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Nature has designed the body and mind of woman and man in such a way that together they can make a beautiful and happy life. Nature has given femininity to women and masculinity to men. Different qualities and responsibilities have been given to both.

Femininity and masculinity can be seen in many different forms in women and men.
Motherhood is the most beautiful form of femininity. And fatherhood is the most beautiful form of masculinity.

How many more forms are there?

I bet we all get 'Likes' but when one gets a bunch of likes over a period of time and still remain blocked by the persons sending the likes you ask yourself, duhhh????

Just as a woman is looking for a good man, a man is also looking for a good woman.

Bitter truth: every person in this world is a mixture of goodness and badness, virtues and flaws. Nobody is 100% good and nobody is 100% bad. By the way, every person considers himself good from his point of view.

Goodness is liked by all, due to which man and woman are attracted towards each other. They become so blind in each other's attraction that each other's flaws are not visible, after some time when the passion of attraction subsides,
each other's flaws start showing then breakups happen. So be careful, If you are attracted to someone's goodness, keep in mind that they also have flaws, will you be able to accept their flaws or not?

The ability to accept each other's flaws determines how long the relationship will last.

Our mind is designed to run on both belief and truth. It is necessary to strike a balance between the two.
Truth is bitter, belief is sweeter. Truth requires logic, belief does not require logic. Truth is an endless process of logic, belief is a full-stop of logic. Truth is workout, belief is rest. Truth requires a brain, belief does not require a brain.

A scientist reaches a truth by applying a lot of logics. Many years later, another scientist proves that truth wrong by applying another logic. In this way the endless process of logic continues in truth.

Everyone believes in Belief according to their own will. For this we twist the truth in favor of our belief.

We cannot always depend on logic alone, nor can we always depend on belief. It is important to keep a balance in both. If both are imbalanced then we will start harming ourselves and each other.

but too kind to do that...
when they f*cked up, put you in a very difficult situation and you have to clean up their mess...
'can only silently scream, f--k! f--k!! f--k!!! f--k!!!!

When any emotion inside us becomes intense due to some reason and becomes out of control, then our ability to understand right or wrong gets affected. At that time only things that are favorable to that emotion, seems right.

Well, no emotions (feelings) are bad itself. Every emotion (feeling) has its own importance in life. As long as they are in control, they are good and useful; when they are out of control, they are bad and harmful.

Speak your mind unburden your soul say it as it is even say it as it isn't

Whatever you want

How much do you know yourself?

Just like we stand in front of the mirror everyday to look physically beautiful and look at ourselves, do we do something like that everyday to make ourselves beautiful from inside (character, behavior, etc)?

no one ever get a perfect life.

If you get everything in life, what will you wish for?
Some unfulfilled wishes, gives the joy of life.

A man went to God and asked, “What is my value?”
God gave him one stone and said, “Find out the value of this stone, but don’t sell it.”
The man took the stone to an Orange Seller and asked him what it’s cost would be.
The Orange Seller saw the shiny stone and said, “You can take 12 oranges and give me the stone.”
The man apologized and said that the God has asked him not to sell it.
He went ahead and found a vegetable seller. “What could be the value of this stone?” he asked the vegetable seller. The seller saw the shiny stone and said, “Take one sack of potatoes and give me the stone.”
The man again apologized and said he can’t sell it.
Further ahead, he went into a jewellery shop and asked the value of the stone.
The jeweller saw the stone under a lens and said, “I’ll give you 50 Lakhs for this stone.” When the man shook his head, the jeweller said, “Alright, alright, take 2 crores, but give me the stone.”
The man explained that he can’t sell the stone. Further ahead, the man saw a precious stone’s shop and asked the seller the value of this stone.
When the precious stone’s seller saw the big ruby, he lay down a red cloth and put the ruby on it. Then he walked in circles around the ruby and bent down and touched his head in front of the ruby.
“From where did you bring this priceless ruby from?” he asked. “Even if I sell the whole world, and my life, I won’t be able to purchase this priceless stone.
Stunned and confused, the man returned to the God and told him what had happened. “Now tell me what is my value, God?

God said, “The answers you got from the Orange Seller, the Vegetable Seller, the Jeweller & the Precious Stone’s Seller explain the value of our life… You may be a precious stone, even priceless, but people may value you based on their level of information, their belief in you, their motive behind entertaining you, their ambition, and their risk taking ability. But don’t fear, you will surely find someone who will discern your true value.”

In the eyes of God you are very very precious. Respect yourself. You are Unique. No one can Replace you!

Respect yourself..  Don’t undermine yourself.



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