Which One Is The Worst ? (34)
Number 3 is the worse by having regrets with wrong paths and decisions I made..I've made blunders but hey that won't have me looking at the next man as the last man I stuffed up with..If you can't get past the past then stop wasting mens time because your scared to get hurt again...
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Yes, life is difficult. No-one can make these decisions for you. 
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Mercedes_00: Number 3 is the worse by having regrets with wrong paths and decisions I made..I've made blunders but hey that won't have me looking at the next man as the last man I stuffed up with..If you can't get past the past then stop wasting mens time because your scared to get hurt again...
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All other things equal trusting is preferable. Fortune favours the brave.
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In the first example, you are doing a disservice to both you and your partner.
In the second example, it is actually quite rare for a partner to not have an inkling that their partner is not being faithful. Some chose to turn a blind eye in the hope it will fizzle out as they want to stay in their relationship.
But if it does happen that they were totally fooled, then only the partner has done wrong.
If we can't allow ourselves to trust, we can never have a real relationship.
In the second example, it is actually quite rare for a partner to not have an inkling that their partner is not being faithful. Some chose to turn a blind eye in the hope it will fizzle out as they want to stay in their relationship.
But if it does happen that they were totally fooled, then only the partner has done wrong.
If we can't allow ourselves to trust, we can never have a real relationship.
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I think that I know the difference between 'blind' and trusting ... I had a friend who wanted to be blind .... she didn't want to know ... it wasn't because she trusted, it was because she knew she wouldn't like the answer if she asked the question...
As far as I'm concerned if I trust someone and they betray that trust, it reflects on them and not me. I'll feel upset but not belittled by their actions.
On the subject of not trusting, it depends what causes the doubts. If the other person is acting in a way to raise doubts then that would explain the mistrust. If they don't then I need to look at where it stems from. Is it gut instinct or is it an unhealed wound I need to look at...
In both scenarios there's stuff we may need to own
As far as I'm concerned if I trust someone and they betray that trust, it reflects on them and not me. I'll feel upset but not belittled by their actions.
On the subject of not trusting, it depends what causes the doubts. If the other person is acting in a way to raise doubts then that would explain the mistrust. If they don't then I need to look at where it stems from. Is it gut instinct or is it an unhealed wound I need to look at...
In both scenarios there's stuff we may need to own
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i understand the situations you are describing.
for me, it's a bit different.
my trust is an inside job. trust is about me trusting me. all the rest comes after.
sooo...
in answer to your question, i think the not trusting myself would be the bigger regret.
for me, it's a bit different.
my trust is an inside job. trust is about me trusting me. all the rest comes after.
sooo...
in answer to your question, i think the not trusting myself would be the bigger regret.
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Love is logic. Apply the math and you do it right like dancing on your head with a toothpick in your mouth and with straws in your nose. Love is desirable so Regret only if you do not love.
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I say, listen to your gut instincts.
Best wishes
Best wishes
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What do you mean by saying doubt?
Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
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never now,when younger let me heart rule me head,doubt a woman,if met me would feel same,in her mature year's
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I'd rather love till I find evidence that proves cheating 100%....then I'd be gone without a conversation....
I wouldn't break up with someone if I merely had the thought they were, that's not me...I'd have to have the proof....so it's worse to misjudge someone wrongly and then make a drastic decision on a whim.
I wouldn't regret loving someone and then them cheating on me...the bad is at his door not mine....but I'd be gone...child or no child.
I wouldn't break up with someone if I merely had the thought they were, that's not me...I'd have to have the proof....so it's worse to misjudge someone wrongly and then make a drastic decision on a whim.
I wouldn't regret loving someone and then them cheating on me...the bad is at his door not mine....but I'd be gone...child or no child.
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As a one off, it's better to cut and run.
There's more than one person in the world to have a good relationship with.
But if we're talking about always trusting or never trusting.
Trusting everyone you fall in love with would risk a bad outcome, never trusting guarantees a bad outcome.
There's more than one person in the world to have a good relationship with.
But if we're talking about always trusting or never trusting.
Trusting everyone you fall in love with would risk a bad outcome, never trusting guarantees a bad outcome.
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stranger1978: What do you mean by saying doubt?
Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
What is this?Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
A new woman bashing phase?
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Selenite: What is this?
A new woman bashing phase?
OMG!A new woman bashing phase?
She won't leave me alone and saying what I want
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stranger1978: OMG!
She won't leave me alone and saying what I want
The expression :She won't leave me alone and saying what I want
Women mentallity!
Has nothing to do with saying what you want. ...
It is implying there is something deffective with women mentality...
Now if you can explain to me in what way that particular comment is an expression of what you want, then I'll apologise.
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Selenite: The expression :
Women mentallity!
Has nothing to do with saying what you want. ...
It is implying there is something deffective with women mentality...
Now if you can explain to me in what way that particular comment is an expression of what you want, then I'll apologise.
OKWomen mentallity!
Has nothing to do with saying what you want. ...
It is implying there is something deffective with women mentality...
Now if you can explain to me in what way that particular comment is an expression of what you want, then I'll apologise.
I won't say that again
Happy now?
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stranger1978: OK
I won't say that again
Happy now?
Super happy! I won't say that again
Happy now?
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Selenite: Super happy!
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Wassup?
I wasn't being sarcastic
I wasn't being sarcastic
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Selenite: Wassup?
I wasn't being sarcastic
Nächste MalI wasn't being sarcastic
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stranger1978: Nächste Mal
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stranger1978: What do you mean by saying doubt?
Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
Buddy you got it totally wrong !! The examples were totally hypothetical based on imaginary people which could be applied to anyone , men or women or even transgenders... Judging people based on doubts ?
Seriously?
And now you regret that?
I just don't understand ?
Women mentality!
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Mercedes_00: Number 3 is the worse by having regrets with wrong paths and decisions I made..I've made blunders but hey that won't have me looking at the next man as the last man I stuffed up with..If you can't get past the past then stop wasting mens time because your scared to get hurt again...
That is (close to) what I was going to write, but you saved me typing...
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mollybaby: In the first example, you are doing a disservice to both you and your partner.
In the second example, it is actually quite rare for a partner to not have an inkling that their partner is not being faithful. Some chose to turn a blind eye in the hope it will fizzle out as they want to stay in their relationship.
But if it does happen that they were totally fooled, then only the partner has done wrong.
If we can't allow ourselves to trust, we can never have a real relationship.
In the second example, it is actually quite rare for a partner to not have an inkling that their partner is not being faithful. Some chose to turn a blind eye in the hope it will fizzle out as they want to stay in their relationship.
But if it does happen that they were totally fooled, then only the partner has done wrong.
If we can't allow ourselves to trust, we can never have a real relationship.
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choices huh
we got choices huh?
i choose to want more choices.
we got choices huh?
i choose to want more choices.
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Mercedes_00: Number 3 is the worse by having regrets with wrong paths and decisions I made..I've made blunders but hey that won't have me looking at the next man as the last man I stuffed up with..If you can't get past the past then stop wasting mens time because your scared to get hurt again...
I don't see 3 scenariosMy vote that #2 is the worst
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Tanzila....it's six of one and a half dozen of the other but for the most part, it's all about risk and whether one trusts oneself to take the risk and to accept that in life, every choice we make comes with some element of risk. Sometimes we allow our fears to dictate to the extent that we cheat ourselves out of happiness and yes, sometimes grief over bad choices but that is what life is all about. Live, love and learn. 
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neither....one has nothing to do with me and the other i would have made the best choice for me at the time with the information i had....no need for regret in either situation......
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secretagent09: I don't see 3 scenarios
My vote that #2 is the worst
Regret isn't in my DNA it's so much healthier not to have regrets running through ones veins in my bookMy vote that #2 is the worst
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Created: Jan 2020
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Which One Is The Worst ?(Vote Below)
Suppose you were in a relationship but you had serious doubt about your partner that he/she was cheating on you and so you broke up with him/her.. But after sometime you realised that it was torally a wrong idea and you actually did a huge mistake by doubting about your partners' loyalty when he/she was actually deeply and sincerely in love with only you... But then it was too late to rectify your mistake...
And now You will REGRET FOR NOT TRUSTING for the rest of your life...
In another case suppose you were deeply in love with someone and you trusted that he/she was in love with you too... But one day he/she left you and that time you realised that your partner never really loved you at all.. And So now You will REGRET FOR TRUSTING for the rest of your life...
So now I am asking you all , according to you , which one of these two situation is worst ?
Will be waiting for all of yours valuable opinions... Have a great weekend ...