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My Heros Were My Parents
Me being the youngest of my family,I'd always been their baby but as I grew up they learned to give me some space to grow.They helped me learn to do things on my own.My mother and father will always be a great inspiration in my life.Those two amazing people had two different characters and because of that I learned alot from both.
Talking of my father he was always the hard and tough person in a very positive way,his motto was when the going gets tough the tough get going.I've seen him never give up any time on his life or letting us down. He taught me to be strong. I learned that life will always be hard but if you keep your head straight, and to always think wise,be confident and not to give up cause you can always win life.
He taught me another great lesson,that nothing is given to us on a gold plate from the moment we're born.We should thrive and work hard to get where we want to.The golden lesson I value most is what you give society is what you back in return,so do justice in every day in your life then we won't regret any day of our lives and life will always treat us well.Yet again my father had a funny way of thinking about life.He said when we're born happiness and sadness are just facts of life so be ready to face them as they come and don't be led down by sadness or be over whelmed by happiness. I never understood what he meant by it but now I know what he meant.We have to learn to accept the only true facts in life but not get caught in it but keep on moving and learn to live the life.
Well words aren't enough to tell how much I learned from him,but thanks to all he taught me and he eventually made me become a stronger person to face life and whatever life offers me best or worse.
My mother taught me how to enrich my life spiritually which I really appreciate and I'm happy that I was born to her because,she taught me that enriching my life spiritually can make you a happier and more humble person than normal.She also taught me how to look at things in a wider view then being biased which in turn made me think more intelligently.She also taught me that a girl has many roles to play in her life time and many duties to do and how I should adjust mentally to each of those roles and do my duties correctly.
I'm grateful to my parents because they never made me feel sad. They always gave me what I wanted but they had their limits so I didn't turn out to be a spoiled person.Most of all they taught me many things that will always come in handy in this crazy ride of life.I'm the most luckiest person to have had such amazing and wonderful parents.
Talking of my father he was always the hard and tough person in a very positive way,his motto was when the going gets tough the tough get going.I've seen him never give up any time on his life or letting us down. He taught me to be strong. I learned that life will always be hard but if you keep your head straight, and to always think wise,be confident and not to give up cause you can always win life.
He taught me another great lesson,that nothing is given to us on a gold plate from the moment we're born.We should thrive and work hard to get where we want to.The golden lesson I value most is what you give society is what you back in return,so do justice in every day in your life then we won't regret any day of our lives and life will always treat us well.Yet again my father had a funny way of thinking about life.He said when we're born happiness and sadness are just facts of life so be ready to face them as they come and don't be led down by sadness or be over whelmed by happiness. I never understood what he meant by it but now I know what he meant.We have to learn to accept the only true facts in life but not get caught in it but keep on moving and learn to live the life.
Well words aren't enough to tell how much I learned from him,but thanks to all he taught me and he eventually made me become a stronger person to face life and whatever life offers me best or worse.
My mother taught me how to enrich my life spiritually which I really appreciate and I'm happy that I was born to her because,she taught me that enriching my life spiritually can make you a happier and more humble person than normal.She also taught me how to look at things in a wider view then being biased which in turn made me think more intelligently.She also taught me that a girl has many roles to play in her life time and many duties to do and how I should adjust mentally to each of those roles and do my duties correctly.
I'm grateful to my parents because they never made me feel sad. They always gave me what I wanted but they had their limits so I didn't turn out to be a spoiled person.Most of all they taught me many things that will always come in handy in this crazy ride of life.I'm the most luckiest person to have had such amazing and wonderful parents.
WE MUST FIRST..
Well, I read many threads here and blogs and I think first thing we must do it first is to accept ourselves how we are phisically and phisically in a word to be optimistic,because if we are not pleased by us like person,how we can start to look other person to like her?We must like by ourselves first to be optimistic ,trustful in ourselves and then ready to find a person to like her .Love is when u accept yourself and the person whom u choose how he/she is and u don't want to change him/her,but u love him/her how he/she is for what he/she is,because every person is special in his/her way.
Clarion Clark
She is a scam person.. beware!
She wil befriend and then ask you for money.
She claims a hard luck story.
She wil befriend and then ask you for money.
She claims a hard luck story.
The "Thunderbolt"
Something both very exciting and terrifying has happened to me over the past weekend. I got hit by the "Thunderbolt". No, I didn't get struck by lightning. Here's the story:
Utilizing my online levels of dating, I made contact with a woman, exchanged messages and phone calls, and we met for the first time on Saturday. She came to my karate class' rank testing. I don't know exactly when she entered the gym, but when I first saw her, I got hit by the "Thunderbolt".
I'll try and describe the "Thunderbolt" as best as I can. I took the term from Mario Puzo's famous novel "The Godfather". He used it to describe the Michael Corleone's intense emotions upon meeting an Italian village girl named Apollonia.
To me, the "Thunderbolt" is a cross between getting punched in the stomach and having someone gently stroke your hair. It simply takes your breath away. There's a sort of breathless shock and then an overwhelming feeling of panic like getting hit hard in the gut, but at the same time you sort of like it and you don't want it to stop. After a second you realize that unlike a punch to the stomach, you're not fighting to breathe; you're just refusing to breathe in an attempt to slow down time because you know with each passing breath precious moments are flying by you.
As I mentioned before it is a wonderful yet horrifying experience. Wonderful in the sense that it's good to feel this sort of intense positive emotion, and horrifying in the sense that I'm scared that she may never feel the same way about me. I've only had this feeling once before for a woman and it was for my soon to be ex-wife, so you can imagine that I'm feeling really conflicted right now. The Thunderbolt is not just raw s*xual energy either. It's a sense of permanence. My heart leaps at the thought of us having a future together but it simultaneously breaks at the thought of future without her. I'll do my best to take things in stride and try to make her happy while protecting myself. I guess Love is a gamble just like everything else.
THAT IS ALL
Utilizing my online levels of dating, I made contact with a woman, exchanged messages and phone calls, and we met for the first time on Saturday. She came to my karate class' rank testing. I don't know exactly when she entered the gym, but when I first saw her, I got hit by the "Thunderbolt".
I'll try and describe the "Thunderbolt" as best as I can. I took the term from Mario Puzo's famous novel "The Godfather". He used it to describe the Michael Corleone's intense emotions upon meeting an Italian village girl named Apollonia.
To me, the "Thunderbolt" is a cross between getting punched in the stomach and having someone gently stroke your hair. It simply takes your breath away. There's a sort of breathless shock and then an overwhelming feeling of panic like getting hit hard in the gut, but at the same time you sort of like it and you don't want it to stop. After a second you realize that unlike a punch to the stomach, you're not fighting to breathe; you're just refusing to breathe in an attempt to slow down time because you know with each passing breath precious moments are flying by you.
As I mentioned before it is a wonderful yet horrifying experience. Wonderful in the sense that it's good to feel this sort of intense positive emotion, and horrifying in the sense that I'm scared that she may never feel the same way about me. I've only had this feeling once before for a woman and it was for my soon to be ex-wife, so you can imagine that I'm feeling really conflicted right now. The Thunderbolt is not just raw s*xual energy either. It's a sense of permanence. My heart leaps at the thought of us having a future together but it simultaneously breaks at the thought of future without her. I'll do my best to take things in stride and try to make her happy while protecting myself. I guess Love is a gamble just like everything else.
THAT IS ALL
Friends..
A friend is soeone true and for real
A friend is someone who meansa great deal,
A friend won't hurt you,
A friend won't lie
A friend will never permanently say good bye
A friend is there through the good times and bad times
A friend is there to cheer you up when you're sad
A friend is always there witha shoulder to cry on,
A friend is always there there that you can rely on
So friend, if you ever need someone honest true
Just remeber I'll always be there for you.
A friend is someone who meansa great deal,
A friend won't hurt you,
A friend won't lie
A friend will never permanently say good bye
A friend is there through the good times and bad times
A friend is there to cheer you up when you're sad
A friend is always there witha shoulder to cry on,
A friend is always there there that you can rely on
So friend, if you ever need someone honest true
Just remeber I'll always be there for you.
Focus on Strengths
Don't invest time shoring up non-character flaws at the exclusion of investing in your strengths. People operating from postion of strengh enjoy a far lower rate of failure than those laboring in areas of weakness.You're built to give your talents to the world; be diligent about finding expressions for them in your career.
IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH COMPLEX
John 15: 1"(A)I am the true vine, and My Father is the (B)vinedresser. 2"Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.
3"(C)You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. 4"(D)Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me.
5"I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he (E)bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.
6"If anyone does not abide in Me, he is (F)thrown away as a branch and dries up; and they gather them, and cast them into the fire and they are burned.
I've said it before this Chapter in the Bible is the blueprint for one's faith. Alot of people let satan just beat them down with guilt and I'm not good enough daily. Maybe a attitude or just a bad day, the enemy strikes you and targets you insanly. A mistake or maybe just not being up to par for people.
Where does this lead us?>?? Well it leads to a low self esteem, depression, lost of conscience and bitterness against all positive things. I mean the bottom line of the matter is can't seek perfection but seek the Lord that's when you find truth and righteousness in Him not men.
Jesus taught righteousness with common sense parables. Abide in Me and I in you and you will bear much fruit. Well what does that mean?? Abiding in Jesus is a spiritual connection that gives us a content heart from sin alot land and guilt. When you are in connection with the Lord there is condemnation. So don't let legalism bring you down or steal your joy.
Not one is good not even one, so don't beat yourself up or even worry. Victory comes from Jesus I need you, I understand I'm a sinner and Lord I need you to mold me in your presence. That's the victory prayer and one's stability is just simply relaying on the Lord's presence Spirit to mold us who we are meant to be. Don't let life beat you up, let the Lord build you up. God sense 101
3"(C)You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. 4"(D)Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me.
5"I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he (E)bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.
6"If anyone does not abide in Me, he is (F)thrown away as a branch and dries up; and they gather them, and cast them into the fire and they are burned.
I've said it before this Chapter in the Bible is the blueprint for one's faith. Alot of people let satan just beat them down with guilt and I'm not good enough daily. Maybe a attitude or just a bad day, the enemy strikes you and targets you insanly. A mistake or maybe just not being up to par for people.
Where does this lead us?>?? Well it leads to a low self esteem, depression, lost of conscience and bitterness against all positive things. I mean the bottom line of the matter is can't seek perfection but seek the Lord that's when you find truth and righteousness in Him not men.
Jesus taught righteousness with common sense parables. Abide in Me and I in you and you will bear much fruit. Well what does that mean?? Abiding in Jesus is a spiritual connection that gives us a content heart from sin alot land and guilt. When you are in connection with the Lord there is condemnation. So don't let legalism bring you down or steal your joy.
Not one is good not even one, so don't beat yourself up or even worry. Victory comes from Jesus I need you, I understand I'm a sinner and Lord I need you to mold me in your presence. That's the victory prayer and one's stability is just simply relaying on the Lord's presence Spirit to mold us who we are meant to be. Don't let life beat you up, let the Lord build you up. God sense 101
True friendship
True friendship isn't seen with the eyes,
it is felt with the heart.
When there is trust, understanding, loyalty, and sharing.
True friendship is a rare feeling, but when it is found
It has profound impact on our well-being,
strength, and character.
True friendship does not need elaborate gifts
or spectacular events in order to be valuable or valued.
To ensure long-lasting quality and satisfaction,
true friendship only needs a few key ingredients:
Undying loyalty, unmatched understanding,
unsurpassed trust,
deep and soulful secrets, and endless sharing.
These ingredients, mixed with personality and
a sense of humor,
can make a friendship last a lifetime!
This is just a thank you, my friend, for all the
wonderful and colorful
special ingredients, You've brought to my life!
Pass this on to such a friend!
You may not have ever seen me, but you know
that I am here.
You can feel me in your heart as you enter each new day.
I will always be there for you, I am your friend.
Someone to share the good times as well as the bad.
I make no judgments by what you say,
I just listen with my heart and
Hope to be of help in anyway I can.
I will be there for you now and forever and
always please remember
I am your friend!
it is felt with the heart.
When there is trust, understanding, loyalty, and sharing.
True friendship is a rare feeling, but when it is found
It has profound impact on our well-being,
strength, and character.
True friendship does not need elaborate gifts
or spectacular events in order to be valuable or valued.
To ensure long-lasting quality and satisfaction,
true friendship only needs a few key ingredients:
Undying loyalty, unmatched understanding,
unsurpassed trust,
deep and soulful secrets, and endless sharing.
These ingredients, mixed with personality and
a sense of humor,
can make a friendship last a lifetime!
This is just a thank you, my friend, for all the
wonderful and colorful
special ingredients, You've brought to my life!
Pass this on to such a friend!
You may not have ever seen me, but you know
that I am here.
You can feel me in your heart as you enter each new day.
I will always be there for you, I am your friend.
Someone to share the good times as well as the bad.
I make no judgments by what you say,
I just listen with my heart and
Hope to be of help in anyway I can.
I will be there for you now and forever and
always please remember
I am your friend!
im going to be single forever!!!
i have yet to met anyone that is interested in me that i like as well i have not met anyone on here and the few people i have met around town that i like either dont like me or just want one thing from me and im not like that and the few that do like me i dont like. im a 19 year old mother of a 8 month old son im never going to find someone who is around my age with the same wants and needs as me or the same interest. will i ever find someone ??
Where do I begin again?
Hello CS friends,
Well I must start off that I am freshly new here and so far it has been for me a great experience! Most of my life I have been abused by my two EX~WIVES, they have both left me with 2 kids each, totaling 4 kids. I love my kids with all my heart and believe me, I have a BIG heart! All I ever wanted in life was to love and be loved in return, I get that from my babies and noone else! Now I come to this site after leaving here months ago due to no activity or responses. I have to say that i wasn't looking for a woman too far away from my location. Somehow, all of a sudden, out of nowhere, comes this beautiful lady in my mailbox! lol... We have been chatting for a short time but, wow, she seems like the most amazing lady that i have ever or will ever meet in my lifetime Located on the other side of the earth.. lol..
As if someone intended for this to happen. I believe that she feels the same way that i do, "hoping". Does anyone believe that this sort of thing could happen this way? I'm awstruck by the whole turn of events! Could it be the ONE for me? I will tell you this, if she isn't the one, then there probably is noone for me ): Now im not saying im in love or anything like that but she is just amazing to me and she is real as real can be. Am i only dreaming?
If this is a dream please dont wake me! When we first met, i thought she was a model looking to turn me over to her web site, then the thoughts of her being a model?
Has anyone on here ever had this kind of excitement before? I get all warm and fuzzy feeling when i just open her emails or when we are chatting together. Yes she knows how i feel about her, i am an honest man, i have to be, raising 4 children and doing it right! Will this work? I would love some input from my fellow CS'ers
Hmmm that didnt sound right but you get the picture..
You know who you are! If you are feeling the same, I would love to start off with some kind of commitment. I've never done this before, but here goes nothing or everything!
I would LOVE to have you as my girlfriend, you are smart, witty, funny, caring, beautiful, and there when i need you. You have a great personality that i would welcome into my family when the time is right.
this is just a little bit of how you make me feel. So what do you think? Where will we go from here? Please tell me if im being too honest or too fast. Im not asking you to love me as of yet. But we have to start somewhere
"GOD BLESS YOU KRISHA"
Well I must start off that I am freshly new here and so far it has been for me a great experience! Most of my life I have been abused by my two EX~WIVES, they have both left me with 2 kids each, totaling 4 kids. I love my kids with all my heart and believe me, I have a BIG heart! All I ever wanted in life was to love and be loved in return, I get that from my babies and noone else! Now I come to this site after leaving here months ago due to no activity or responses. I have to say that i wasn't looking for a woman too far away from my location. Somehow, all of a sudden, out of nowhere, comes this beautiful lady in my mailbox! lol... We have been chatting for a short time but, wow, she seems like the most amazing lady that i have ever or will ever meet in my lifetime Located on the other side of the earth.. lol..
As if someone intended for this to happen. I believe that she feels the same way that i do, "hoping". Does anyone believe that this sort of thing could happen this way? I'm awstruck by the whole turn of events! Could it be the ONE for me? I will tell you this, if she isn't the one, then there probably is noone for me ): Now im not saying im in love or anything like that but she is just amazing to me and she is real as real can be. Am i only dreaming?
If this is a dream please dont wake me! When we first met, i thought she was a model looking to turn me over to her web site, then the thoughts of her being a model?
Has anyone on here ever had this kind of excitement before? I get all warm and fuzzy feeling when i just open her emails or when we are chatting together. Yes she knows how i feel about her, i am an honest man, i have to be, raising 4 children and doing it right! Will this work? I would love some input from my fellow CS'ers Hmmm that didnt sound right but you get the picture.. You know who you are! If you are feeling the same, I would love to start off with some kind of commitment. I've never done this before, but here goes nothing or everything!
I would LOVE to have you as my girlfriend, you are smart, witty, funny, caring, beautiful, and there when i need you. You have a great personality that i would welcome into my family when the time is right.
this is just a little bit of how you make me feel. So what do you think? Where will we go from here? Please tell me if im being too honest or too fast. Im not asking you to love me as of yet. But we have to start somewhere "GOD BLESS YOU KRISHA"
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