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I know being single you dont have to answer to anyone, but yourself.When it comes to living your life.I havn't dated for very long.Never got the chance for a long term relationship. My first girlfriend way back cheated on me about 1 month in.And ever since I've come close but still havnt found the right woman.Sometimes being single does suck around Christmas.Everone in my family has someone special in there lives ,but me.So sometimes I felt a little out of place.A few times my friend would be in a tough spot and because he thinks of me as a brother and I for him.My problem is I put others problems before my own.I lost out on a possible good relationship because my friend got kicked out of his fathers place and since he didnt have a car needed some help so I put my life on hold to help him out.Its my own fault for losing out on it.Sometimes my father and grandfather think I'm too giving,but I cant go agianst it.Sometimes I'll quit the dating seen for a month or two.Lately its been 6 to 7 months.I probably just going to give up trying to find to that special woman to share my life with or maybe not. who knows

its a hard road to try to find love again....you must pick up the peices of ur heart and mend them back together and stand back up....dont lay down too long because the one that u really are meant for might step right over you....

I have noticed a lot of older men have been messaging me. They make it obvious that they didn't read my profile other than looking at my pictures. They don't even take the time to find out how old I am. I make it really clear what I am looking for and what I want.
Even the age group that I am interested in... you have to be in a certain area to get me really interested in you. That doesn't mean you should think that you can message me or im me when you live in another country let alone another state.
I am not looking for friendship or just a intimate encounter. I am looking for a real man that wants a serious relationship.
Someone that wants to get to know me and that will like me for who I am, and will want to be with me.
So am I the only one that takes this seriously?

wow 3 girls on here btwn 18 and 30, within 50 miles. that dont have kids are arent married, that is. i guess it is called connecting singles, not, connecting you with someone you want to date.

what do you do with a guy that cant get over you???

Hello love,

Today just like always, i got into this thinking mood, and thought of writing to blog, just get out of the pain and the loneliness.

Thought of the old times, when I used to cook for you just wanting you to enjoy things you loved most. the bitter gourd sambols, sambols with garlic, eggs and other types of what you liked best. I thought of the times I used to wake up in earnest, to make sure I had enough time to prepare all, so you will have a decent meal.

Oh,,i went to buy a few things yesterday, and I couldnt help the tears that threatened to fall from time to time when I remembered buying something for you. a shirt, shoes, a pair of trousers, darling it mattered so much that i was able to buy you something every year, after knowing you.

you were my hero, the wind beneath my wings, and you never really knew it that well. today, there is silence in the house, and i think of the times you were here with me. what we did, how we fought at times. i also think of the times when i made you feel bad in this house as well. i did not do all that on purpose, but I feel sad that they happened.

you suspected me of so many things, and so the fights were at times endless. but i didn't sleep with anyone else or love anyone else darling. that was what you did. you seem to be quite free now, and i could smile when i think of what you must be doing with all the ladies you have met from these sites, and outside this world but very much close to your world. your stress must be gone now, no more harsh words to utter, right?

I wonder if it is time for me to let someone hold me close??????????? I havent had any warmth in my life for over a year now, and it is unbearbale at times. But what do I do to stop thinking of you? Will another help?

today and always I wish you happiness my dark angel, I was tempted to chat with you when I saw you on line, but held back, because it would serve no purpose. you are what you are, and you wont live without all this fun you are having now.
I wish you luck and May you have the strength to face life with confidence.

I wonder if you have passed your finals. May be you have, you deserve the success, you worked so hard on everything you did.

take care my precious angel,

where ever I may happen to roam, I will be thinking of you.
always, each moment I live. If only it were easy to tell someone new i love him, and get into his arms the way you did and do, I wouldn't be writing like this.

love and blessings

Wife: You always carry my photo in your handbag to the office. Why?
Hubby: When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears.
Wife: You see, how miraculous and powerful I am for you?
Hubby: Yes, I see your picture and say to myself, “What other problem can there be greater than this one?”

"Write it on your heart
that every day is the best day in the year.
He is rich who owns the day,
and no one owns the day
who allows it to be invaded with fret and anxiety.
Finish every day and be done with it.
You have done what you could.
Some blunders and absurdities, no doubt, crept in.
Forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a
new day;
begin it well and serenely,
with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense.
This new day is too dear, with its hopes and invitations,
to waste a moment on the yesterdays..."


~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are, or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes in life, things may happen to you that seem horrible, painful, and unfair, but in reflection, you find that without overcoming those obstacles, you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. "If you want a rainbow, you have to put up with the rain."

Everything happens for a reason, nothing by chance or by means of luck, it happens because it is meant to be. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road leading to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, yet dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet that will affect your life, will be the success and downfalls you experience though out life, they are who will help you create the person you will grow to become, even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are the most important experiences because, "Failure teaches success."

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open you heart, how you must only give to the ones who are worthy of being loyal.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because in a way they are teaching you about how to love, have trust and about loyalty. Give them that chance to give and receive what they deserve for and from you. "Everything in life is temporary because everything changes, that's why it takes great courage to love, knowing it might end anytime, but having the faith that it will last forever."

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything you possibly can because that may be the only time in your life you will ever have that experience.

Meet new people you have never met before, talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen to what they have to say, it might teach you something valuable, but always remember who your true friends are, "A true friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words".

Let yourself live, love, and break free, make no boundaries, for you can accomplish anything as long as your heart is into it. This is your life, you run the show! Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a special individual and there is no other out there the same as you. Believe in yourself, for it will be hard for others to believe in you. "If you don't stand up for something, you will fall for anything". You are in control and you can create your own life, so take chances, and go out and live it with absolutely no regret. "The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be".

Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow will bring. Don't let one moment pass because it could change you forever. Don't ever fear life, because "What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger". Learn a valuable lesson in each day that you live. "The rich person is not who has the most but who needs the least". Life is too short to take seriously, so remember to begin each day with a smile, "Never frown, because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile.

The best way to be joyful in life is to do an act of Good Will daily to someone who is in need. Could be giving something physical, or helping one with a psychological problem, a prayer for someone in need, even just a loving smile to a stranger. Try to avoid harmful emotions like anger,fear, frustration,irritation and most of all a bad habit we all like to indulge with is: Gossip with no sense at all . One can replace these with positive, loving thoughts, or some sort of constructive thinking. Try to keep life as simple as possible, it is what you need that counts most, not what you want. What goes around comes around, so invest in the good and beautiful. Try to live your true Divine inner self, especially towards your human brothers and sisters and animals too, this is our responsibility as humans. Earth is a school where we develop consciousness and Divinity, as yet a potential. Many blessings.