He hurt me, but my love is bigger than my anger. (42)
heavensmile: Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
I still love him
Yes.
You will always regret if you don't try one more time.
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Some people deserve what they get.. 
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
It seems you are looking for a partner,
in a Dating site.like this one.
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Mbak Heavensmile
Reading your story you ask the forum about decision to accept him back after
what he has done to you.. right? I dont think this is wise idea for you because
we dont know exactly your real love story is.
Yes he is cheated on you because he has other girl.
Even he is honest with you and telling all his regrets, do you think you are able to forget ,accept him and get along with him and her shadow ?
I think if he really loves you and cares about you
even though you are busy as hell he will not leave you for another woman.
In opposites he shuld support your career as a bussiness person.
Love is a commitment.
Ask yourself if you really love him, you take the risk and consequences and let him back to you. What happened in the future is your own choice
But if you want to open your horizones, just move on, leave him, set your
self free , your love will never dies and lookin for a better person who really loves you and respect you.
You deserve for happiness mbak heavensmile :-)
Reading your story you ask the forum about decision to accept him back after
what he has done to you.. right? I dont think this is wise idea for you because
we dont know exactly your real love story is.
Yes he is cheated on you because he has other girl.
Even he is honest with you and telling all his regrets, do you think you are able to forget ,accept him and get along with him and her shadow ?
I think if he really loves you and cares about you
even though you are busy as hell he will not leave you for another woman.
In opposites he shuld support your career as a bussiness person.
Love is a commitment.
Ask yourself if you really love him, you take the risk and consequences and let him back to you. What happened in the future is your own choice
But if you want to open your horizones, just move on, leave him, set your
self free , your love will never dies and lookin for a better person who really loves you and respect you.
You deserve for happiness mbak heavensmile :-)
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yubba: .
Unlucky number 13 I would kick him in to touch and get another like you all normally do in Indonesia.
Unlucky number 13 I would kick him in to touch and get another like you all normally do in Indonesia.
That is a bit cheeky what does that mean like you all do in Indonesia what would you know, do you live there
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
The decision to forgive him and take him back is up to you.
You already make excuses for his cheating on your need to work and not be around to pander to his needs.
Maybe he should do more work, or get a hobby, instead of cheating on you to pass the time
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KremaP: Not yet lub...but will have you in mind...
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The back of it.
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larna1: That is a bit cheeky what does that mean like you all do in Indonesia what would you know, do you live there
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Yes.
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No.
Respect yourself if you want to be respected by others. He should have talked to you and no cheating.
If you still love him after knowing he cheated on you then you need to work in yourself. He didn´t count on you, he prefer to go away and find anyone else...is that ok?
But, I do not have all info and you do, you come first, just do not forget it and think clearly ...as if the story wasn´t yours, it will provide you the perfect state of mind to see things in perspective and less emotionally involved.
Love yourself, then love others.
Good luck on that
Respect yourself if you want to be respected by others. He should have talked to you and no cheating.
If you still love him after knowing he cheated on you then you need to work in yourself. He didn´t count on you, he prefer to go away and find anyone else...is that ok?
But, I do not have all info and you do, you come first, just do not forget it and think clearly ...as if the story wasn´t yours, it will provide you the perfect state of mind to see things in perspective and less emotionally involved.
Love yourself, then love others.
Good luck on that
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
From what you have to say it would be silly not to give him another chance!
People have affairs for many reasons but it has nothing to do with the other partner, it is something missing within the cheater. Since you both broke up he may have sorted out his issues and matured a bit. Start back as if it is a new relationship, (forget the old one) arrange date nights, learn to trust and get to know each other in a different light. If he disrespects you and cheats again, then there should be no back.... Best of luck.
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He's ready to leave her and come back to you?
He betrayed your trust going to her and now he:'s betraying her trust trying to go back to you?
He hasn't learned not to hurt you yet. He will do it again. He is about to do it to another woman with your help if you let him back.
He betrayed your trust going to her and now he:'s betraying her trust trying to go back to you?
He hasn't learned not to hurt you yet. He will do it again. He is about to do it to another woman with your help if you let him back.
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
Is this really a good thing to bring up in a dating site?
Oh well, Hillary r Clinton didn’t kick slick Willy to the curb so you can also make up your own mind and possibly do the same...
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MsContessa: From what you have to say it would be silly not to give him another chance!
People have affairs for many reasons but it has nothing to do with the other partner, it is something missing within the cheater. Since you both broke up he may have sorted out his issues and matured a bit. Start back as if it is a new relationship, (forget the old one) arrange date nights, learn to trust and get to know each other in a different light. If he disrespects you and cheats again, then there should be no back.... Best of luck.
People have affairs for many reasons but it has nothing to do with the other partner, it is something missing within the cheater. Since you both broke up he may have sorted out his issues and matured a bit. Start back as if it is a new relationship, (forget the old one) arrange date nights, learn to trust and get to know each other in a different light. If he disrespects you and cheats again, then there should be no back.... Best of luck.
Probably the most mature answer and way of looking at it MsContessa.
People fail to realise that we are all human.
Treat others as u would like to be treated.
So if ur unwilling to give someone a second chance then u better live your own life pretty close to perfect their is ....lest u need a second chance yourself.
To Heaven.
You dont need our advice....just silence ur mind and listen to ur own heart...
If you both r willing to put in the work to make it work then more power to ye and wish ye both a happy life either together or apart.
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Deedee123x: Probably the most mature answer and way of looking at it MsContessa.
People fail to realise that we are all human.
Treat others as u would like to be treated.
So if ur unwilling to give someone a second chance then u better live your own life pretty close to perfect their is ....lest u need a second chance yourself.
To Heaven.
You dont need our advice....just silence ur mind and listen to ur own heart...
If you both r willing to put in the work to make it work then more power to ye and wish ye both a happy life either together or apart.
People fail to realise that we are all human.
Treat others as u would like to be treated.
So if ur unwilling to give someone a second chance then u better live your own life pretty close to perfect their is ....lest u need a second chance yourself.
To Heaven.
You dont need our advice....just silence ur mind and listen to ur own heart...
If you both r willing to put in the work to make it work then more power to ye and wish ye both a happy life either together or apart.
Exactly... nobody needs to win every relationship battle for the sake of winning. To err is to be human and if they love each other, as she says they do, then why not give it a second chance. It takes a far stronger person to accept someone that has broken their heart/trust than the one that throws in the towel in defeat.
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MsContessa: Exactly... nobody needs to win every relationship battle for the sake of winning. To err is to be human and if they love each other, as she says they do, then why not give it a second chance. It takes a far stronger person to accept someone that has broken their heart/trust than the one that throws in the towel in defeat.
Absolutely.
To err is human, to forgive divine!!
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
Hum .... You can buy chocolate in pharmacy too.
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Thanks all, for the advices. you are very kind and caring.
Will take it on my consideration.
Learn manything about love, trust, care and respect.
Thanks
Will take it on my consideration.
Learn manything about love, trust, care and respect.
Thanks
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heavensmile: He has other, its painfull when our trust get hurt.
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
But its also my mistake, coz too busy with business schedule, have not enough time for him.
He still care a lot, as i do the same.
We really care each other, i realize that he really everything for me.
He also dont want without me.
i respect his honest.
what do I do?
He ready to left her n come back to me.
Should I give him second chance?
I still love him
I don't know - are your business pressures likely to change? because if you were too busy for him before, soon enough you will be too busy again and wondering whether he is looking around again. Or you will put your career on the back burner for his sake and end up resenting him for holding you back.
Still, 13 years is a long time to invest in a relationship. Difficult one.
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Lookin4missright: Has the other woman given him HERPIES, SYPHILIS ... Why not take him back, he sounds cool
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2 month, n he tell me 2 days back