traps of conceptual identity,

Really knowing yourself is a worthy aim and an important step is to be clear on what really knowing yourself means before putting effort into it.

Knowing oneself is the first step towards making good rapport not only with one’s own mind and body but also with the other. This other can be husband, wife, mother, father, brother or anyone.

Once we have understood how our mind functions, and as we witness the rise and fall of emotions in mind, we are better equipped not to get carried away with these waves of mind. Life gives us situations, not solutions.

Solutions are always created by our wisdom. In most of the relationships we see around, the basic problem remains the same.

that one is a NOBODY and NOTHING, then, the one who would realize THAT....
However, zero plus zero will remain zero. You have to know this truth: nothing, neither people nor things, can make you rich; nobody can give meaning to your life. So, stop hankering for appreciation, sympathy or love from others..

Meditation and Self Evaluation are one of the best ways to find out ourselves. So try to give time to yourself and do yourself talk which will help you to find the best version of yourself.

more to come... comment
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We all have some memories ..
Some sweet , some sour , some bitter ...
Few smiles and few tears ...

These are those dewdrops of moments , that make the paths of our life memorable till to the end ....

People leave..
Time leaves ...
Only thing that's left behind with us , is MEMORY ...

"Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated." -Confucius.

"Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, drink the wild air." -Ralph Waldo Emerson.

"Life is never fair, and perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not." -Oscar Wilde

"The only impossible journey is the one you never begin." -Tony Robbins.

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

E. M. Forster.

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose." -Dr. Seuss.

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing. -Walt Disney.

"You become what you believe." -Oprah Winfrey

"The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity." -Amelia Earhart.

What is it with new years that I am sick everytime they come. I have left behind all the disappointments 2021 has brought me. And in such a strange and unwelcome way, they have their own way of sneaking up.

Now, Im wallowing all by myself, clogged nose, fever, sorethroat and headache. No food in the fridge, no one to ask to get them for me either.

So I get up, put my big girl pants on and made coffee. I still got some bread from a few days ago. Hopefully no molds in them. Hahahahaha At least I have that.

Exes coming back, but I have no energy to even flirt a little with any of them. But surely i have the energy to rant about my newest frustration for 2022 in my comfy flannel wrap and messy bun seated in front of smokin hot coffee and toasted bread.

At least I have the silence of the room all to myself. At least I have my sound mind and the hope for tomorrow to get the things I need. At least I still have me.

Welcome 2022!

On Friday, I had a meeting with a financial planner. We went over a few things as to my finances and what I wanted to achieve in my (not yet created) portfolio.
Without wanting to divulge too much personal information in this (or any) blog, I could have payments go to paying off a mortgage, money for vacations, or continue to have the base grow and not touch any of the money.
Actually, refinancing is a major consideration right now and why I didn't act sooner is basically lack of response on my part.
None of us own a crystal ball and his starting investment price is much steeper that I would consider, I did get the seeds for more research.


CS Blog number 68,900 we've reached a milestone...

No. Admit it, that's just a bullshit line and you have no intentions of quitting.

Miss You , My Light ...





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Remembering You , My Light ...





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No Matter What ... Together Or Apart ... You Will Remain as The Light To Enlighten The Darkest Paths Of My Life Forever .....

Is it possible to change the basic nature of feelings with repeated practice?
For example:
The nature of anger is to harm others. Can this temper of anger be changed?
Is hurting someone in anger a habit or a nature?

...... my morning full toilet, chores, and other items of the life variously lived....
To digress, women seem to think that their morning life tasks and beauty rituals take much more time than those of their men folk. Au contraire, CS friends.
But Bravo is signaling to go for his walk, so later, alligators.

So, I spend about half an hour on these items, less the time I spend walking Bravo. Of course, showers, clearing snow, watering and weeding garden, all in season, etc, add considerable time, not to mention shopping, hobbies and vehicle/home maintenance.
But I'm happy to do so, as there have been rare times in life, in depressed and therefore slothful periods, when we let it all pile up. These thankfully all came after the 5th decade on God's good earth, and related to unresolved business over youthful traumata, likely from parents, as an infant, and much later from men in our Church. Years of denial and rationalization did wonders to stir up the mix. The bottle was a false ally, as many will know.
Even though I studied these things and worked to help others with their depressions, etc., I always doubted the validity of such syndromes, and especially how they could set the stage for lower life achievement, and even self harm. Silly me.
With help (various therapies, including hypnotic age regression, etc) and the tinctures of time and experience, I'm back in the saddle, and have discarded the false crutches. For good, Inshallah.
But the most striking lessons involve how much such experiences can detract from the full life. I have learned that most, thankfully, adapt, with or without help. But in terms of function and interpersonal interactions, it's often sub optimal, and less than fully adaptive. Even if lives are carried out and even somewhat enjoyed, at different levels.
Behavioral science still only scratches the surface in all of this, I'm here to report.
Medicine and religion, even more so.