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im new at this...and finally single! Looking for a man that doesnt play head games..anyone out there please stand up!..lol

Take my hand and follow me
To that place I long to be
Take my hand and trust my way.
In that place forever stay.
Follow me toward the sand
We' ll run and play,
Hand in hand
Take my hand and hold true,
ForeverI'll stay close to you
Sesize my wordsand listen well
Then forever I will tell,
Release your heart and feeling too,
Just as I will do for you.
Trust your heartand follow me
To that place we long to be.

Live deserves to be lived!Many times we are sad we don't have love and we feel alone,but did u ever think other people don't have the most precious thing in this life the health,they don't have eyes to see the beauty of nature,or they don't have legs to walk,or they can't breath bec of heart,so I think if we are healthy we have the most precious gift from god,because the feeling of love we find it in many things like the smell of the flower,the smile of a child to listena song to walk in park ,to talk with a friend and many other beautiful things.Evry person was let on this land with a reason and every person is special in his/her way.So love your life and find the beauty of live in every thing.

"Age is a question of mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter"

i need help,since iv been on this site ,there are men in ther 27 and 35 that say that they real like me and they are looking for marriage.can a 44 old woman have men that age and it works out .help me if you know someone how is happy with a younger man.let me know .thank you and take care

Ive tried to be honest but weman seem to hear what they want to. WHATS UP

So I'm officially back on the market, and am pretty disappointed by how things have turned out.

I have met a handful of decent, sane people, but there always seems to be a deal-breaker hidden in them somewhere. In my ad, I have specified my desire for a placid temperament.
Girl #1 and I are in a drive-thru to get her a coke, and the line was too long for her and she is flipping out. Hmmm....If only I had clarified that I don't want a raging woman...oh that's right, I did.
Girl#2 listed her body type as "curvy"...which I guess means "over 200 pounds" in her book. No wonder her ad only showed "chin and above" shots. Not exactly honest. I'm certainly no Mr Universe, but c'mon...
Girl #3 was very promising. Nice personality, very laid back...until she started texting me over 100 times a day and calling over 20. No exaggeration. Can't handle that.
Girl #4 was also very nice, but on our first date she started chewing me out over some text I didn't answer of hers days earlier. And that is all we talked about the entire "date". A little early for that kinda crap, IMO.
Girl #5 was the most promising of all. We had a really strong connection, she seemed really into me, we spent the night together a few times (no hanky panky)...and then suddenly....nothing. We went from multiple conversations a day to texting once every two days....and it just sorta disappeared after that.

In all honesty, my miserable marriage to a rager was better than this crap. I have always enjoyed dating (before marriage), I love meeting new people and learning about them and every aspect...but this is highly frustrating. It's like, the best I've done so far is with a stalker and a pen pal.

Now to be fair, I have only met one person on this site, so out of respect I'm not going to write that up, but it did go over better than the above...however distance and her schedule seem to be too much to overcome.

I guess I am pretty stunned at how badly things are going.

from the time we are born we all have a piece of us missing,some find it early in life some find it late in life,some dont ever find it at all....it the love we share with our soulmates thet make us whole..give in take chances and i promise you 2 will find your missing piece

the further you walk away from the person who hurts you is a step closer to finding the happiness you seek

Last week I posted a blog about a cancelled date and that I'd given the guy 1 more chance. The date got cancelled again this time because the guy, who owns a small business was having problems with 1 of the machines to do with the business. I'm not so heartless I don't understand I do but this was the 4th date in a row that he'd cancelled. When he asked for another date I said no and told him that I didn't think it would work between us. I was as gentle as possible but he sent a text saying how much I had hurt him. I do feel sorry for him but how can I trust him not to do the same thing again? It wasn't only the cancelled dates, when I phoned him I kept getting his voicemail he wouldn't always answer my texts, for every 3 or 4 texts I sent he sent 1 and then he didn't acknowledge some of the content I put in the texts let alone answer some of the questions I asked yet he expected me to be available to answer his texts and phone calls. He'd say he would phone at a certain time and phone an hour later. How do I feel now it's over relieved. I know there are decent men out there and one day I will be lucky to meet the guy I will want to be with and share life with its ups and downs. So I will just put this down to experience and move on. I'd like to think this guy is not bad just thoughtless and wrapped up in his own world working hard to save his business. Perhaps one day when he's not so worried about his business he will find time to be with a woman as part of a partnership in life.