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what are good things to say when woman has an intrest in you? and trying not to go overbored and scare then away.

I was sort of hoping,
That you would come along,
Like the answer to a prayer,
And the music to a song.

Like the kind of thing that happens,
At a special place and time,
That will change our lives forever,
Like a fantasy of mine.

The fantasy was there before,
I ever knew your name,
And now that I have found you,
We will never be the same.

So, pardon, if I look at you,
Forgive me if I stare,
At the fantasy I knew before,
I saw you standing there.

For I was always hoping,
That you would come along,
Like the answer to a prayer,
And the music to a song

What do you do when you like someone but they think you dont, and you try to give them all the hints and let them know u do...you see i am very interested in this girl but she doesnt beleive i like her she thinks i dont want her and im not interested, i havent been with anyone for over 2years and i find it hard to get the confidence up to say how i feel. Every time i go to say it i choke and say it the wrong way and then she takes it the wrong way no matter how many times i tell her she has taken it the wrong way and that i am finding it hard to bring the right words together.....i need help i dont know what to do, also she thinks we are too different...but isnt that the point though? if we were the same there'd be no mystery, no passion no fun or feeling in the relationship. I really like her an i need to tell her how much i like her, i need to tell her she makes me weak at the knees and tht she makes me feel like i could do anything. She is like a warm breeze on a nippy afternoon and i am freezing and she wooshes up with a huge hug and warms me...(if that makes any sence) I need to let her know ....but she says the moments gone....is it....really.....can the moment go if you like someone that much? Please help me.....someone. She makes my heart skip a beat....it hurts so much that this is happening that she thinks i dont feel this for her......even after i have tried to express it.... :(

I saw a girl the other day
her eyes had flash
her hair was red
my hair is gray
feel left out of room to play
but the blood flowed
deep breaths occurred, as had been
there's that memorable sweetness in the air
now that spring is here
a young man's fancy
though I suppose that I shall forever feel it
to ever live a young man's fancy?
I will never live it again
for, I'm not a young man
it's not that I don't fancy
I've found a wonderful lover
all of our dreams are coming true
day after day after day
it's just that, at age 15
as one is filled with that rare air
a new feeling
their being becomes one of exhilarating adventure
so new, so encompassing, so alien, so welcome
a young man discovers being driven
to that love which is all possessing
it's suddenly
all that matters
this is the most beautiful part of life
when you first discover love
why can't we all feel this?
day after day after day
our whole lives through
but tis sad
one may only feel that first time
the first time
but we never forget that feeling
we miss it

Waiting to find your soul mate is frustrating!! Where are you hiding? Mean while I will just hang out here and create polls...lol!

whats up with everyone hopefully i can meet someone cool on here

Hi everyone i'm new to this whole website. so if anyone would like to talk or anything.

It’s been several years since I started writing and it has become one of those moments that I sincerely enjoy. I also enjoy hearing contrary opinions, particularly when it makes me think more about the particular subject that I’ve addressed. Of course, now and then I get one of those letters that attempts to “tell” me what I’m supposed to think because the reader feels they know me better than I know myself. Those are the kind that the delete key was born for. Mind you, I never mind being told “your wrong” as long as the commenter is willing to state their case. Some time ago I had one person that tried to associate my standing as a veteran as the reason I should think like them. They acknowledged that fighting for freedom gave me a right to my opinion, but somehow they simply could not accept that my opinion did not match their opinion. It happens! Those of us that were taught to think for ourselves rarely follow the crowd.

Good conversation? Getting more and more rare these days. I find too many have heavily peppered their conversation with the latest chic phrases that sound more like a broken record than original thought. Oh yes, I have a few of my own, but they tend to be the expressions of my now past family that were more popular in our little part of the world until I got out into the world and found that a few other communities used similar comments. “He’s trying to avoid looking like the South end of a North bound mule” and “Tain’t neither here nor there” and … I could go on for hours. They are not intended to show the ignorance of a farm boy but more like the simplicity of thought that gets an idea across in the fewer, less popular phrase. I particularly find it amusing to have a discussion with somebody that can’t seem to get past the last political infomercial. Ask them a more penetrating question about what they were just so authoritianly spouting and they look at you with that blank, 1,000 yard stare, trying to think of the answer that wasn’t in that commercial. Rarely are they inclined to look into the facts, they just keep blasting out the monolog, apparently hoping that I’ll join in. Sort of reminds me of that one commercial with a different spin; “Saw the movie, $25; Read the book; $45; Actually understood both and can talk about it …. Priceless!

Of course, the expression isn’t nearly as important as the thought behind the words. Being from a Southern upbringing there was a good deal of negative racial thoughts that flowed through our family and I was very much a willing participant until that afternoon a big black hand grabbed me by the neck and pulled me out of the spray of gunfire that killed two of my fellow soldiers; then later that day I watch the owner of that big black hand lay down his life for two white soldiers that had never had a kind word to say about him. The reality of what life was REALLY about set in and set in hard. That one great man had put it best; “it’s about the content of a mans character, not the color of his skin”. Good conversation, meaningful thought, in the least amount of words. Truly elegant.

So I was sitting here stewing about something someone wrote and thinking to myself that dumb hayseed don’t know “shi* from Shinola” and it stuck me and I started giggling. Here I was getting upset over a persons comment that doesn’t know beans about me so how could they ever hope to offer me constructive criticism when that final tidbit of wisdom that my old man drilled into my head a long time ago; “boy, you’ll learn a lot more if you keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth shut”. Yeah, that pretty well sums it up; hope they appreciate the old boys advice!

I am a very sucessful person when it comes to my career.

I am a very easy going person to get along with

However, when it comes meeting women I have not yet found the right one.
The guys at work always tease me beacuse, unlike them I dont like going to bars to meet girls. I find that those type of relatioonships dont last. Thats why for the first time I decided to try the internet.

I want a girl who has a great personality, is career mind, and enjoys spending time with me.

Maybe we can talk sometime
I'm looking for: seeking a women who is easy going, career minded,
and is fun to be with.

Age to me is just a number

hi guys im a woman that loves to cook and clean my husband died in 2002 and im wanting to get out there once agian so if you want a good woman with a big heart and a good head on her shoulder thats me